>>34632332
Literally just get off social media and the internet. Join society, be in groups. Talk to others.

>>34632332
How tall and handsome are you?

>>34632332
you're just too lazy
put the work in or quit complaining

>>34632336
178 cm on good days, handsome probably a 6-6,5/10 on good days

>>34632332
Someone post the image of the guy in the coffee shop

>>34632332
Just go to church should be different social groups there that you can hang out to be more social and stuff.

>>34633127
I live in Europe, only old people go to church.

>I also want to go to parties, have a big friend group, talk to real women, hang out with the cool kids and other stuff the normies do.
You think you want those things. I thought I wanted those things.
It's such a narrow rope to walk, and when you put forth the effort to try and improve your lot, other people who are desperate to improve theirs just see empty space they can offload their own burdens to try and get ahead. So you develop an emotional callous and an adversarial relationship with work and employment, and fine, you've figured out how to survive, but then you get to the other half which is the ingroup. Can you fake the same mask we fake? Can you pretend this is all great and fun?
"Well, you're talking about work and I just want parties." Yeah, same thing. Poor men know no leisure, and pussy is a leisure. One of my wife's friends starts hanging around with us because we've got a back yard with white girl lights and a fire pit. Do you think she comes over to talk sports or do you think I'm taking her to bed too? That's what you really want, by the way. Your own den that women want to come to. The fuck do you need men for?

>>34632332
>I also want to go to parties, have a big friend group, talk to real women, hang out with the cool kids and other stuff the normies do.
>with my radical political views and hyperautistic interests
There's literally nothing stopping you from doing/having all the above. Especially if you're charismatic and good looking (which in fairness, I'm guessing you're probably not).

>>34633767
Well uh Mr. Chad, if I could have a harem, I would already have one, wouldn't I?

>>34633767
>>34632332
>You think you want those things.
The final trvke. The reality is that most of these things are profoundly boring to be quite honest. You think you want them because you can't get them but once you somehow gain access you realize that you're still bored. Seriously most of this stuff is just youthful "normality" in every sense of the word. It's normal, in other words it's meh even to most normies.
The same thing happened to me. Most parties are fairly lame to be honest. Most people stop going to them as they grow older anyways.
You already realize this in your own post. So you still hold the interest of wanting to be normal while aware that being normal is profoundly boring? You realize that once normality is achieved you'll still be you, just more cramped and dull

>>34632332
easiest way is to lower your iq by 20 points

i thought i wanted this but i got into one argument with one of my friends and she said for me to stop “using smart words” because it did not make my argument stronger.

i said furthermore. realized then that being invited to parties wherein i stand in the corner/detach/and get flirted with by random frat boys is not as fun as it is hyped up to be.

>>34635570
>Most parties are fairly lame to be honest. Most people stop going to them as they grow older anyways.

Yet for whatever reasons normies would never ever miss a party.

>You already realize this in your own post. So you still hold the interest of wanting to be normal while aware that being normal is profoundly boring?

On neutral grounds (e.g. a classroom) normies are boring as fuck. I observed them for many years and only thing they did was playing Clash Royale and Brawl Stars in the breaks. Yet those same normies get invited to parties were all the crazy shit happens. It doesn't make sense to me.

>>34635639
yet you still got invited to one by doing what? Being friends with your friend who knows a friend or what?

>>34635648
either just going with my friends, being invited by people who were throwing it, or just having my friend want me to come with her

>>34635672
Foid...

>>34635691
anyhoo

>>34635570
>Most people stop going to them as they grow older anyways.
Because at a certain point, your body can't handle staying out until 4 a.m., drinking 14 shots of tequila, eating the most garbage food imaginable from a street cart and doing a random assortment of club drugs.

Parties are definitely fun and many normies would keep doing them until 60 if the lifestyle didn't literally start killing you once you turn 30.

File: Screenshot_20260619_01201(...).jpg (217 KB, 818x1193)

217 KB JPG

>>34632342
NAGASAKI LEVEL TRVKE:

YOU MASSIVELY OVERESTIMATE YOUR FACIAL ATTRACTIVENESS. If you were a genuine 6/10 (top 20% face btw), you would've received the positive feedback loop in your formative years and you would already be a normie. Unfortunately, you were born with the wrong face and now the deterministic hell we live in is going to make sure you never reproduce. Just remember, is it not your fault.

