By being the most self aware as possible (I'll only take advice from people that understand that their motivations and actions are influenced by complex mechanisms like hormones, social standards etc... I'm not into evopsych but one must admit that what we say we are is not very accurate)What kind of men, in terms of attitude do women like? Is it tony soprano, the strong silent type?The happy loyal man? The disdainful cat-like man? The warm but distant mentor figure?I understand that many have different tastes, and it changes with time. But I'd like to use behaviour modification to be more like what people like while still respecting my own goals and values
>>34638916>to be more like what people likeForget that shit. Be the best version of yourself and see what falls from the tree when you shake it. All women you attract through "behavioural modifications" are not going to fit you and will be a mid time, or even a bad one.
>>34639096>Be the best version of yourselfThis advice only works if you are a good person. It falls apart if you are a raging asshole, or an pathetic liar or anxious introvert or any other of a long list of undesirable personalities.
>>34639096Source?Your opinion?Discarded
>>34639103Anyone can choose to be a good person. If someone's bad, it's because they've decided to be bad, and they aren't fit to have a partner anyway until they've corrected themselves.
>>34639197Hence behaviour modification you donkey clotYou dint get to chose who you are in this world. Its because of retards like you that the world is so unfair. Not out of malice, but pure retardation
>>34639224Behavioral modification done for the sake of getting women isn't behavioral modification towards becoming a good person. In fact, the two are inherently contradictory. If you're only shaping up your act because you want to get girls, then by definition are not a good person. You have to want to be good because you value goodness itself. The initial anon wasn't implying that no one should ever change themselves, just that they shouldn't change themselves for the sake of attracting women.
>>34639234Your definition of a good person is twisted to fit some whatever worldview. I'm not ashamed to find women sexy and want to have sex with them sex is very pleasurable and I like it.If your definition of a good person is people acting the way you like then fuck off
I'm a woman and I'm only attracted to men like Alexander Mahone from Prison Break. I know the same to be true for most, if not all, other women. You should strive to have experiences as similar to his in the TV show as possible, as it builds character that no other kind of man can compete with. Be resilient, pursue your goals cunningly while still cooperating and making sacrifices for others. You should go through a crippling drug addiction that you ultimately overcome. Have a close family member murdered and seek to avenge their death, but remain good and graceful. If you do all this, you no woman will reject you. Trust me.
>>34639272Excuse but... LMAO
>>34639272I've got most of the points covered but what should I do about my family members? They're all pretty well off should I anger a mob boss or something
>>34638916Your categories are a bit too specific. But most women are strongly attracted to confidence, or the appearance of it. If you can be both confident-seeming and fun company, you won't have any problems. t. former incel who escaped from inceldom by figuring this out
Women like men who are tall, violent, have large dicks, and who cheat on them. It's really that simple. Also mild insults about their looks work really well. Like telling them they used to be way hotter when you two first meet. They eat that shit up.
>>34638916I've had girls hit on me for being the life of the party, for being outgoing, being physically strong or intimidating, for being from the country, for changing a friends tire in the parking lot or for something as trivial as having good weed; but the woman I'm spending my life with loved me for being sweet, thoughtful and funny before anything else so those are the traits I treasure the most.Girls like all sorts of things, different women have different tastes. Be the best "you" you can be and put yourself out there.
>>34639255The definition of a good person is somebody who values goodness for its own sake. If you only behave well out of fear of consequences, or desire for some reward, then you aren't good. That's not "my" definition and it has nothing to do with any particular worldview. That's the definition, the same one that has always existed and always will.
>>34639898Goodness could mean raping children you're using it as if it existed in an absolute I don't want to debate philosophy anyways lets keep it at the fact that I respect the status quo, the modern tenants of feminism, but I don't care to follow some meaningless dogma that could mean anything. I'll just do what feels good and for some reason being liked by women feels good.Maybe you've been indoctrinated too long into being an accomodating slave I used to be that way too, but for me I value respect more and respect is knowing what other people want and what I want. There is nothing conflictual by any standards about what I want. If you somehow have a problem with me wanting to be liked and have sex you're the snooping around kind.Thats all I hope my point is enough I like to debate but that's not the subject of my thread
>>34640955No, goodness could never mean raping children. Morality is objective because what's good and what's true are inextricably linked to one another. A person isn't good until he values truth for truth's sake and goodness for goodness's sake. I never said that you aren't allowed to enjoy sex, the point that I made was that if you only try to do what's good for the sake of getting sex and not for the sake of it being the right thing to do, then your heart is not in the right place, and thus you can't actually be good. Someone who only tells the truth because it's rewarding to him personally will lie the moment lying becomes rewarding. A good man is somebody who tells the truth even when it's not rewarding and actively inconveniences him.
>>34638916>What do girls like in men?they like whatever its percieved as the winner in their mind, may it be the rich guy (this happens very oftern) or the most cool guy (if they have teenegers minds) or the guys thats good in a particular stuff shegove simportance. Good looking for men is a meme.
>>34639377i see. but why ? why are they like this ?
>>34641486Wrong
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>>34638916It's the most easily accessible man in the most familiar environment and background as similar to hers as possible who is also the most attractive option. There you go.>>34639898>Goodness for it's own sakeThis is made up. Goodness is a human concept, invented by humans, for humans, about other humans and other beings in this universe and how we behave towards others. There is no goodness without humans. Goodness is a concept and morality is a concept. Therefore you cannot claim goodness for all of us in this thread, we all have our own version of goodness. Mine is that I should do good things that make me feel good while also taking care of myself. Goodness isn't being a dribbling idiot who sacrifices everything for others. There's a limit
>>34639103>It falls apart if you are a raging asshole, or an pathetic liar or anxious introvert or any other of a long list of undesirable personalities.Not at all. It jsut means you attract women who ar ethe femal counterparts to your list. Or you know, make it a point to stop being such an asshole as part of being the best version of yourself.
>>34638916No woman will ever love you anon, 90% of women out there do not love their man, they don't know how to love anyway; they only tolerate him as long as he provides.Learn to be stoic and get by without their fake and subpar love therefore about 90% of women should be invisible to you. Rise up above your biological programming.Take care of your health anons and find distractions to help pass the time, that's all most people do anyway, the difference is they do it with somebody so time spent together flows differently. It's merely an illusion though
>>34642090>>34642284Fucking losers You dont even know the data to be jaded like this
>>34642104No, goodness exists objectively outside of humans because truth and reason both exist objectively outside of humans, and goodness is based on adherence to truth and reason. Your view necessarily ends in incoherency, because if truth and reason were subjective then you would have absolutely no basis on which to claim that truth and reason are subjective. It's a nonsense proposition.
>>34644004>>34642090Considering how clavicular was getting folded here in france I somehow doubt you type of people know tf you're talking about or maybe its just how it works in your backwater vapid regions
>34644955uh oh the redditor summer tourist is having a melty>using a tiktok streamer as a source kek
