My new gf wants sex in the exact same way every single time. She legitimately gets mad if I deviate from this script:>she orders me to stay still while she jerks me off>Later she stops and rubs her clit beside me while I’m suppose to not move >then I have to eat her out>then we having missionary while she rubs her clit>I’m allowed to cum after herWhenever I bring up the subject of switching something around, she immediately tells me this is the only way she can enjoy herselfIs this common? Does it have a name?
>>34641035>Is this common? Does it have a name?Neither of those questions matters. What matters is, given that this will never change, are you going to be okay with that?
The absolute best thing you can do for your relationship is the next time she is in the bedroom, grab her and bend her over the bed. Get your dick in her immediately. Shoot a big load then pull out and leave the room.I am 100% serious.
>>34641043Maybe, I’m conflicted. I find her very hotIs this very unusual though? Is there even a name for it?
>>34641035Yeah and the name is being a stupid controlling bitch that is ti stuck uo in with herself thats she have the mindset of 'my way or highway'.Many people still consider sex as some sort of taboo, preference is just to small word for it. Girls have their icks (like you wouldnt belive how many of them refuse to do any oral themself) and for many people its just a sort of ritual, you know, it gives them comfort because of the repetition, knowing what will happen beforehand and they feel better because of said established control.It like a visit to the supermarket for them - they have a optimal path for doing the shoping and they bug or lash out when you try to change anything.Your gf is acting like a boring normie, because probably she is just that. The question is, if she loves and cares for you to hear you out and change something to sate you better, because good relationships require it as a baseline. The ball is on your side dude, it ethier this or making a pace with the fact that you have 1side bedroom relationship.
>>34641055So rape her?Yeah, no
>>34641068>it gives them comfort because of the repetition, knowing what will happen beforehand and they feel better because of said established control.I guess this is it
>>34641035>Is this common? Does it have a name?I've never heard of someone like this. Sounds like a severe case of the tism, or trauma coping or something
>>34641077Yeah but sex and intimacy is a crown jewel of relationship. Kids are byproduct of it and to some poeple, are the real puropse, but in reality, it is said intimacy and deep feeling between partners that keeps you togheter. If she acts like she have a monopoly on it than its a bad sign, your comfort is as much importnat like hers and when she ignores you, she ignores the relationship in favor of her own happiness.You need to have a real conversation with her about it, like with all things, issues and problems. If she cares for you then she will try to change and meet you halfway, if not then she is a selfish person thats not worth your time.You need to understand that having someone is important, but if said person dont see you as a equal at minimum (preferably they should cheerish and care for you more than they do for themself, like you should strive to do for them) than the relationship isnt worth it.
>>34641035>Is this common? Does it have a name?Probably an autism or OCD thing.
>>34641128>>34641211She’s definitely not autistic
>>34641035>>then I have to eat her outThis is something men must do only to women with whom they're deeply in love and must be virgins.
>>34641035This is not typical but not unheard-of. She has gotten into a habit she knows works and sees no point to break with the pattern since she is sure any alternative would be worse.There may be a physical element to it - like a guy who has habituated himself to death-gtip masturbation to the point that he needs that level of pressure, friction, speed, etc.
>>34641035just rape her and shell understand
>>34641035>Whenever I bring up the subject of switching something around, she immediately tells me this is the only way she can enjoy herself>>Is this common? Does it have a name?She doesn't trust you enough to take the lead, so sex basically becomes masturbation.For example, you didn't push back on her saying that it's the only way she can enjoy herself. The fact that you didn't says there's plenty of other instances like this outside of sex.
>>34641035Women are neurotic creatures, anon. Cant speak for all of humanity but Id say thats normal. Forget about jewish porn.
>>34641035>Is this common? Does it have a name?autism, or sexual trauma, or both ... also she's selfish and unfair to make YOU do it the same way every time, when your needs matter too. like you're accommodating her, so she should do for you too. i gaze into my crystal ball and see this woman being a massive unfair pain in the ass in other areas of your life in the future too.
>>34641035you are being conditioned to need it like that too..it's hotter than no sex
>>34642081>or sexual traumalong time abuse and conditioning