>>34632332
The irony is that what you think is normie life doesn't actually exist. If someone is in their 20's, and they're stilling partying like they're in college, they're deadbeats. Actual normies don't try to keep the high school pageantry going past age 18. Autistics seem to think we do. We don't, what we do is we lock in on who are friends are, usually only 2-3 people. We socialize with friends in modest outings, maybe once a month to catch up. We turn our attention to work, making money, and starting or raising a family with a woman we get married to. Normies don't drink like rats getting drunk every weekend, normies don't fuck sluts or whores, normies don't act like perpetual teenagers in an adult body. Those are societies deadbeats.

Autists are societies losers. What makes them losers is they seem to think trying to emulate the deadbeat would make them a winner. And when you present the autist with the truth of what actual normal adjusted normie life looks like, they become miserably disappointed, whine and cry like a victim and plug their ears and screech "You're gaslighting!" They go back to their gay mind palace to dream a perfectionist dream of 24/7 partying and being a prom queen main character who everyone heccin validates and fawns after.

If you're over 18 you missed out on the life of partying and hanging out with "cool kids". (Seriously listen to yourself an adult pining for "cool kids" as if he were still a schoolboy). Sorry but that's reality. What's also reality is you didn't miss out on anything important. The partying teen rebel phase is absolute dog shit, it's where life long embarrassment and mistakes are made.

Let go of the high school tier fantasy. Stop mythologizing this shit. Just simply accept you feel alone and would like human connection. That is normal to feel and not shameful to admit. From there, go and find connections.

>>34637561
>Just remember, it is not your fault
And this is why society despises people like you. Like a fucking woman you do the absolute most to avoid accountability over your own shortcomings. Blaming physicality and genetics is an easy cope to avoid personal responsibility and character development. Because that would imply hard work. And it's easier to blame your own face and pretend nothing is your fault. Pussy mentality, actual female coded shit.

>>34637561
Like I said, on a good day, but I guess you're right.
>>34637904
>What's also reality is you didn't miss out on anything important. The partying teen rebel phase is absolute dog shit, it's where life long embarrassment and mistakes are made.

In every single thread a normie like you drops by and says how it's actually the worst thing ever and not worth the time and like you didn't miss out on anything yet they still went to every function they were invited too (by guess what, being simply a normie)

>>34637474 dropped a trvke

>>34637561
Post made from the depths of the crab bucket. It's amusing how blackpilled/doomer retards operate
>Huh... Well, I'm a maladjusted person due to a specific set of circumstances but let me tell you exactly how people and world works because huh... I've seen many infographics and studies that align perfectly with my world view, which proves the point that I'm trying to make, that is, you should be just as miserable as I am. Are you demoralized yet?

>>34638020
>In every single thread a normie like you drops by and says how it's actually the worst thing ever and not worth the time and like you didn't miss out on anything yet they still went to every function they were invited too (by guess what, being simply a normie)

And if you were capable of considering the perspectives of other people more clearly, you would understand that if every normie says the same thing to you, reporting the same feelings, it should tell you that they are telling the truth. That you did not miss out on as much as you think you did. And you should be humble enough to accept that insight, because they have the experience to know, and you don't. That doesn't make them better or smarter or more socially valuable it just is what it is. Same as how the normie would be retarded if they presumed to know more about something that you have experienced. And no, non-experience of parties isn't an experience.

Also you presume too much. You presume us normies went to parties in the back of an invitation. We mostly don't. We just get knowledge of where a party is at and we just show up. Waiting for invitation is something children do, waiting for an invite to their 4th grade classmates birthday party. Normies adults just show up if they have reasonable social connection (friends party, friend of a friends party).

If it ever feels like we are imposing uninvited, just show up with a bottle of wine or a six pack of beer to give to the host and you're in. That's all there is to it.

>>34638073
>>34638020
>Cont
Also I make the comparison to the behaviours of children not to compare you or anyone else who struggle with this shit to children. In my opinion, shut-ins and Autists and whatever we wanna call them, their problem is not childishness it's the opposite. Their dilemma is they began adult thinking while having the bodies of kids and teens. "Mature for their age." , "Gifted kid", "The smart student".

The dilemma is the introverted intellectual type is someone who was enabled and repeatedly told to be as mature as an adult despite still only being a kid or teen. Which appeased the teachers and the strict parents sure, but taught absolutely zero about socialization or how the world works outside of school/college/the office environment.

