What are girls' thoughts on guys who had sex but never dated? Do they hate them as much as they hate incels?I turn 30 in 9 months btw
>>34627621A girl who is actually your friend or friend to lover or a girl you want to date WILL NOT CARE. She will be supportive, caring and fun.
girls don't blanket hate either and have individual preferences
>>34627625The problem is that that's your hypothesis. Without a way of proving it, I'd feel too embarrassed to actually pursue it
>>34627629yes, but they never say them out loud, so you can never know if she's grossed out or not. your only option is to make the math and calculate the chance you're humilliating yourself
It's not my preference, and the higher the number the less I would like it. Better that than someone who has been in a ton of short relationships, though. But I would rather just not know about it.
I hear more women complaining about fuccbois than about non-fuccboisWhich is to say that they consistently gravitate towards them for dates and one night stands that they want to go farther but don't. I mean they're fuccbois, they fuck a lot by name, they're successful with women.They can say that you're the better guy until they're blue in the face. They can say that kind men with big hearts are their most important value. And then they can immediately find reasons to reject these same people they talk up while pursuing the very people they complain about. They're complaining because the very things they LOGICALLY recognize as undesirable is what drives their instincts wild, but acknowledging such a thing would be an immediately obvious double standard and sign of superficialness that goes against their carefully cultivated image.Your boss can say you're one of the most valuable workers they've ever had and that they need more workers like you, and still pay you less than everyone else. Look at actions, not words.
>>34627621A lot , maybe even most of them would see it as a red flag but the right girl will accept it in spite of not liking it.This works both ways btw>>34627668Weird because men will complain about sluts and not want to settle down with one but theyre always happy to hook up with sluts
>>34627668Is somebody who has a lot of sex but never dates a fuccboi or a non-fuccboi?
>>34627629of course they do. girls are, for instance, even more racist in mate selection than men. we know this based on decades of dating site/app data and, well, observable reality. but they will never say this out loud and being "racist" is still an enormous social faux pas in female circles.
>>34627709>Weird because men will complain about sluts and not want to settle down with one but theyre always happy to hook up with slutsmen use sluts for their intended purpose. if you were to contextualize this with switched roles it would be like a man complaining that the girl he knew was a slut doesn't want to marry him and start a family, and that's not something men do.
>>34631465Lol thats 100% something men do.Lmao even
>>34627621Not a woman, but you're a manwhore. Kys
>>34630720Depends on who you're askingYou can be shamed for openly pursuing sex and be called a fuccboiYou have to discreetly pursue sex, the lying protects your image in spite of making you a hypocrite
>>34627621girls don't work like that. this is what i have learned. they don't actually care about any of the things they say they do if you can just make them feel something. feelings trump, morals, logic, rules, reason, everything. everyone always says "women are governed by feelings" but then never apply it.they will say they care, they will say they don't. be a confident, fun, flirty, chad (in mindset), who is playfully challenging, keeps frame and has honesty, integrity and they will sacrifice all their supposed morals for you, they will say they hate you but dream about you at night.this is what i have learned about women.some study was done, wish i could find it, it asked what women's types were, then asked about the guys they dated. they hardly ever dated their type. everything they said went out the window for some other guy who just happened to make them feel right.i was naive in the past, every relationship i had, i did these things without realising it; kept frame, was "harder to get", was more fun, playful. also the minute you start trying to fit into her schedule, she hates it, you have to say "meet me here at X time" and if she likes you she will shift everything to be there because everything is subordinate to her feelings.t. 37
>>34632311Yeah, it's a weird feeling after being told to listen to women all your life, to realize that actually, you don't have to, and in fact, will likely be respected more for just doing whatever you want. The logic and experience all check out, but at the same time, you will rarely given positive feedback for it. The only thing you can lean on is in your internal confidence in that you are doing good. Basically, it's a selection pressure for internal confidence (which even teenagers know women like).Also, from a societal standpoint, putting the secret out there is kinda bad, because it gives the unconfident performers a new method to cheat the selection process.
>>34632353And women bullying and shaming men with whatever bullshit is just another part in the selection process to cull the ones who crumble under the pressure. The modern "rape" sentences are a bit problematic even for the chads, but the selection applies here as well: they defend the confident immigrant rapists, while manufacturing rape cases against the meek, weak men.
