A woman basically gave me a pass to invite her out on a date. We went on 2 dates. They went well, I paid for everything. Now she basically responds to me once a week? What the fuck is her problem? And what can I do over text? I'd rather not give up
>>34638167Remember that the word "Pussy" has many meanings. One of those meanings is "Coward". And another meaning is "Vagina".That's not coincidence, we associate vaginas to cowardice because women are famous for being scaredy cats. Pussies who are afraid of confrontation. When a girl tries a date with a guy and she didn't enjoy it or just didn't click with the guy, she won't say that to him. Instead she will slowly distance, her messages trickling down to short dry replies, less and less frequent until finally radio silence.It's because women are pussies. They do this because they are scared how the guy will react if she were honest.
>>34638167>I paid for everythingNO REFUNDS
>>34638167You should give up. Women who actually care about you will make time for you.It's also easier for a lot of them to do this instead of telling you they don't want to see you anymore because as >>34638175 says:>They do this because they are scared how the guy will react if she were honest.
>>34638167>I'd rather not give upShe's already given up on you.
>>34638167>We went on 2 dates. They went well,Did you ask her for a third? If so, and she didn't jump at the offer, then the first two weren't as good for her as for you. Move on.
>>34638167The fact you haven’t seemed to ask her out on a third makes her think you aren’t THAT interested. She’s getting the sense you’re just keeping her warm while you pursue other options to date, so she’s not reciprocating as much.
>>34638167>I paid for everythingAny punishment for a simp is too little.
>>34638167You need to give her more expensive dates. You surely aren't giving her enough money. Imagine spending money on some whore who will never reciprocate...
>>34638167ah, my nigger, you are about to learn an age old lesson, something i wish i knew sooner too. i've been in your shoes a hundred times.have you ever played with a cat, with a piece of strong? moving it and dangling it, making the cat chase it?that is how you have to be with women. once the cat catches the string, it loses interest.did you shift your schedule around to accommodate her? that's an instant turn off. seems like it shouldn't be, but that's how women work.it's all about "who is more in demand?"This may also be a shit test of some sort, if you go simping for her and chasing after her, that's a turn off again.Crazily enough the best thing you could do, is send one message, try to make plans, then play hard to get, whenever she is free: you're not. so make plans to meet further down the line, then cancel. sounds crazy, but being so popular or so busy that you can't see her, is a turn on, because you are more in demand than her.starting to get it, grasshopper?I realised the other day that every time i was successful with women i just accidentally did all these things which make me more attractive, like i had a horny af bpd goth gf for 7 years, kinda wasn't worth it, she was too much trouble, but we fucked a LOT, point is; when i first started talking to her, i got evicted right afterwards, so i didn't speak to her for a month while i was moving and sorting out the new place, when i spoke to her again she had assumed i was popular and gotten another girl. who was more in demand?Also in interactions try to hit fun, trustworthy/honest/high integrity, respectable, then give interest/admiration, in that order.
>>34638167>They went wellDid oyu make out, grab some boob, go to someones place or did you just sit and have chit chat? If its the latter, it didn't go well and she lost interest because you bitched out. That said she probably wasn't crazy interested in the first place, or she has had bad experiences with waiting on dudes who take forever and a day to make their move. Anyways, its over.
>>34638771Far simpler: Just ask yourself whether you would do the same for a buddy. Women get turned of fwhen they notice you are jestering around the second a possible crumb of pussy appears in front of you. Bending yourself out of shape to please someone else in hopes of getting something is unnattractive in absolutely every scenario. Stop being so needy.
>>34638167You are on her roster she will call you when chads 1-5 are unavailable
>>34638771Is this really success though? Like yeah you can easily fuck mentally ill women who don't respect themselves and stuck-up bitches who play games, but none of that will get you a woman worth being with long-term, and it will just give you a bad attitude towards women that will turn the ones worth being with off. Guess it depends if you're just looking for sex or for something more meaningful. >inb4 "all women are like this"
>>34638229>>34638265>>34638622>>34638666>>34639398Is giving up really the correct option here? Aren't you supposed to be assertive and persistent as a man? I though women wanted to be pursued
>>34638167Invite her for a third one if you want to see whether it's not over
just be honest about what you want. if you wanted to invite her out on a third date you should've done so immediately. otherwise, you are probably not as interested in her as you think and you need to let her go. you also need to make it clear you are interested in her. women are insecure by nature and need to feel desired to be interested in you. if she rejects you, that's your cue to move on to the next girl.as men, it's in our nature to lead. if you already went on a date then it's clear she's interested in you. there's no point in waiting for signals or hints when you already know that.
>>34642715>Aren't you supposed to be assertive and persistent as a man? I though women wanted to be pursuedDo you get ALL your ideas from the Nineteenth Century?
>>34638175You know the quickest path to a beating or death for a woman? Saying "I don't want you" to a man
>>34644823No, it isn't. Stop making shit up.