Turns out I very well might have been lovebombed.She was my coworker for 2 years, claims she liked me for a loooong time, waited until I was "over my ex" (she knew me while my ex and I broke up) to make a move.In the beginning, we were inseparable, as new couples are. We already knew eachother from work, so we got right to the lovey dovey, lots of sex, making meals / lunch prep, sleeping over more often than not (4 nights a week usually), basically house RPing.It's been great until a month ago.She's very much pulled back from the affection. Texts aren't sweet and sappy, she's only stayed over twice in the past 2 weeks, when we see eachother after work (we now work very close to eachother) she's still sweet and clingy, but also still seems disconnected.Did I "nice guy" too close to the sun? Is she no longer afraid to lose me, so now she doesn't want me? Is the infatuation over and she realizes I'm not what she was hoping I was? I was always very upfront about my lonesome and albeit boring life, but she told me she wanted that kind of peace.I think it's all over bros. She's having a girls night tonight and I'm expecting the worst this weekend.
>>34639723Yeah break up. If the affection fades that fast it will never last.
>>34639723Your hunch is probably the correct answer. I'm going to go with that. What I know is that women have options and don't have the fear of letting you go because they know that they have options. If you're not interesting - she still has value. You're disposable to her.It's awful man, but I'm here for you with my shared understanding of our situation - some women are evil because they use their inherent value to move from relationship to relationship, it's the fun of life for them. I hate them for it, but if I was a woman I'd do the same. I'm jealous - but I can't do anything about it. The best thing we can do brother is not be like them, and well, next time look out for signs of seriousness to make sure the girl you're with isn't a repeat of this one. Best of luck brother
>>34639736): You right. >>34639739This was my exact mindset before trying to date this girl. Should've stayed single and/or killed myself like I was planning.Feels bad bros ): I really thought I could love again.
>>34639756How are you planning to tell her?
>>34639895Not sure if I should go the "I'm seeing bad patterns but we still have hope to fix this" route, or the "I see you've fallen out of infatuation for me and I will endlessly feel insecure about our relationship, so go find what you're looking for route"Either way I think I know what the ending is gonna be, there's absolutely no way she's still into me.
