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I know people who have gotten attention unbidden from women. Ie
>number written on coffee cup going through the sbux drive through
>girl smiles at them out of nowhere at a concert
I've gotten buff, had my hair short, had my hair long--nothing has ever made a difference. I am always invisible. I don't believe a single female has ever expressed positive feelings towards me to any degree. Whenever a friend shares a story where some girl came on to them, I always get incredibly sad because it hasn't happened to me. What the fuck do I do? I'm sick of feeling hopeless, and I don't like getting upset just because something good happened to a friend.
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>I don't believe
>What the fuck do I do?
start believing, unironicly.
are you healthy, your mind and body? are you not jacking ya dick for at least a few months?
a friend of me and i myself, tested a hypothesis.
>tldr not wasting ur coom makes women interested in you.
also confidence in yourself is making women interested in you.
even if you dont have any, fake it till you makeit then.

if ur healthy (healthy looks, trimmed nails, washed face and hair not a fatty fuck) and dont masturbated for at least a few months
>I've gotten buff
and still dont got any attention, then its your mind and mindset. u worked out yer body, but your mind stood put and weak. mind over matter you noob.

also why would you post this gaylord? arnie did gay stuff to get into biz. are you gay? no? then cease posting unreflected shit.
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>>34624605
Seems like you're too insular. You gotta loosen up around women. Just imagine of someone came up to you all stiff and too afraid for no reason. You'd think that person is a drain to be around.

I remember in high school I'd feel that way. Getting through college I broke out of my shell after hitting dives bars, going to frat parties, going to clubs and even the occasional strip club visit.

Basically going through a bunch of different social groupings as an adult I've come to realize that you don't need to be perfect around people and that you shouldn't need permission to become comfortable in your own skin. You just have to be aware of yourself and express fully your intentions.

Whether its fingering strippers, getting drunk with your buddies in a bar, picking uo chicks in a frat house or just chilling. Whatever it is be okay with you, then you'll act how you need to in the setting. Ofcourse mistakes happen and thats not the end of the world. I've been in bar fights, some strippers are out of their mind and sometimes the girl you want to pick up passes out in the party before anything happens.
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comparison is the thief of joy, you ugly mug
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>>34624605
Stop trying to achieve the same results that he gets because you are not him. You can still be successful but your strategy has to be different.



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