Sometimes it feels like a bomb went off in the millennial generation onward and women became nearly impossible to get with. I've reached my mid-30s and I've never been on a single date in my entire life, and at this point- despite the years upon years of sexual frustration- I guess it's never going to happen. Is there any good way to cope with this feeling? Other than the obvious like masturbation, hookers, etc. Jerked off plenty and it never made me feel better, and I wouldn't even know where to start with prostitutes nor do I care to find out. I don't want to put sex and relationships up on a pedestal either, mind you, but when they're good, they're REALLY good or at least that's the impression I get.
>>34640683Women were already on the decline in the 2010 era, then covid happened which convinced most bitches that they can just sit at home, show ass and make money so that removed even more women from the dating pool, fast forward to post covid and society is still recovering from the lack of social contact during that time, women moreso, and also the widening gap of the genders in terms of combabilityIts not just you anon, women were way easier to deal with when I was 19, now its damn near pulling teeth to even get one to talk to you and not try to spin some bullshit catfish scheme
>>34640737I was hoping it WAS just me. What a nightmare.
>>34640683It’s not much better once you are married either.It truly feels like we are at the end of history as we know it as marriage is becoming less common. I am in my mid thirties and going through a divorce now. Modern women are nearly impossible to get along with, they have so many things that take their attention away. It’s like the Garden all over again.
>>34640683sorry it was too late already by the time covid hit>>34640737things keept getting worse2016 Trump campaign/election derangement2017 #metoo & onlyfans 2018 tik tok2020 pandemic onlyfans/tik tok blow up #blm 2021+ housing cars & food prices skyrocket
>>34640683>Other than the obvious like masturbation, hookers, etc.Other than the obvious, no. Hookers are great fun, though, you should give that a try.
>>34640772Every few hundred years society has a great shift anon. The people of 1800 are completely different than the people of today and the people of 2200 will be different than us. It's not the end of history but moreso the way society has been since the 1900's is starting to end. I see marriage being a completely foreign concept in the next 2 generations following gen z.
>>34640683>like a bomb went off in the millennial generation onward and women became nearly impossible to get with.Yes you are not imagining things. But it's not only women who changed, men did too. Both man & woman drastically lowered in overall quality. Women have become ultra-perfectonists who cannot and will not permit flaws in a relationship. They are obsessed with "Living their best life". And if the man is just one point below "best", she's looking for the exit. Completely unable to understand the concept of "process" that excellence takes time and mistakes to create. This is why women have no interest in child bearing any more too. 9 months is a process. Raising a baby into a child into a teen into an adult is a process. And women no longer have the heart for process.Meanwhile in the man side of the aisle, men have lost their testicles almost completely. 81% of men are weak men, mentally weak (only 19% of men report a strong father role model or good dad-son relation). Which means 81% of men depend entirely on women on the momma role model on breasts like a baby dependent on milk. They require validation from women in order to function, and if they can't get it, they meltdown or crumple into self sabotage. What's worse is when such weak men try to embody strong manhood, they just become petulant violent abusers who throw tantrums and call it dominant or alpha. Men now resemble vaginas in their character, to the point they tell themselves they cannot be the strong man they wish because women refuse to recognize them. (They wait for mommy to give permission). They want women to give them permission to be a big boy first. Then they will be bothered to practice manhood. That's how servile and petty men have become, they now act like moody attention seeking teenage girls. And heterosexual women don't want to fuck pussies they already have one between their legs. This all happened thanks to the absurd amount of narcissism millennial generation brought to us
>>34640683Life after 30 is a slow-motion suicide without family. It's all the negatives of getting old; watching your friends drift away as they start their own families, your parents and siblings getting old and die, watching everything in your life slowly putter out as the magic fades; without any of the positives of things like family or community to shore you up. Everything rots away and you're left with the bleakness of oblivion, no hope of anything continuing. Anyone who has experienced considerable ageing among his family members (or already in himself), knows how blackpilling it is. It's really rough, once people pass their early 50s (or sometimes even sooner) you start to notice the slip-ups, forgetfulness, the declining of fine motor skills, the difficulties understanding new information. Human existence is a tragedy, there are so few years that you are allowed with full mental and physical strength. Your peak years are mostly wasted with education, where you have barely any control over your own life, because you have little to no money nor autonomy. Add to that the time spent sleeping, working, hygiene, housework, shopping, appointments, visits to the workshop - what do we have left? Everyone who has to work for a living basically leads a precarious existence, regardless of whether they are a simple worker or a well-paid employee. Before they have built up a comfortable fortune and a well established understanding of the world, the body goes downhill.
