be me, male ballet dancerbig exam day at academy so everyone is stressed outgo to bathroom before examcrush is in there changingshe still has a leo on underneath but my brain immediately blue screens so i just stand there staring like an idiotshe says "anon? i'm almost done changing, just give me a sec" exam starts and we're still flirting like usualfigure maybe bathroom incident wasn't that badend of examhaven't seen her in a week and won't see her for another week so i made her a mixtapedecide today's the dayask her to hang back while i grab something from my car and turns out all the other girls decide to stay with herfuckcome back, hand her the tape"hey, i made this. thought you might like it"immediately turn around and leave before i can witness my own executionall her friends start doing that "so cute" tiktok voiceget to car, look backthey're all opening it togetherremember what i wrote on the cover"i wanna kiss the brown haired girl. i wanna wipe away her tears" because i put "The Blonde" by TV Girl on thererealize it looks less like a mixtape and more like a written confessionconsider driving into nearest tree, change my mindhaven't heard anything since except exchanging a few party pics in a group chatcurrently convinced i am cooked, am i a chud with no rizz or is this salvageable?
dude, you already did something wicked forward, she knows you obviously feel some typa way, so just talk it out. Even if its awkward or whatever i think the absolute worst thing anyone can do in a situation like this is be paralysed, waiting to do something. Just ask her about it, like "so about that tape..." lmaooo maybe a little better than that but you get what I mean, find a time to bring it up and more properly ask her how she feels. Be honest (but not too forward), maybe ask her to coffee or something somewhere and bring the conversation there. She could also be totally into you! and if not, who gives a fuck, she already totally saw the tape dude, whats there to lose besides some awkward interactions in the future, things are more awkward as they are now.
Why would you do all this useless extra shit when you could just ask. Literally just ask. Hey, I have a crush on you, do you wanna hang out sometime? And move tf onto the next person if it's a no, no need to waste time on a bitch who doesn't even care. No need for this teenage drama high school giggly bullshit. Either take it or leave. Respect yourself. Don't put bitches above yourself.
update lol she still hasn't said anything to me other than wishing me a happy birthday in our group chat
>>34637834Anon just ask her if she doesn't say anything after a couple days
>>34634831did notreada singleword
>>34634831Nasturvate
Stopped at male ballet dancer. I just couldn't, sorry.
>>34637834I mean you could have just asked her to go have a beer instead of doing whatever the fuck you did. That was way too much and comes off as crazy needy. Maybe talk to her and explain that you didn't mean to come on so strong, maybe its possible to salvage. Otherwise, don't beat yourself up about it and move on , take it as a lesson.Always be low key and normal, a good baseling is asking yourself whether you would do this for a friend, if no you don't do it for a woman (unless you're already in a relationship and know each other)
