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To put it as simply as possible, I broke up with my girlfriend of 6 months after I found out she was cheating on me for a month. The way I found out she was cheating is where the problem is.
>GF meets girl at a support group while we’re on break and has a fling with her before we get back together
>When we get back together she assures me she established boundaries with this girl and will just remain friends
>Actually, she goes behind my back to fuck this girl for a month while lying to me the whole time
>I eventually meet the girl from the support group and we become friends, with me not knowing anything else had happened
>A couple days later I hang out with this girl while letting my then-gf know, pretty soon she spills the beans on everything
>We were initially waiting for her to get there to hang out together, but instead stage a break up for when she gets there
>I break up with then-gf in person with the person she was cheating on me with present.
>I then cuddle with the girl who was cheating on me with the gf for a few hours and go home.

Both me and this girl agreed to remain friends and potentially hang out in the future, but I can’t help the feeling that I’m getting punked again. What should I be doing going forward to not just get fucked over twice in a row?
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Dude, just don't put your dick in the lesbo home wrecker and you're good.
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Have a threesome with them faggot.
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>>34639027
>What should I be doing going forward to not just get fucked over twice in a row?
Your question is completely unrelated to the story. It is impossible to guarantee you won't get cheated on. Try to only date honest people and don't get to upset if it happens.

If you do pursue something with "this girl" then be aware that based on past behaviour, she's going to cheat on you.
You could also get back with your ex, acknowledge that she's bi, and make it clear that you want to know the truth when she sleeps with women. Also make it clear that she's not allowed to sleep with other men. As others have pointed out, you could be a thrupple and have regular threesomes.
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A throuple situation or a threesome would have been possible if she was just honest from the start. I can forgive someone who admitted their wrongs on their own accord. I can’t do that for someone who went behind my back and pretended everything was alright.

Whatever I end up doing, my expectations will be as low as the Mariana Trench.



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