I have two kids both out of wedlock, two different fathers. Does this make a whore??Do I have a chance of finding someone who'd want to marry me?
>>34631083>I have two kids both out of wedlockYes
>>34631083yea you're used up and busted. plenty of guys would attempt to marry you for a steady source of sex because you obviously put out, but they're not going to be high quality guys and it's not going to make you happy or work out long term.i suggest becoming celibate and focusing your life 100% on your children now so that they don't turn out like you did.
>>34631083>Am I a whore?Not in the literal sense. Definitely a slut.>Do I have a chance of finding someone who'd want to marry me?How old are you? If you're young, and hot, if you play your cards well enough, maybe, just maybe, you can find an incel desperate enough to settle down, though you'll probably have to birth some of his babies, and accept that he is not Chad, and that he still can leave you because of your past. That said, good luck!
>>34631186No need to be this salty, even with 2 children she could still find a partner, I've seen it happen many times before. I once saw a woman able to find a partner and she had 5 kids, and the guy was an absolute stud, well, of course, that one was an exception, as I said here, she will have to settle for some incel >>34631221
>>34631221I'm 26
>>34631226Thanks anon, this gives me some hope
>>34631221>probably have to birth some of his babiesI definitely want more kids anyway, so wouldn't be an issue
>>34631083I think you're probably cuddly and good-natured. I'd recommend being the other woman to a man who's miserable in his marriage.You'll need to be patient with his kids when he decides to leave his wife and marry you because they might be hostile towards you but remaining warm and kind in spite of it may yet get them to warm up to you. And if it doesn't, they'll end up looking like the jerks in the end.
>>34631281>ignore the 99% people stating reality and "find hope" in the one liar telling you what you want to hearwomen are fucking retards.
>>34631083Not necessarily, no. Only you know and lived through the circumstances that led to your current situation.Life is complicated. Don't know if it is your case, but many men act like irresponsible trash and don't assume responsibility, leaving the mom to take care of the kids.I think you do have chances of finding someone. Don't do like >>34631287, do not interfere with other people's marriages. That's foul.Instead, focus on finding a good and responsible man, and be a kind and loving wife to him.Raise your kids together, have kids with him, and live well.
>>34631083>Do I have a chanceHow hot are you?
>>34631359Honestly 7.5, 8 maybe I'm no 10/20
>>34631382Oops, no 10/10
>>34631083>Does this make a whore??yes, especially if you receive child support.>Do I have a chance of finding someone who'd want to marry me?no good man will marry you but you will likely attract pedos who want to rape your children and shitty or weak guys who you won't like anyways.sorry, you have fucked up and reap what you sow.
>>34631083I'm dating a woman who's in a similar situation at the moment. (2 children / 2 fathers)never thought I'd be in this position, but I'm considering going serious with her.main factors: she's still hot (gym + nutrition on point), also smart, kind and has $$$.so, provided you shine in other areas, i'd say anything is possible.for reference: I'm a 45 yo divorced father of 2 with qualities women value (tall, good job, making them feel safe etc)
This website is 90percent ragebait from glowniggers
>>34631083Lotta guys like whores.
>>34631083If even the fathers of your two children wouldn't marry you then its doubtful any other man will. Its unlikely you have changed much since the inception of this recurring behavior and outcome.
>>34631083Hahahahaha
>>34631281You'll be a single mother of three soon, good luck!
>>34631357>focus on finding a good and responsible mananon that type man isn't her kind of man and obviously the type she avoids or they avoid her and its not new. I get she may have erred in judgement once but she did it again with the same outcome.
>>346313825 or 6
>>34631357>Don't do like >>34631287 (You), do not interfere with other people's marriages. That's foul.There's literally nothing wrong with infidelity. It is literally the most beautiful act of love and sexual fulfillment. The only reason people see it as 'foul' is because it invalidates a person's narcissistic sense of entitlement to another person's sexual exclusivity and society at large has been gaslighted to put more importance on that sense of entitlement over love. Not because they have moral values, per se. How can they if they revel in the cruelty inflicted upon adulterers just for engaging in sex that the sky fairies and tacky lawn ornaments that they worship don't approve of?Besides, I already gave the caveat that she should find a man who's miserable in his marriage. If a marriage has deteriorated to the point where one spouse is genuinely miserable, then it is no longer serving the purpose people claim marriage is supposed to serve.
