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My wife knows that I'm more of a submissive men as I told her a few times before. I thought it would help to make her dominate me in bed. But now after time we have sex less frequently. Instead she is kinda dominant now but non-sexual. Like always correcting me if I do something wrong in the household. Or commanding me to this and to do that. Also nonstop blaming why I don't help in the household (I do though). Also she tries to talk more about our finances, like how much I can spend per month for hobby stuff because we "have to save". Now I believe I kinda messed up because instead of being the mistress in the bedroom she probably see me now less of a man. So much that she starts commanding. not sure if that makes sense. What do you think?
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Half of these relationship posts are begging the question like "I told my wife that I am a submissive man so now she sees me as a submissive man. What do you think."
I think you're retarded? No offense
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>>34635981
>What do you think?

That you hash out sex stuff BEFORE you sign any legally binding contracts with a woman. Enjoy your divorce. Or become a legit cuck.
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it's possible but she may also just have been a bitch from the beginning and just hid it. may or may not have to do with what you've said.
either way i am sorry to hear about this. hope things work out for you.
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>>34635981
You are conflating a bunch of things.

Your wife is tired of you acting like a child. She is pestering you about chores and hobbies and finances because she doesn't want to be your mother and wants you to pull your weight.

You seem to think that her expressing her concerns is her "dominating you." You also seem to think that sexual domination in the bedroom goes with domination in other aspects of life. You are wrong on both counts.

The way to save your marriage is through communication:
You both need to listen to each other, understand each other and sympathize with the other's point of view. If you don't, your marriage is doomed.
Make sure she understands that you get off over being ordered/dominated around during sexy time but not outside the sexy times.
Make an explicit, written plan of how you are going to manage your finances. Make it clear how much your hobbies actually cost and how much both of you are putting into savings. "You" and "your" here means both of you. This plan is of course subject to updates.
Make a list of all household chores and mark off all the ones you or she's done this week/month. You can both refer back to it to see who's doing what and if the feeling of "doing to much" is justified. You can of course balance the amount of chores vs hours of employment. This list is of course subject to updates.

Of course, all of this requires you to both to act like adults. And given your post, I'd guess you have a hard time doing that.
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>>34635981
If you're interested I could come fuck your wife and maybe put in a good word for you or suggest some better treatment while i'm at it.
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>>34635981
Man leave that bitch, get you a new one
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>>34635981
Rape her



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