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How do I get rid of homolust for good? I like girls too but I NEED to get rid of this gay lust. I know the zeitgeist these days says that I was born like this (I wasn't) and I just have to accept that this is who I am (I don't). I'm willing to try anything at this point.
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>>34635240
>I know the zeitgeist these days says that I was born like this (I wasn't)
>I'm willing to try anything at this point.
There is this thing with fetishes and that it get's darker as you consume and you burn the current one out eventually and move on the the next, more sinister thing.

So yeah, you can either starve it enough, or indulge till burn out and post another thread on how to get rid of the newer fad you adopted.
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>>34635240
You weren't born gay. No one is born gay. No one is born straight either. Babies and infants are pre-sexual beings. Humans are naturally wired to become heterosexual though. Unless something disturbs that process throughout life. Such as exposure to gay sexual experiences or imagery as a child. And gaysand bisexuals are infamous for either molesting children or just showing them sexual shit, which they do very often even in broad daylight (gay parades).

Anyway the way to beat it is to change your perspective on what makes homosexuality, homosexuality. Sexuality in general has been perverted in definition and its proper contexts skewed by modern bullshit. People treat sexuality like identity, when it's not. We know it is absurd to identify our personalities with hunger or itchiness, but magically humans say we can identify our personhood with sexual urges? Bullshit.

No, what homosexuality is, it's a dysfunctional fetish gained somewhere in childhood or teens. A fetish for the male body. And that's it. Once you get over fetishism and list, and instead practice pairbonding, defining sex as oxytocin seeking instead of dopamine seeking, aka for the sake of love and not lust, you will lose the man body fetish aka you stop 'being gay'.

It's just a fetish society twisted into an identity. You're a man with a penis and balls, which are biologically intended for vagina. Simple as. Accept that and you will get over it
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>>34635240
Just fuck a woman
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>>34635240
You can't really do anything about it. You could try psychotherapy, as your homosexuality may be caused by some deeper trauma leading to you avoiding women to such a degree you'd rather fuck men.
But I wouldn't bet on it, youre probably just a run of the mill regular faggot or rather bisexual.
I'd just rizz up some of the fag hags who hang around your butt buddies, women LOVE experiencing the "power" of "turning out " a gay man and making him see the light of pussy.
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>>34635240
>I wasn't
You were born bisexual. This is only a problem if you make it a problem.
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>>34635266
>what homosexuality is, it's a dysfunctional fetish gained somewhere in childhood or teens
This is completely false.
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>>34639079
>You were born bisexual
I was not. I used to be normal.
>>34639092
Nah he's right.
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>>34639093
>I used to be normal.
Bisexual is normal.
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>>34639092
>This is completely false
Whatever helps you sleep at night. Every gay or bisexual guy I knew always had some story for being bad touched or raped by a grown man, sometimes their same age fag cousin, who in turn learbed to be gay from being touched by their own gay dad or uncle..

Lgbt reproduces through sex abuse
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>>34635240
Its quite simple op. Just beat it down. I remember when I had my first crush, I didnt act on it, held it in, and after a while it went away.

I got a second crush, but this one left sooner. And eventually i stopped having them altogether. Pro tip, Just hold in all of your emotions and eventually they will go away.
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>>34639144
They'll tell you there were ALWAYS this many gays and transgenders throughout history, but they repressed it because it wasn't socially acceptable. I don't buy that for a second.
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>>34639151
Yeah its complete bullshit. I got my first crush at 16. And it was from this half subconscious thought I had about a woman, "she looks pretty" or something like that.

And then Immediately developed a crush. All you have to do is turn on that crush part of your brain. If you think about a man when doing it you will be gay. Most people dont though because they follow the norms.
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>>34635240
Not every homo is the same, aside from the fact that not all of them seem to turn out like this (some were molested, some had some developmental issue etc) but there also seems to be a difference in which they are attracted to men. There's some faggots who are genuinely just massive cocksuckers for no appearant reason, they love to take it up the ass and they get addicted to sex with men. It's weird. Anyway other than that it's usually extremely effeminate men who are attracted to what they can't be, or normal men who have had some sort of other problem since childhood. You probably have an intuition for what's making you gay but if you don't you're going to have to figure that out because there is no universal solution
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>>34639110
Have you ever considered that the non-molested gays in your community would never talk about it to you? Sounds like survivorship bias in a homophobic environment to me.

As for why molestation is generally higher for homosexuals:

>Be down low gay kid in homophobic community
>explore sexuality with adult gays outside your peer range in fear that it comes out, since at least they have their own place away from peering eyes
>Know that you can't get pregnant
>Know that Community doesn't accept your sexuality anyway
>Know that the likelihood of you getting another chance at gay sex is low just by the nature of their being only 2-4% of gays
>Know that you risk blowing your cover and ruining your life even if you didn't have sex with adult
>If you were caught in homophobic community face higher risk of homelessness and heavily inclined to sell your body to survive
>Cope with fact that parents and community will only at best accept a masked version of you, instead of the real you.
>Worse if you're into sports/traditionally masculine stuff and have to be around locker room talk
>Molester guy might not even have strong pedophile tendencies, just knows he's damned for even having adult gay sex

