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How do you keep going as a non tall non attractive male in this hellhole society? I genuinely try everything in my power to not be blackpilled but it keeps slapping me in the face. I will probably rope by 30 at this rate.
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I mean, there is other things you could focus on besides sex or dating.
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>>34624774
>How do you keep going as a non tall non attractive male in this hellhole society?
Cope by building stuff and learning things and knowing I won't ever get bitches.
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>>34624793
non of them matter
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First of all, the height thing is literally a psy op. I’m 6’3” (I think that’s about 190 cm in brown people units) and it has never helped me with women. On the flip side, I know several guys with triple digit body counts and they are all under 6’. It’s all face and frame, if you’re tall and ugly you might score occasionally but you’ll come off like Lurch from the Addams family to 99% of women.
Second, you need to find a wild dream to pursue, something that will occupy your headspace 24/7. The truth is most people don’t have dreams at all, let alone the courage to pursue them. Most people just want to raise a family and work a job that gives them enough to live out their existence on this mortal coil. And that’s fine, like the species wouldn’t continue if we didn’t follow our biological imperative, but humans are special because we have the agency to choose whether we act on our instincts. We can choose to find meaning in things other than reproduction and spawning, but the trick is it has to be something you’re so obsessed with that it overrides the same signals that your body usually uses to drive you to find a mate and provide for your offspring. Yes, the economy is fake and gay, society is on the brink of collapse, etc etc, but I think that just means there’s never been a better time to go completely sicko psycho on something. If you fail you can just become a street person and milk the welfare state.
So yeah, my recommendation is to go do something and stop thinking about women. If nothing else, it is a peaceful life.
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>>34624863
I like you
Lets start a radical organization
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>>34624903
>Lets start a radical organization
NTA but, what are "we" going to do?
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>>34624863
>brown people units
You mean, the rest of the world including Europe? Also, America has more brown people than Europe and even some South American countries.
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>>34624903
Oh, why thank you!
>Lets start a radical organization
Not gonna dox myself, but if my life plans for the next 5-10 years go how I want then you’ll know who I am and how to become a part of what I’m trying to build
I have a better chance of winning the mega millions probably, and I sound like a schizophrenic hobo, but
>ONE LIFE, IT’S WORTH AN ATTEMPT
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>>34624825
Really? You don't even have a hobby that you like to do? Do men live like this?
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>>34624774
Idk man, you just learn to reconcile with it and move on. You get lost in productive hobbies that you find fulfilling and just learn to enjoy the simple things in life and to stop worrying about things you can't change
It will happen in around 30 when your brain fully matures. That is if you don't rope yourself by then or null your mind with meds and substances

I'm 29. Im gonna be a wizard in a couple of months and the way I see it, i'll have plenty of time in the ground when I'm gone. We're all heading the same place anyways, it doesn't matter. So let it fucking go. Live with a light heart, make the most you can out of life knowing that it isn't for ever. Once you take that mindset, you will find that positive nihilism transforms into something much more deeper and profound. Life can be full of meaning again

But ultimately, it isn't a choice to think like this or not to. It is a biochemical phenomenon you are going through and you're just going to have to hold on and let the long storm pass. There are things you can do to help, like the hobby idea I told you. But it isn't a cure, it's an aid and a griphold and a foundation for when you come out of it

Life doesn't go the way we wanted for most people. For some, it is different struggles. Some get hit worse than others. But you stick it out and look after yourself and you will overcome. That's all, really
You can dismiss this as me being dismissive, but it is the only true answer. It isn't an answer you wanted, but what else is there? You know that there isn't one easy fix. That's life. Just keep going no matter what
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>>34625015
And on the hobby note
There are things that can give you a lust for life. There are things that can get you interested in and participating in life again. it is going to be something different for everyone. You know better yourself what you find interesting. Or what you can potentially find interesting when your long term depression lifts finally
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>>34624774
The social contract is broken. Be shameless.
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>>34624774
Be attractive in some other way. Be charming or entertaining or interesting or funny or caring or rich or successful or charismatic or...
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>>34624774
Bronacho attractivity is worth nothing as a man. It’s about how you show up, some guys go to the gym, others dress well and take on the role of the "alternative" one
I have a lot of potential but I don't make that effort, my friends who do get laid



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