>>34641228You can tell that a feminist wrote this post because its criticism of women amounted to "women are picky" and its criticism of men amounted to "men are psychologically weak and a disgrace, men are WEAK but at the same time they're also VIOLENT ABUSERS!!! UHH Why do men even need us women? Why aren't all men just perfect? They should be our slaves without getting anything in return, no emotional validation, no love or sex, NOTHING!!!"
>>34641277I'm not a feminist. The reason why I didn't criticize women for being gigantic emotionally incontinent pussies is because that goes without saying. That is common knowledge and women have always been like that since we crawled out of the dirt. Women are glorified children and as a man it is depressing to know that many men have now become as emotionally charged and petulant as women, even worse than women. Take your post for example, completely disingenuous, passive aggressive, you type exactly like a woman on her period.
>>34641313What is your definition of a strong man?
>>34640683But if you just send it at every woman you meet like the last 60 to 70 years of institutional feminism hasn’t happened and resign yourself to the idea that it’s only 25% chance of getting a psycho that you can totally handle and dump before she gets out of hand and tells people you raped her or beat on her you could end up with a decent woman. Granted you’ll never have reciprocal affection or anything like that, that’s your job as the man to provide that affection. That’s just the way it is.>what if she commits bedroom suicide in 3 yearsDrop her off at the nearest ghetto filled with joggers, youths, doctors, and lawyers and let her figure it out just how vulnerable she is without you lmao. Resting bitch face is just how women look so ignore it, it’s not flattering but it’s your job as a guy to wipe that stupid look off their faces by any means necessary.
>>34640683And yet all around you are people your age dating. Is it barely possible that the problem is in you?
>>34641392>And yet all around you are people your age dating.All but one of my male friends are single.
>>34640683accept your life should revolve around women or maiking kids
>>34640737>19Me too. I at least got some matches in dating apps during covid but now in 2026 I can't get shit, despite using the same fucking photos. Its insane
>>34641193Sure times and people have changed but marriage? That’s literally the one thing that verifiably hasn’t for thousands of years and is as old as humanity itself. It seems inconceivable that it would continue only for the simple fact that we are living in the fallen age right now. We will likely fall more and if we don’t disappear then the inverse will likely happen with the survivors and the marriage will cherish once again as God designed
>>34640767It really is though. This site and other online places are a cessit for a few thousand individuals who are haning out online 24/7 to play crabs in a bucket. Had a "blackpiller" write the quiet part out loud on here and state that hes simply trying to drag down as many "Normies" as possible as revenge for being born a freak. Thats who you are listening to. As I am exactly your age, neither me nor anyone I know has serious problems with women. Incelism is basically the Wizard of Oz. You#re listening to misshapen freaks and fatties dragging you down.>Is there any good way to cope with this feeling? Psychotherapy. Dig out the reason why you either never tried with women or always failed. Blaming women is just going to get you stuck forever.
>>34641519I didn't even need dating apps at 19, women were just that easier to be around, now they're all stuck up and if they aren't stuck up then they have some other issues they should of gotten over at age 20. I dont wanna even try most days because women have just made it that insufferable to even introduce yourself. I was out with a buddy a few ago and while we were at the register, the female cashier started chatting us up unprompted, fast forward and my friend gets her number. Later on we're chilling and I tell him to hit her up to see what's up, she responds with she's engaged and doesn't text him backI think even children are easier to deal with than women.
>>34641228>This all happened thanks to the absurd amount of narcissism millennial generation brought to usso why did it work with the absurd amount of narcissism from the boomers
>>34640737>Women were already on the decline in the 2010 eraTry 1910s
>>34641392Despite everything getting worse year by year, people still continue living their lives, always poorer, further from homeownership, more sexless and more poisoned by the slop.Same goes for dating terrible women. They get shittier year over year because they know they can rugpull some sucker down the line.