>>34631083>Does this make a whore??Kinda>Do I have a chance of finding someone who'd want to marry me?Yes but you're going to have to drop your standards by a lot. Most people don't want to deal with somebody else's kid and so basically you need to aim low enough that the guy feels like he's lucking out in spite of the kids, like batting way out of his league. The probability is you won't want to do this and will actually prefer to be single. You will never find someone "in your own league minus the kids" to marry you, no.
>>34632418kys
>>34632314I don't receive child support
>>34632418>It is literally the most beautiful act of loveSince when is overindulging in your own desires with no care for your partner an act of love? It's not even an act of self-love.>narcissistic sense of entitlement to another person's sexual exclusivityNothing narcissistic about wanting to have an exclusive relationship with someone. If anything it's much more romantic.>the cruelty inflicted upon adulterers just for engaging in sex that the sky fairies and tacky lawn ornaments that they worship don't approve of?This 'cruelty' is a natural concept present in the vast majority of societies in both the western and eastern world, in both highly and low-developed societies, and in the natural world.>Besides, I already gave the caveat that she should find a man who's miserable in his marriageEven if the marriage is not doing good, no one should interfere with it, for the couple may fix their marriage and work things out.
>>34632403I did get married to one of them, but they ended up passing
Yes you do. If you look in your toolbox of men who are obsessed with you that you find unattractive you may find a 6.5-7.5 out of 10 in there that'll be just as useful as an 8-10.
>>34632716>Since when is overindulging in your own desires with no care for your partner an act of love? It's not even an act of self-love.People have affairs because their desires are being *underindulged,* you dumbass. You can't see the love between the affair partners because you've been brainwashed to despise this form of love when all it is is just that.>Nothing narcissistic about wanting to have an exclusive relationship with someone. If anything it's much more romantic.The intensity that comes from the stolen moments shared between two lovers is objectively more romantic than any idea of "domestic bliss" that kiddie-diddling penguins in the church like to push. What's really narcissistic is pretending to be victimized by somebody else having sex when you're not even hurt.>This 'cruelty' is a natural concept present in the vast majority of societies in both the western and eastern world, in both highly and low-developed societiesThat's literally the appeal to nature fallacy. But what the fuck is 'natural' about getting angry at love? What the fuck is 'natural' about a nasty little shit sending gore pics to a parent's AP as a constructive threat on their life? Or murdering them? You are rationalizing selfishness, malice, and sadism as virtues while projecting your own vices onto people whose only crime was to distribute their own love as they saw fit.>Even if the marriage is not doing good, no one should interfere with it, for the couple may fix their marriage and work things out.Marriages that get to that point do not 'get worked out'. All that remains is performance and inertia. If somebody feels compelled to follow their heart wherever it may lead: then it's just social fascism to say that that's bad and they should just suffer in a shitty marriage until they go through a shitty divorce or humiliation rituals with a counselor who tells you that your feelings are fake and you're a bad parent.
>You'll need to be patient with his kids when he decides to leave his wife and marry you because they might be hostile towards you but remaining warm and kind in spite of it may yet get them to warm up to you. And if it doesn't, they'll end up looking like the jerks in the end.When we give lines like this without blinking, we are not so much acting out of love so much as behaving like the image of a cruel and bored child gleefully ripping the wings off of a butterfly and then questioning why it is wrong.
>>34631083>I have two kids both out of wedlock, two different fathers. Does this make a whore??No>Do I have a chance of finding someone who'd want to marry me?NoIf you're a coal burner it's much worse btw
>>34631083> Does this make a whore??Whores get paid. Sluts give it away for free.>Do I have a chance of finding someone who'd want to marry me?No. Even if you were a virgin or low body count, good looking and no kids today that is going to be difficult. You're not getting married.You are going to have difficulty finding someone who will even stay for more than 3 months. You are going to have difficulty finding a man to even date you at all the moment you mention you have kids.
>>34631083Disgusting
>>34635649>If you're a coal burner it's much worse btwNo coal burning here
>>34631083If you are at least average or above in looks, you can find some dude desperate enough to marry you. There are still plenty of retarded sex addicted men out there that would be happy to provide you your beta bux. I hope you find what you are looking for and someone that takes good care of you and your children. Best of luck.
>>34631083It makes you a desperate single mother and it makes your kids fatherless freaks who stand lower in the social pecking order than the divorce victim kids that everyone rapes for shits and giggles.
