Growing up on the internet I always saw men say that all they want is a woman who isn't fat who is nice and is interested in them.I did all of that, it didn't work. I will never love again
>>34639343It's pretty simple really. Don't be fat, don't be an annoying bitch.
>>34639369that's what I did. my BMI is 18.5, I was never argumentative nor overly agreeable (because that would make me annoying). I was enthusiastic about his interests, validated his feelings, never judged a single thing even if I maybe should have. and it still wasn't enough
>>34639432Ok, do you have disc?
Men are not honest about what they want, even to themselves. If they have a nice girl who loves them, they will cheat her on with a bitch. If they have a bitch, they will constantly complain about herz and they love the complaining. They want someone who doesn't really care about them so they feel they need to work for her attention. If you love them too much, they get bored and they get the ick.
Who cares what men want? What do YOU want?
>>34639343>I will never love againBye, then.
>>34639442I'm starting to get the impression that love is just not possible
>>34639447I want a man to want me back
>>34639476I want you maybe. Post your disc
>>34639476You must address your codependency issues
>>34639343>>34639472>>34639476I think me and all of the men here really see you as special because we feel like we can provide what you aren't getting. Most often what I personally notice with women is that they disregard all men who show interest in them and instead go for the ones who are hard to get or that they percieve as such. Can you self reflect honestly for a moment and think if you are one of those women? It is very likely that you are chasing after someone who is not for you and you know it and you know the reasons too.A woman with BMI 18.5 who is nice and interested in me is what most men want, you are most likely setting YOURSELF up for failure by setting a goal for a man who isn't for you. You know the reasons, reflect with yourself and be honest, and then maybe also share with us your readings here.
>>34639343This advice usually works, but some guys are still evil, much like women. Manwhores, much like regular whores, have a much harder time pair bonding and will probably always be comparing you to past partners. Men with less experience are more likely to want to do whatever it takes to make a relationship work. Of course, manwhores are usually way more attractive than virgins.Just know your male looksmatch is probably hanging from the ceiling right now, but you'd still rather get pumped and dumped.
>>34639343Yes, because we want what we don't have, and once we have it, it loses its luster.Post nut clarity is very real. Sometimes you cum and just want that boring bitch far away from you.
>>34639686>>34639711the thing is that men don't really express interest in me. maybe because I am shy and don't go out very much aside from going to places which involve my interests (movie theaters, bookstores, fan conventions - which is where i met him)when I met him and got to know him I thought we'd be a good match, we're both on the shy side and have a similar sense of humor and share a passion for certain niche topics in history and film.I thought maybe the problem was that he was too attractive for me but my friends told me their impression was that he was a weird ugly loser (I still vehemently disagree despite being brokenhearted) maybe the problem is that i was so overwrought by my feelings that i made the first move, maybe i damned myself by wanting it too much. I wish I could somehow know how to make it right
>>34639919I don't express interest in any women because they are all are mean and have too high standards
>>34639919It's kind of impossible to tell what went wrong without knowing the context of the breakup and also stuff like ages
>>34639432Well annoying could mean anything. Some people are naturally fun, interesting and pleasant to be around and some people can't achieve a science to match any of it (annoying to transparently be running conscious personality procedures even).I think we're all of the same mind what annoying means though. Grating obnoxious quirks, orchestrating games or being high maintenance and needing correction. I think people quick to just call anything and everything annoying aren't very mentally put together themselves and make particularly bad companions though.
>>34639434>>34639478Are Playstations girls?
>>34639711>Men with less experience are more likely to want to do whatever it takes to make a relationship work.Technically true, but it's a weak signal if it isn't paired to anything else, and the inexperienced dudes who still want sex (outside of marriage, that is) are probably even more volatile than men with half a dozen prior partners.
>>34639919If your friends thought he was ugly but you thought he looked fine then he was probably average looking and you have a healthier view of men then most women. (Picrel) It'll be hard but just try to move on and you'll definitely find unconditional mutual love in the foreseeable future. When you do move on, take things slow and dont rush into romance with dudes you just met.
>>34639983I'm in my 20s he's in his 30s, the context for the breaking up was that we met up again after messaging for almost a year (following meeting IRL) where he then didn't really speak to me or initiate anything and then later confessed over message that he realized that he didn't really like me, he liked that I liked him and even said that he might be asexual.I think I would have been able to cope with this better if he has not continued to message me daily like nothing had happened
>>34640126I swear women choose the worst men on purpose just to spite the maximum amount of guys out there.
>>34639343the higher you go in the scales the more requisites people ask from you to be their partner, that's always been the case in both gendersyou want a mid dude who's a little bit past his prime and out of options, he'll be glad and more than ok with you being not fat and nice to them.you want something better, more requisites start appearingyou are just as delusional as the dudes that post around here saying that just because they're christian, virgin and not iliterate they can get a 7/10
>>34640153But what are they, that's what I want to know. What can I do to change his mind, or to at least prevent this from happening again
>>34640195move on and if someone isn't asking to see you they are not interesting in seeing you
>>34640148he isn't a bad person. he's the nicest man I've ever met and I consider him to be my best friend.
>>34640207you chose a guy who doesn't want to see you because you don't have to do shit and can just feel bad about yourself and complain on 4 chan dot org
>>34640222it's hard to let go of how i felt and still feel, but I guess I am just feeling sorry for myself. I just keep holding onto hope that there's something I can do that I haven't realized or know about that will fix it
>>34639343You have to be smart enough too...
>>34639343So did you just try once and give up?Come back after 5-10 failed attempts.
>>34640264Also, you have to give it to people who actually appreciate it instead of men you wish would appreciate it for the advice to work.
People who say they want almost anything will never be happy with what they want. If a woman says something like: "I just want a man who's nice and doesn't beat me" We know she's got personality flaws that makes her seek out abusers.
>>34639343>>34639432you just sound like a succubus robot designed to draw men in
>>34639343>>3463943218.5 is anorexic. Do 20 or 21. Are you ugly? A nice haircut can do wonders, specially Short, pixie cuts and the like, make you look playful, innocent and the contrast may accentuate your sexiness. Besides, women are the choosers, you're not giving men signals, or you don't approach those you like, or your issues are relatonship ones like jealousy, neediness, etc. Maybe you don't show men your love with dumb details like notes, chocolates etc, those are almost expected of women.
