shes obviously not into you, delete and move on

>>34639257
why didn't she just tell me that
*sigh*

>>34639358
Women ghost men because they're frightened. Men sometimes react very badly to a rejection, get abusive, maybe even make threats. Rather than risk having to deal with that, they just ghost you.

Maybe she's avoidant. I sometimes ghost people or don't respond for a really long time because I get anxious. If she hasn't unadded you she doesn't mind talking to you, so if she's avoidant then honestly just keep sending her messages occasionally to show her that you still like her, she might eventually feel safe enough to respond consistently.

>>34639477
block button exists if she didn't wanna talk to me she could've easily unfriend me and we don't live in same country I met her online
>>34639503
I mean getting her to talk was hard desu she is not the talkative type at all and very shy but her not replying to me like that and talking to other folks in vc is not nice

>>34639534
I agree it's a bit weird she's talking to others in VC while ignoring you, unless theyre people she's known a long time? But if she seems to just ignore you specifically then it could be she doesn't like you, but again if shes avoidant then she needs time and you making her feel guilty for ignoring you will just make her ignore you more. Literally the only friend I have is someone who always let's me know he doesn't mind I take long to respond and occasionally sends me messages to ask how I'm doing etc. and I don't respond to him for weeks at a time.

>>34639579
>while ignoring you, unless theyre people she's known a long time?
not really I tried joining vc and like always she rarely speaks
>f shes avoidant then she needs time and you making her feel guilty for ignoring you will just make her ignore you more.
that doesn't make any sense if she needs time she shouldn't be online in first place no?
I do need some time on my own too but I don't go around and ghost people who text me wtf
>Literally the only friend I have is someone who always let's me know he doesn't mind I take long to respond and occasionally sends me messages to ask how I'm doing etc. and I don't respond to him for weeks at a time.
I don't like that anon the worst that could happen to me is getting ghosted what's the point of a friendship if someone doesn't make efforts or time to be with the other I don't like the whole not responding shit if she was busy then that's fine but being online and ghosting while vc'ing with others it's not cool she was also kinda flirting with another dude there

>>34639098
;( you remind me of me when I was a kid. You seem pure hearted and you don't deserve this :( there are a lot of ladies in the world who use men for attention, and give them nothing in return. You sadly met one of those women - discord is full of them. I'm sorry friend. All I have to say to you is that there are, millions of women like her. Literally millions, on discord and reddit on and off using people for attention. They do it IRL too, but online it's affecting you as well. I can only advise you that, there are many women like this, and that you shouldn't give these women your time, because they will waste your time, and even worse they will use you and step on your heart while they do it. I'm so sorry friend, it hurts, but it's a valuable lesson. Move on from her, and don't fall for another girl who does this to you. Only speak to people who match your level of effort my friend, that's my best advice to you. Good luck <3

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>>34639661
I really don't know at this point I can't even tell if she is one of those people I don't wanna assume something wrong about her for it to turn out to be not the case and it doesn't make sense she would use me for attention other than anyone else there were plenty of other guys in server she could use anyone other than me
she doesn't also give any sings of those manipulative type of women you know

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>I met this girl on discord

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>>34639687
I'm sorry I'm chronically online I got no other place to socialize and talk to other people

>>34639098
It’s clear you’re a retarded faggot for coming to complain on an imageboard because some Discord “e-girl” is ignoring you, and you need to twist things around to convince yourself there’s something worth taking away from all this. Women are unpredictable, and at some point, they’ll cast you aside—and that’s something men need to understand and get over as best they can. Stop acting like a subhuman and just get over it once and for all.

>>34639684
Yeah man, I feel you, you're just like me - you want to assume the best of her and make sure that you do everything in your power to make sure it's not your fault and that you were friendly. But sadly dude if they don't care they don't care. Women lie and people lie, she can tell you oomggg bestiieeee and then disappear for a week before coming back with ooomggg bestieeee acting like she was busy but in reality she was texting, voice chatting, sexting and maybe even dating people irl while you were waiting. Don't wait for them. Really, don't wait. They have so many options. It's the sad reality, and the best thing you can do is like I said - match the level of effort of the other person.
There is no one in this world who is "busy" like girls are. It's cap. Don't be mad at them because that won't help you, instead - move on. You got this brother <3

>>34639716
I'm sorry anon I just can't help thinking about it all the time this is the only time I felt loved she said very nice things to me
I know women are weird and horrible but I was very happy when I met her I thought she is the one not mean and not weird
I want to move on but I want to make sure if she is really done that's all or something I don't wanna assume anything bad about her I keep wondering and I'm losing my mind over this
>>34639727
you are right... the first time we talked I always kept thinking that why I'm I even talking to her in first place what if she is getting fucked by a chad as I'm waiting and none of it made any sense she is very cool, smart, pretty it all felt I have such horrible like and I fucked it up even more

>>34639732
I also met a girl who struck me as the sweetest and kindest person I’d ever met online. But then, step by step, she started taking longer and longer to reply to my messages, her replies became increasingly curt and brief, and she ceased to be so sweet and adorable to me to a certain extent. And after realizing that the spark had faded, I simply decided to let her go. You can try talking to her to ease the anxiety you’re going through, but, as mentioned earlier, women are unpredictable and will dump you overnight if they find someone cooler whom they connect with better than you. It's pretty pathetic to keep pestering her over and over again, hoping that something can be salvaged from all of this, and I hope you don't keep going down that path.
As a suggestion, I recommend that you meet more people. There's a whole world out there beyond a boring, stupid e-girl who just dumped you for nothing.

>>34639785
you are so right anon ok I will do it, I will see if she texts back if she really doesn't I will just unfriend her and move on
>As a suggestion, I recommend that you meet more people. There's a whole world out there beyond a boring, stupid e-girl who just dumped you for nothing.
I wish I could there is no way for me to meet people other than online world
most people in my country are lame even if there are ones who are cool I still don't get along with them that much and it's not the same as foreign guys people here are more conservative

>>34639802
Are you from Israel?

>>34639815
What?? no
I'm from a muslim country

>>34639098
discord is not real life, she was probably a scammer

>>34639098
Delete her again. And keep her deleted
Why did you need to make a thread about this? Fuckin retard

>>34639477
>Men sometimes react very badly to a rejection, get abusive, maybe even make threats
So do women. That isn't an excuse

Seek expression not validation.

>>34639879
she is real though I'm not schizo
>>34640800
I'm sorry I couldn't do it
>>34640840
but I'm not seeking validation I just want a response even if it's a response rejecting I don't care just something so I can know if she likes me or no so Icould move on

yo it's me again I unfriended her however I sent one final message and deleted everything else I know you may get pissed at me for doing that sorry but I got nothing to lose no?

>>34639098
say "Have you given up on me?"
No additional text. Do not reply again.

>>34643109
I unfriended her just now

>>34639098
I loved him with all my heart and was anxious and isolated. You lied to me, larped as him, and deceived me who you are. I'm going back to where I never should of left . My shore with him.

>>34645113
Wait what??
I'm sorry I think you are confusing me with someone else

>>34645174
I don't care. It's over.

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>>34645223
sorry nonny I hope you actually find this person you loved
it will be really cool if you are actually her but clearly you are not grim