she said she cant see us having a future together anymore and that i made her uncomfortable after i said i "didnt want to change for others," but i never said that? she brought up the dm but it was me being afraid to share my feelings because i didnt want to be burdensome. i gave her the night to think things over but im honestly terrified. my sister tells me that shes a complete bitch who never wanted to put serious effort into a relationship and to let her go, but i cant do that. :[ this is a girl i wanted to walk down the aisle with.
>>34632059"i don't know. i've been sitting here typing for a bit about how you're the most significant person in my life, but. i don't want to sway you or make you think that i'll hurt myself. so i'll just say that. i don't understand why you'd see someone in so much pain and think of them as malicious or a bad actor. i know a lot of my pain is self-inflicted. but now i feel... like i have to choose all of my words very carefully. i don't know what you will and won't misinterpret as malice. what i do know is that i love you. and that, come morning... if you choose to, we can start over. but i need you to understand first that i am not evil. i'm not out to get you or hurt you. i feel as though you've been tunnel visioned and that you cannot see the whole of the matter.i may not be entitled to an explanation, but... i want to understand. if nothing else. i want to understand, really, truly what i have done wrong so that we can rectify those mistakes. either with you or with someone else in the future. the answers you've given thus far... are things that you've misremembered or misconstrued. that makes me feel so much dread, because i cannot atone for things i did not do! i want to change for you, but you need to give me something to work with. something to acknowledge....maybe i wasn't good for you today, or yesterday. or for even a month before that. let's say for sure that i wasn't. but going forward, i want to make you happy again. i want to see you smile. i want to earn your love, if you'll let me. we can write this off, and i will do my best to change and walk forward with you. but you have to give me something to grip!"this was my last message to her... am i fucked?
>>34632074> am i fucked?Yea, you just got filtered by baby’s first shittest
>>34632074>this was my last message to her... am i fucked?This made me physically cringe reading it. It's not unreasonable to say "I have clearly upset you, and I very much wish that hadn't happened." But begging and pleading like this is deeply unattractive. I'm not usually a fan of PUA stuff - they talk a lot of bullshit - but one thing they are fairly on-the-nose about is that what they call "supplicating" is a very idea, and this is one of the most extreme examples of it that I've seen. You come across as someone with no self-esteem at all who is absolutely desperate.
>>34632059Break up and Fuck your sister
>>34632074You ought to meditate on what actual love and companionship are, and then seriously ask yourself if they look anything like what you've currently got going on. A real mutual exchange of people who both like being around each other never ends in one sided begging.
>>34632059>anime picture>emotionally dependent on peopleYou're a homo.
>>34632059You type like a girl. Act as a girl. Dress up like a girl. Have vagene like a girl. Does your "girlfriend" have a penis by any chance?
If OP is seen as cringe and desperate over feeling and saying these things regarding the woman you really love and care about, then consider me an utter fucking failure, shit
