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If I as a woman, put on my boyfriend's used underwear and walk around feeling sexually aroused, am I doing this to feel dirty and perverted, or am I doing this to feel masculine?
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>>34638469
Neither. You'd be doing it to feel safe and secure just in an odd way. If a girl loves her man and feels safe with him and admires him, she will sniff his sweaters, or wears them for pyjamas. She may even smell of wear his underwear for the same effect. Because it has his essence in then, whether smell or sweat. The girl clothes herself in it because its parallel to the emotional reality, she wants to feel wrapped in her man, protected and safe. The clothes is just a physical representation of that .
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>>34638516
That is the most description I have ever read
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>>34638469
neither i constantly wear my bfs underwear as shorts cus they’re like pajamas
i never have the smell thing cus that’s just not how i am but it’s probably a comfort thing for u
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>>34638516
>>34638537
>girl wears guys clothes
>oh she's just comfortable
>guy wears girls clothes
>he a faggot troon kill him
dafuq with these double standards
you motherfuckers for real? gtfo
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>>34638469
>I walked around in men's underwear
>Am I trans?
Jesus Christ, what have they done to everyone's sense of identity.
It's so fucking fragile.
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>>34638691
>>34638619
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>>34638619
>dafuq with these double standards
Because if a man is needing to be clothed in women's clothes to feel comfy and safe it means he's acting like a woman. Women are the weak emotionally dependent creatures, not men. If a man is acting like that he has more in common with women than men aka a gay or a troon
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>>34638469
It's like a dog marking it's territory. If you leave a streak over his, that means they're yours
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>>34638779
>to feel comfy and safe
>>34638469
>to feel dirty and perverted
is something wrong with yo eyes nigga
op never mentioned anything about feeling "safe" and shit
YOU were the one that drew that conclusion
based on your personal bias towards women and faggots
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>>34638813
EXACTLY see this fucking nigga gets it
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>>34638827
>OP never mentioned anything about feeling "safe" and shit

She didn't have to, security/safety = arousal for women. Womens sex drives operate differently to us men. For us it's about physicality and novelty seeking. For women it's about consistency and security. Unless it's ovulation time, the she will get horny due to hormonal flooding.

These aren't personal biases just common differences between the sexes nigga. You know damn well there's a difference between
>Woman walking around in her boyfriends boxer shorts
Vs
>Man wearing tight frilly panties and even other lingerie

You know damn straight the man is sending tranny coded femboy pics to gay obese men on Grindr or some shit and that's why the man wears women's underwear, to use as a prop for a gay fantasy.

Women wear her man's boxers for some warm fuzzy amorous comfy shit, the high coming from her feelings for the man. You know full well she ain't about to rub off in the boxers on webcam to lesbian dykes or some shit.

Not everything is double standards. Sometimes it's just basic differences between man and woman. Pick your battles better cuz you just argued for men to wear gay frilly panties, totally gay
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>>34638854
>You know damn straight the man is sending tranny coded femboy pics to gay obese men on Grindr or some shit and that's why the man wears women's underwear, to use as a prop for a gay fantasy.
It's like listening to a boomer trying to figure out how a skibidi toilet works.
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>>34638996
>XD im a quirky femboy bro
>:3 I just bought the shimapan high socks and matching panties to be ironic bro
>X3 Nuzzles your cock bro lmao as a joke
>I'm just taking it up the ass for a prank bro!

