I lied to casual friends and co-workers that I'm asexual to explain why I'm single in my mid-30s and have never had a girlfriend. The truth is that I was addicted to OnlyFans as well as irl prostitutes. I have moved on from that dark period of my life now and I really want to give dating a go but I feel like I can't just start using dating apps because what if my co-workers or friends see me on there?One solution is to try to meet someone naturally through hobbies or something and tell people I realized I'm demi-sexual not asexual... But that feels impossible when the only hobby I have is video games. What else can I do? How do I meet people in my 30s without apps?
>>34633174Asexual is not a real thing and nobody believes your stupid lies or cares about it.
>>34633174Don't rule out apps. Avoiding them because coworkers might see you is probably letting an old lie control your future. Dating apps, gaming groups, volunteering, classes, and meetups are all good ways to meet people in your 30s.
>>34633174keep telling people you are asexual they will want to rape you for being insufferable but you are secretly willing.
just say "you don't feel asexual" anymore
>>34633178>Asexual is not a real thing and nobody believes your stupid lies or cares about it.True, asexual = incel/homo. I don't have sex too, but I'm not asexual, LFMAO.
>>34633178Kill yourself.And OP you too for hiding your pathetic worthless failure ass behind the asexuals. You have exactly zero business using the word asexual for your embarassing ass. I don't want a bunch of loser incels describing themselves as aromantic or asexual now, fuck off.
>>34633267You're not asexual, you're an incel or a woman.
>>34633267I just didn't want them to keep asking after my dating life after sharing theirs or telling me about their kids/wives/husbands or whatever.
>>34633174I'm not sure why you think anyone would care that you lied about this.
>>34633174no one fucking cares
>>34633174Bro didn't know asexual is fancy for "closeted gay".
>>34633183What should I say if they question me or gossip about me?>>34633480A few co-workers have tried to set me up with their daughters but I turned them down because I was busy being a degenerate at the time.
>>34633174>addicted to OnlyFans as well as irl prostitutesAnd how much did this cost?I think finding a gold digger would be the perfect match for you