The reason why some molested gays are telling us about the molestation in the west, is because nowadays at worst they can try their luck in openly gay friendly communities. Meanwhile in heavily homophobic countries like Russia if you tell authorities about the molestation fleeing to gay friendly community in another country is way harder due to language barriers and being generally broke and less educated. Most gays there have to cope with underground crime affiliated communities that often use way more shady drugs, was the same broadly for old school gays in the west.
That's why Russia has high HIV rates, the western liberal gays don't spread as much diseases because they get to have sex openly and get STI prevention and treatment technology less abated by politics.
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>>34635240
Mental suppression can happen before you even consciously recognize it, plus you're actually reinforcing the gay when you realize that you're at least a bit gay. When you say you have gay lust, what do you envision?
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>>34642229
>the boy WANTS to be molested by the man
Bruh. It's hard to believe you wrote all that unironically. It's no wonder mainstream support for LGBT shit is dropping.
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>>34642343
Straight up lies, it just started transitioned to something so accepted it is hardly worth mentioning anymore. The rest of the world is just waiting for the backwaters of the world to stop crying and accept the reality.
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>>34642485
Attitudes have been shifting more in the last 5 years or so. You guys showed your hand too much with the trans kids shit and average people are sick of it. We gave you an inch and you took a mile, and it's coming back to bite you.
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>>34642531
So you're shifting this to something from gays to not just trans but trans kids? Brother what world are you on where you think that's coming back to bite LGBTQ. Face the fact that you're just in a mass psychosis event, the strange gay folk aren't coming for your kids, you're just making some vulnerable peoples life's hell based on fear surrounding old Abrahamic doctrine. It made sense to hate gays before germ theory and medical technology, to the ancients it must have felt like being smited by god so the priest classes warded the illiterate masses away from it with the story. It's just a dangerous relic now.
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>>34642613
Nice gaslighting attempt but it's not gonna work
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>>34642625
Smashed his prolapse
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>>34642625
You do you, when/if you realise how much human life (especially your own) you wasted on this path for nothing, I forgive you.
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>>34642661
>schizobabble
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>>34642613
>Face the fact that you're just in a mass psychosis event, the strange gay folk aren't coming for your kids, you're just making some vulnerable peoples life's hell based on fear surrounding old Abrahamic doctrine.

NTA but the LGBT movement is the mass psychosis event, not the other way around. For 300,000 years humans had no LGBTIQCAPGNGFNBA+ (Yea this is the official full acronym mentally ill queers use). There was no narcissistic identity parlour game called "LGBT". This was a very recent social designation established in the 1980's, off of the back of the 1960's gay liberation front (which coincidentally coinciding with the psychedelic movement, the time where hippies were drugging up teens and kids to sodomize them at music shows).

The strange gay folk are coming for kids and have been coming for them for a while. Notice how gay married men looking to adopt mostly insist on adopting baby boys. Notice every story coming out of the wash where children are winding up ass raped or killed by gay adoptive parents. (The first ever gay couple to use surrogacy has recently been exposed as child sex traffickers no surprise). The LGBT movement proliferates and insists to be taught in schools. Many schools across Europe and some in America have been teaching kids how to practice "safe anal sex". Sodomy is taught to children as young as 9 or 10, and the usual culprit pushing the agenda is LGBT inclusive "ally" groups.
The drag queens really want to read queer bedtime stories to kids too.

If you're a gay man who keeps that shit to himself and lives a normal conservative life, doesn't shove buttplugs in his ass tassled with peacock feathers to parade his naked body in a pride match at broad daylight in front of kids, then I've no beef with you. I've met men who happen to be gay and caused no problems.

There's a difference between "man who is gay" Vs "gay man/aka faggot". The LGBT identifying spastics are the ones who shouldn't be near kids
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>>34635240
lol
maybe you're bi
try a couple times to get it out of your system
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>>34642229
>Be kid
>Explore sexuality with adult gays
That's what you wrote. You admit gay adult men fuck the kids. Only you retroactively frame it as the kid was always gay and wanted to explore sexuality.

Bullshit. That's called post-trauma normalisation, it's text book PTSD behaviours where after surviving an abuse or tragedy, like being raped or molested, the victim attempts to tell his/herself it was normal, planned, controlled, in an attempts to mentally cope with the fact they were powerless, naive, innocent and got exploited and abused. It's how PTSD works, that's exactly what that is.

For a parallel comparison look at the BDSM community, straight or gay doesn't matter. Notice how they recreate abuse and outright admit they do that to cope with their own traumas, of being abused as kids, sexually or physically. Same shit with gays. They get their dicks creepily sucked by a bearded mouth of a man when they were still collecting Pokémon cards as a little kid and that kid lies to himself that he was into it. A story as old as time.

I'm not even angry at the gays who gaslight themselves to cope with their own rape or molestation. It's the pedophiles who fucked kids into homosexuality that should be hung.
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>>34642794
>If you're a gay man who keeps that shit to himself and lives a normal conservative life, doesn't shove buttplugs in his ass tassled with peacock feathers to parade his naked body in a pride match at broad daylight in front of kids, then I've no beef with you. I've met men who happen to be gay and caused no problems.
that's literally 9/10 of gay men though. just weird nerds. you're choosing to focus on the irritating fringe but you can do that with any group. it's not representative



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