Fuck off queer
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>>34638469
>am I doing this to feel dirty and perverted, or am I doing this to feel masculine?
Neither. You are doing this because you love the man and want to be close to him.
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>>34638854
>Not everything is double standards. Sometimes it's just basic differences between man and woman.
No, this is the textbook definition of a double standard. Much like how a woman can grope a man against his will and you'd call him a gay faggot for not enjoying it, but would call the man a rapist if the roles were reversed. It's not that hard to understand, anon.
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>>34639099
I wouldn't call a man a fag for not enjoying an unsolicited grope form a woman. There's a difference between wearing women's panties and getting your ass grabbed by a woman. The fact I have to tell you there's a difference is fucking insane, get your shit together
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>>34639106
>There's a difference between wearing women's panties
Just admit that you gave biased feelings towards this subject and that you cannot comprehend that someone can wear the opposite genders clothes for reasons that don't fit your preconceived notions.
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>>34639131
>Just admit
Nah, piss off. Stop being a lawyering little snake, you can't fool everyone. If a grown man is going out of his way to buy and wear women's panties, he's a gay queer gooner of some variety, you and I both know that. You know no one has ever met a single man who wore lacy skimpy women's panties for any reason besides being a pervert fag. Name one single innocent non sexual reason why a man would go out of his way to wear woman's g-strings.
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>>34639159
Nobody in this thread said anything about wearing the opposite genders clothes being NOT perverted or sexual. Of course it is. Duh.

Your bias comes in when you assume that the sexual reason is always homosexual or transexual in nature. Well, I've got news for you, skippy. Sometimes... it's simply just to be filthy and disgusting... sexually.

Have you never masturbated naked at night out in public? The sexual excitement of doing something you're not supposed to be doing?

>>34638469
>am I doing this to feel dirty and perverted
>>34638813
>It's like a dog marking it's territory. If you leave a streak over his, that means they're yours

Case in point. Now consider yourself enlightened.
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>>34639253
>Have you never masturbated naked at night out in public? The sexual excitement of doing something you're not supposed to be doing?
Nah because I'm not a fag. I can 100% guarantee you the type of guy who would jerk off in public at night on his lonesome is a bisexual at the least. They're usually the hypersexual perverts who'd be game for that. As well as wearing ladies undies because again, they're queers. You ain't enlightening shit brother, my mind is made up and I am not budging on it, if you are a man and you are wearing women's frilly panties, you are a fag full stop.
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>>34639304
>it's like arguing with someone that thinks all black people are criminals
you sir are incredibly ignorant but anyways good luck to you
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>>34639335
and defensively homophobic as well hmm perhaps they were raped by a man as a child or something and this is how they express their trauma
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>>34639335
>Quoting things that were never said
Sign of clutching

>>34639350
>Defensively homophobic
So you agree that men who wear women's underwear are homosexuals? Nice me too. If they were straight men I cant be homophobic can I? Unless they're fags like I said.
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>>34639350
100% definitely giving off some closeted vibes
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>>34639415
Pretty sure this is just OP baiting you
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>>34639304
>I can 100% guarantee you the type of guy who would jerk off in public at night on his lonesome is a bisexual at the least.
My girlfriend and I have sex in public once in a while. Nothing gay about that. If you think exhibitionism or any other strange fetish you don't understand means you're gay then you're a retard.
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>>34638469
dirty and perverted
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>>34640536
Ok now go masturbate in public at night time by yourself then. If you tell me it's the same thing as fucking a girl in her pussy then you're a fucking retard. And I think you might be because you compare the two as if they're the same thing.
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>>34640874
>If you masturbate by yourself then you are gay
You know I've read some dumb shit on this site over the years and I gotta say this... has got to be one of the dumbest most retarded opinions I have ever come across in my entire life.
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>>34640965
No what that is is that you have crippling autism and you can't read between the lines or calculate nuance, you only read at face value like a child that needs to be told. Masturbating is not the same as masturbating in public like a spooky sex pest. And you can bet your bottom dollar that the person depraved enough to masturbate alone in public at night is also the kind of person to suck a cock as well as pussy. Aka a bi queer of some variety. When you live long enough and if you don't have autism you realize that most of the most prolific degenerates also take it up the ass. But they typically don't consider themselves gay. Like when autistic tranny fuckers fap to futa but don't call themselves gay. That type of idiocy you know?
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>>34638469
Fucking pervert. Made me hard.
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>>34639159
Not that guy but i cd exclusivly in my gf stuff with her knowledge. I dont like women normal stuff but I like to feel all types of her underware and cute hoodies. I also have a major turn on when it comes to her smell and musk.
I dont like and want to buy women stuff for myslef, but if she wear something sexy and comfy I usualy like to try it myself.
Maybe it dont make me feel safe like the when women wears her partner stuff, but I feel comfy and I feel like I can lower my guard. You know, like the trust thing?
I recon youre a person that knows everything about the topic and you arent intersted in dilog because youre afraid that your stance could be dented, but you really shouldnt care about the stuff that people do in their own bedrooms, or is it some kind of closeted envy?
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>>34641928
Hey man, is it hard to find women that find it hot when you wear their clothes? All the women I've talked to found that extremely unattractive. You one lucky bastard man.
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>>34641928
>I recon youre a person that knows everything about the topic and you arent intersted in dilog because youre afraid that your stance could be dented, but you really shouldnt care about the stuff that people do in their own bedrooms, or is it some kind of closeted envy?

