>>34633772
You don't just cope directly, you find something to fill the void and/or distract yourself with. You aren't going to think your way out of that feeling. If you're an artistic person then dive fully into whichever medium you prefer. If you're a technical person get a project car or something. If you're a psychopath start a business and make that your life. Things like that.
Backup option is become a degenerate like me and use VTubers to fill the void in your soul.
Or you can always just kill yourself if you're too worthless to do any of these things. Save yourself the effort.

>>34633795
How do I convince my brain of having a substantial social life/friendship/partner when I only like being alone?

>>34633808
What value do you get out of having, or liking the idea of, those things when you like being alone instead? I could go on about social constructs but it wouldn't be anything you haven't heard before or internalized already.

idk, but the desire for a normal relationship eats up so much of my mental energy, and I keep getting worse with age.
Dating and getting laid only made it worse, and giving up on dating and getting laid has not made it any better.
Why don't any of these women want more from me? Why does no woman want me in her life?
What the hell will I do when I'm 50,60? Keep going to my stupid wagie job and coming back to an empty apartment?
Will I have to kill myself at 75 because I'm disabled, senile and have no children?
The worst part is, I know it's because I'm slightly "off" in a way which I can't control.
Anyway, if you find a dream to chase or a hyperfixation hold onto it for dear life, it's the only way. I've been looking for years but it's just so hard to focus, my mind is preoccupied with this nonsense instead of trying to find a way out of meaningless labor and mediocre hobbying

>>34633851
I would love the fact of obsessing and looking at an attractive woman at all times. As cringy and simpy as it would sound i would stare and worship a hot women for life. i could go without and just look at hot women in anime/tv but looking at one irl would be perfect

>>34633873
And what value does that fixation bring to you? Are you deriving a sexual pleasure from it, or just admiring the intrinsic beauty of the female form in a platonic, artistic wayt? Be real here. I can relate.

>>34633885
I love looking at attarcive women. I would do it for the rest of my life. I would do anything for a hot gf/wife not to just fuck them but just to look at them. It brings me immense amount pleasure looking at cute women

>>34633917
I get you. But think to for a minute. Why would an attractive, amazing hot woman ever give you the time of day? Do you have a good job? Are you fit? Are you a social butterfly? Etc. Cute girls have an innate, intrinsic value which you are very aware of. Men do not. If you actually want to get in a relationship with one of these girls, you'll need to give yourself some kind of value. If you think like you do in the OP, you are likely at rock bottom. But you can pull yourself out if you actually want.
But the feeling of wanting what you can't have is intoxicating in and of itself, which is the place you and many others are in right now. I've been there as well. It's several hundred thousand times easier to ogle women than it is to actually interact with them.
You have a decision to make. Do you want to continue longing for cute girls from a distance forever, and stay in this limbo, or put in the effort to bag one for yourself?
You aren't just going to think your way out of this feeling. Unless you grow old and gray and lose your sex drive, in which case you are out of time.

>>34633934
Ok so what is the solution? Surely one attractive girl would love me obessed over her

>>34633772
>I will be alone for the rest of my life
>>34633953
>attractive girl would love me obessed over her

Now take a step back and realize how much of a creep these sentences together make you look. No, pretty girls are not going to want a scrawny poor loner virgin to stalk them. Life is not a wish fulfillment anime where the super pretty girl gives the loner virgin a chance and falls head over heels for him.
If this is the dynamic you are after, you need to become rich enough to be a sugar daddy and hang around bars in areas with high end clubs, or rich enough for a ukrop mail-order bride who will steal from and/or murder you.
Is that what you really want?

>>34633975
i know i look creepy. All im saying is im willing to look creepy be a retard just to have the girl

>>34633988
And that's exactly the problem. There isn't a magic hidden way for you to get the type of woman you want, in your current situation, without a massive financial investment, or massive time investment into improving your worth.
You're looking for the easy way out, there is none, outside of outright kidnapping and raping women, which I advise against.

>>34633995
ok what do you suggest then?

>>34634000
Re-read my post from earlier instead of ignoring it.

I'm starting to get the feeling you aren't actually looking for advice and just wanted to make a thread whining with no intention of putting in real effort towards improving your situation. If I spell it out for you again, I don't think you're actually going to want to do it, it will be met with moaning, groaning, and bitching, followed by inaction. It appears I've made the mistake of trying to genuinely help someone online once again. This will be the last time.
Make your decision. I wish you well.

>>34634025
so im fucked then? i am too retarded to make lots of money

>>34633772
>How do I cope with the fact I will be alone for the rest of my life?
You made an interesting typo there. You wrote FACT when you meant CHOICE.

>>34633772
Can't be alone when there's 8,000,000,000 humans also occupying this place whether you like it or not, plus countless other organisms. We all know you still depend on the society.

>>34633873
>>34633917
So you want to be a useless brain-dead retard who's only function is to stare absently at the opposite gender? That's your sole mission in life that you want to fulfill? Retarded. Lower than an ant, at least ants serve a purpose for the greater clan.