>>34637667
At that age my mom would ask me if I cleaned mine but never do it as I was capable of bathing myself. Did she clean it for you throughout your childhood up until that point? If it was just when you were 9-10 that's pretty strange but maybe you were just a gross kid who didn't clean.

>>34637701
She did it for about a year I think. I was a boy so I didn't know about penis foreskin and etc.... She did it roughly about 10 times maybe? This was after my Dad died so I didn't grow up with a father figure and such. I would assume a father is the one to tell their sons how to clean their genitals.

>>34637726
That is strange anon, not gonna lie. If it was just once I could maybe chalk it up to a sex ed thing. What was the context when she did it? Describe the situation.

I would be in the restroom taking a shower, it was bathtub and sometimes she would barge in and see me playing with my penis. I would put the water rushing out of the faucet on the tip because it felt good. She caught me the first time and probably thought i was cleaning or something. Then she pretty much just showed me how to pull my foreskin back and held it and started pouring water on it.

>>34637726
Make sense if your dad died
It was most likely to make sure the foreskin retracted normally

>>34637667
She felt responsible to take over duties she thought her husband did, i.e. cleaning your penis. My mom used to wipe my ass until around that age as well, just because I was a lazy shit and called her to do that.

can't remember what age it stopped but i think it was kinda late ngl. and washed the butt too though. No its not molestation lol. if you're the youngest kid it might've taken longer for her to let you grow up

>>34637667
no that's not appropriate. if she was a nurse and you needed a penis cleaning at the hospital and you were above potty training age they would require a different nurse

>>34637667
She probably seen you as her baby, still. But no, that's not normal
>She didn't molest me right?
It is easy to answer that. Was it sexual? Or was it literally just treating you like a 10 year old baby?

>>34637667
little bit weird but not awful. as long as she didn't like, make you uncomfortable or visibly get a kick out of it, then it's ok.
10 is a bit old but eh, it's nice you had a mother that looked after you till you were so old really.

>>34637726
>This was after my Dad died so I didn't grow up with a father figure and such. I would assume a father is the one to tell their sons how to clean their genitals.
aaaah that explains it. she is a very good mother.

>>34637667
>I've asked some people in person and have gotten mixed answers. Some yes some no.
What did they say?

>>34637667
Japanese mums do this all the time

>>34637667
How was she touching you? If she was being instructional and trying to show you how to clean your penis by pulling back the foreskin or w/e then i think she was trying to help you. Does thinking of that memory trigger negative emotions and feelings? If yes then try and process that trauma, if not them id just forget about it.

>>34637788
My mom still wipes my ass and im 30

If you are uncircumcised then you need to clean yourself. It's better for the boy to do it himself, but it's not abusive per se of the mom does it briefly until he learns how.

>>34637667
You mean your school never taught you how to clean your dick during the annual Penis Inspection Day?

Who needs to be taught how to clean their dick? No one had to teach me that

no but it wasn't molesting and it was about 10 times. Just forget about it despite it being unusual.

my mom used to ask if I could get it up while getting me dressed in the morning. Very icky thought, but I guess she just wanted to know I could make grandkids in the future.

>>34638002
Basically. Husbando bathes the boy

>>34637667
That is definitely not normal, no. Though, from the way you describe it, I doubt it was a sexual thing for her. Possibly a misguided attempt to stop you from masturbating.