Not afraid of dialogue or having my stance dented. But I respect your post because you seem reasonable since you didn't act like a bitch whining about double standards over panties. So my sincere questions for you would be:
Are you bisexual or had bicuruous phases in your lifetime, either fantasizing about men or acting out experiences with other men?
As for your reason to wear women's panties I can maybe see some fetish reasoning behind it if it's worn/used panties belonging to your girlfriend and you get off on the musk thing. Question is though why bother wearing it? Sniffing doesn't do the trick alone?

Also I don't care about what people do in their bedrooms what I care about is when people can't see blatant natural differences between men and women and whine about double standards. I agree double standards exist, like in courts or custody for kids or financial expectations of men, I already know men get fucked over. But when some autist seethes about it all because someone points out wearing girl panties for some gay femboy trip is gay as hell that's what's retarded.

If someone is a queer femboy who wears women's underwear I ain't gonna stop them or cry that they should be banned from doing that. If someone wants to be a fag they can be a fag. But I ain't gonna lie and pretend that's not fag behaviour.

And nah not envy, im a sexual freak too and have a woman I just don't wear panties. But you offered a compelling reason for it. So what's the kick in it? Wear your girl's stuff if you can just sniff?
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>>34641969
I dunno beacuse i didnt search for the girl that would be into it. I happen to develop said fetish during long term relationship. If i would guess I think its difficult, probably easier in west, but i wouldnt want liberal gf just beacuse of her leting me wear her cloths. I experimented a lot, still do, of course within our bedroom, just the two of us. I think its your best bet anon, build a stable relationship with caring person and go from there.
>>34642001
Frankly, I dont know really why, just like I dont dwell to much on why people with foot fetish like the feet so much.
You can try to understand it, be a froud-ian or other some other sexuology methodologist, but in reality I think ita very individual thing and puting a label on it is just crude.
I give you other example. My gf have high hygein, but sweats a lot. I dunno why but I love smelling, eating and worshipping her ass. I wasnt like this when we started dating, nor i would do anything like that with a new chick. Its a part of our intimicy, trust, that I really cant nor care to be explainable. She really means a world to me and I guess my kinky side that always was kinda large part of my personality manifest in this way.
I am not bi, altho my imagination is big, but I just dont see men in sexual way. I happpen to have dreams about xeno and monsterfuckery and those one were my only gay episodes. Also my sister dressed me up few times when i was a kid, bit I didnt view it as anything sexual back in the day and now.
On the closing note, its just a thing of preference, maybe you can find that someone likes veal because in reality hes straved for Fe (as in iron) but in most cases its just a matter of taste, which cant be really explained.
If you really this tolerant about bedroom stuff then you should understand this notion.
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>>34642161
>why people with foot fetish like the feet so much
they're degenerates that get turned on by athletes foot



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