And because such an introverted type got curriculum beat into their brain, schedules and deadlines drilled in their skull, grading systems and points and whatever, they internalize it into every single other part of life. Including human interaction where they feel their social repertoire needs to resemble a GPA or some shit. And if they feel they missed a milestone they treat it as if they missed an assignment and their lives are going to be graded as an F.

It's total bullshit.

>>34638073
>Normies adults just show up if they have reasonable social connection (friends party, friend of a friends party).

That IS the invitation. If I have nobody who shares with me the information of where and when the party is happening, then I don't that a party IS happening. This means I also can't >just show up with a bottle of wine or a six pack of beer to give to the host

It's impossible.

>they missed a milestone
yes anon, I missed a fucking milestone, I probably won't catch up anymore. If I wasn't the fastest runner in PE, the school probably won't send me to represent the school at the cities championships. I know it's not a big deal for you, since you're a normie.

>>34632332
Turn your Brain off.
Copy people

>>34639213
>Turn your Brain off.
I can't. I don't know how it is with other people, but I can't stop thinking like ever, except when I'm drunk.

>>34639206
>That IS the invitation. If I have nobody who shares with me the information of where and when the party is happening, then I don't that a party IS happening

Nah that's not an invite that's just opportunity. An invite is:

>"Yo, anon, Normie-man is having a party at his place. I'm going, you down?"

An opportunity via information is:

>"Oh, Normie-man posted on his socials he is having a party. Fuck it, let's just show up, we used to go to school together anyway he won't mind probably."


>Yes anon, I missed a fucking milestone, I probably won't catch up anymore.
I'm not trying to be a dickhead but boo-hoo so what? I missed as many milestones as I have gained them. That's just true for everyone. If you wanna talk about what's impossible, here's what's impossible:
No one can live out every single possible social milestone in their lifetime. When you aim for one, you exclude another. That's just life anon. The only time you ever see someone hit every milestone and get a 100% playthrough of their life is in Hollywood movies and Netflix shows, it's fantasy idealism not reality

>>34639237
>"Yo, anon, Normie-man is having a party at his place. I'm going, you down?"

>"Oh, Normie-man posted on his socials he is having a party. Fuck it, let's just show up, we used to go to school together anyway he won't mind probably."

Yeah, nobody I know ever said this to me, so it's probably not entirely my fault at the end.

>No one can live out every single possible social milestone in their lifetime. When you aim for one, you exclude another. That's just life anon.

But I didn't really aim for another milestone. I tried to live life as everybody else and it just passed me.

>>34639237
>I missed as many milestones as I have gained them. That's just true for everyone. If you wanna talk about what's impossible, here's what's impossible:
No one can live out every single possible social milestone in their lifetime. When you aim for one, you exclude another. That's just life anon. The only time you ever see someone hit every milestone and get a 100% playthrough of their life is in Hollywood movies and Netflix shows, it's fantasy idealism not reality
Not him but even though this is true it's more like anon didn't really hit any milestones. Big difference between having to choose between A or B versus having nothing at all. Unless you count being a 4chan autist/sperg as a milestone, but that is being very generous.

>>34639251
>Probably not entirely my fault
Yes. Not even partially your fault, not your fault entirely full stop. Because not attending parties isn't a fault, not being in a social position to gain access to parties isn't a fault. It's not a strength either, it's neither right or wrong or a fault or a success. So no you ain't at fault.

>But I didn't really aim for another milestone. I tried to live life as everybody else and it just passed me.
I think you did ain for milestones. If not intentionally you may have at least just went for what you felt was expected. I'll put it to you like this:
I had a squad of lads, I had friends, I was a street kid, could go to parties, had teenage sex, did drugs, got into mischief. I did not consciously aim for those milestones it was just the trajectory my life headed in, influenced by shit in my upbringing. I got the milestones, but it meant neglecting others. Never went to University, never even went to college. I don't have a formal higher education, no big career, no six digit salary, im lucky if I can call myself working class. All those academic and professional milestones are out the window for me.

That's my point. You go for one way of life it means you can't be doing another. You can't be in two places at the same time and you can't focus on sports or school if you're hungover every other day or nursing some addiction to either sex or drugs. Just doesn't work

>>34639291
It is what it is.