Ok so none of my friends or family are willing to be honest with me about why I can't pull women despite me begging them to tell me, so I have no one else left to ask. Please diagnose my inane cope:>20 years old>2 meters tall>reasonably wealthy (upper middle class-ish)>have my own money, not leaching off my parents>have several good friends who love me and think I'm actually funny>have no problem talking to women, I've been friends with some of my homegirls for 5+ years and they're basically sisters to me>been told by almost everyone that I am, at the very least, not ugly>I workout on an almost daily basis>I DO go outsideStill KHHV and no one irl seems to have an observation as to why (or at least not one they're willing to voice out loud to me).Any advice or hate speech appreciated
Have you ever askeda girl out? Or flirted or shown interest?
>>34635196Yes, I've made it a habit to try and get at least 1 girl's number or Instagram when I go out. Usually I either get the boyfriend excuse or I try messaging them after and they just genuinely do not fuck with me.
>>34635189>and they're basically sisters to me>>34635238>Yes, I've made it a habit to try and get at least 1 girl's number or Instagram when I go out.I'd say your problem is hidden in these two sentences with you not realizing it. You oscillate between not trying at all (ending up as a brother figure to girls you regularly talk to) and trying way too hard (going out with specific intent of getting numbers/instas instead of just having a good time, and showing way too much interest too soon instead of letting it happen naturally).There might be more (or less) to it, but based on your stats (tall, at least decent looking, have friends, not broke) this would be my best guess.I'll put it in your generation's terms even though I'm twice your age (because I do get a kick out of this expression lol), but you might need to do some "aura farming" OP.
>>34635189In love looks are the most important.>2 meters tallWhile height it is attractive on a man, too much height becomes ugly. >been told by almost everyone that I am, at the very least, not uglyMaybe they were just being agreeable, possibly because you are wealthy and want you as a friend. >I workout on an almost daily basisIf you're a roidcel you're definitely ugly. Try looksmaxxing, face is the most important thing and too much muscles, just like height, can make a person ugly. How is your hair?
>>34635189First of all. Many 20 yr olds are single or virgins. Your issue is probably you are too soft around women or act like a friend and not a man. But you are literally 20 so its not surprising. You probably give off a vibe like "he seems like a nice guy", and not "I want to fuck him". So stop being a pussy around girls. Take risks. Say what you actually want to say or do something bold.Find a girl you REALLY like and have the mindset that I am going to have fun with her, not just get her IG and run away, but we are going to laugh or build tension or dance or something like that.>>34635275Nothing wrong with sexual intentions, but I agree to make it fun and not about achieving something.
>>34635295>How is your hair?Full head of hair, not balding. And no I'm not a roidcel>>34635305>Take risks. Say what you actually want to say or do something bold.I know this is genuinely gonna sound hard to believe but like 3 months ago I told this girl I want to fuck her raw and she said "no problem" and was super flirty with me. I thought I was finally gonna lose my virginity, but she kept making excuses for why she couldn't meet up with me and eventually our conversations just fizzled out.Same girl also sent me pics of her naked. She was really weird
>>34635325So that is good to hear, it sounds like you are on the right path. Just keep having a strong intention like that then you will get what you want. You will figure it out. Girls are testing you, not on purpose but it's natural for them. If you seem like you need her too much she may bail. If you truly don't care they will sense that then come to you paradoxically. So talk to many different girls so you don't care too much about getting one girl, you will get it.
>>34635189Nice cat