I think my colombian coworker might be into me. She touches me a lot (hands, forearm, muscles) and kind of lingers when doing so. She tells me to visit her while working, and her face lightens up whenever she sees me. She's always close to me and we've bonded a lot in a matter of days. She never suggested taking things out of the workplace, but here's the thing: she's a married woman.She married young (she's in her 30s now) and never met another guy besides her husband). I asked her if she wanted to have something to drink outside, and she said "yeah", and tried to schedule it around a doctor appointment, which I'm assuming she did in order to have an aliby for her husband? I'm not imagining things, right? This woman is clearly interested in me. How do I bring the fact up? I don't want to screw it up, less so with a work colleague.
>>34635211>How do I bring the fact up? I don't want to screw it upBringing it up WILL screw it up. If you're into her and you want this, go for it.However I will tell you right now, you lose 'em how you get 'em. Have fun with her but keep it casual, don't get too serious with her.
>>34635216Well, it sure is anticlimactic, but I don't wish to harass her, what if she's just like that and doesn't mean to have me suck her titties.
>>34635222>what if she's just like that and doesn't mean to have me suck her titties.Then she won't initiate anything.Remember, she knows that YOU KNOW that she's married. If she wants to cheat she'll do it.You have to remember (one of) the golden rule(s) for when you're interacting with women; if she really wants you, she will make it easy for you.
>>34635235Should I go for it and be bold? I think the signs are there, she also allowed me to touch her face, hair and a scar she has on her hip, very close to the ass.
>>34635243Again as I said just act normal. If you keep seeing the signs when you meet up outside of work then yea sure go for it.Also important to mention don't be overly coy. Like if you realize she's flirting with you don't play dumb just because she's married, girls don't like that (especially the ones that cheat)
>>34635329Got it, let's see how it goes
>>34635211Some people (and some cultures - it may be relevant that she is foreign) are just naturally more touchy-feely than others. Assume nothing
>>34635211Some things to consider:-Some women are massive flirts and have no intention on actually escallating-Getting into an affair with a married woman is always a mistake-"Dont shit where you eat" is a proverb for a reason
>>34635211Why are you even asking this. She's married. Do the world a favor and murder-suicide so there's 2 less cheaters in this piece of shit world.
>>34635211Fuck her
