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My greatest fear is that the girls I'm rejecting are the best I can get.
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It doesn't matter. If you don't find a girl attractive you should reject her.
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>>34641868
With this logic I will end up alone forever.
The girls I an attracted to are never attracted to me.
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Take the number of women that you have rejected currently (x) and add 1/3 (.333x) to it. Reject resulting number of women first. Marry the first woman afterwards who's better than the best you've rejected.

There's no evidence of what I said working but it might make you feel better
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>>34641926
You shouldn't get into a relationship out of fear of being alone.
>the girls I an attracted to are never attracted to me
A girls attractiveness to you doesn't affect how attracted she is to you. Broadly speaking, most women are attracted to the same male characteristics, so if an ugly girl finds you attractive so will the pretty girl. By ugly and pretty I mean if she's attractive to you or not.
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>>34641954
The only pretty woman who has ever showed outward attractiveness to me was obsessed with her ex.
Ugly women have only ever been honest in their intentions in that they actually wanted me.

It's either get into a relationship out of fear of being alone, or being alone.
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>>34641854
Start judging women on more than just their looks and maybe they'll offer you the same courtesy.
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>>34642025
So yes, I should lower my standards?
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>>34642018
So a woman you were attracted to was attracted to you, making your previous statement demonstrably false.
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>>34642040
100%, yes.
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>>34641954
>You shouldn't get into a relationship out of fear of being alone.
This. You should die alone and unloved while spending your wage on ephemeral consumer goods to strengthen the economy of a government who wants you and your lineage dead.
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>>34642130
Good job mixing your political bullshit in there, schizo.
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>>34642140
What do you mean? I'm merely agreeing with you.
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>>34642144
I meant exactly what I wrote. And you're not agreeing with me, you're being a snarky cunt and are now making an attempt at cheap sarcarsm like most politics obsessed schizo chuds tend to do.
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>>34642239
No, I pretty much said what you said. Not sure why you're getting so upset.
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>>34642118
OK, how do I do that?
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>>34642654
>figure out what your current standards are
>lower them
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>>34641954
>A girls attractiveness to you doesn't affect how attracted she is to you.
False. Attractive people act differently than uglos. Ugly people are often jealous of how real pretty privilege is and that affects their behavior.

Seen a grown woman throwing a tantrum because she's being discriminated for being too fat? Equally unattractive behavior in men.
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>>34642025
Looks matter, it can't replace compatibility but personality can't replace attraction either.
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>>34641854
people are pretty good at telling who their looksmatches are. if you think a girl is too pretty you will automatically assume she is not interested in you. if you think she's too ugly you won't even consider her as an option. the ones you are comfortable approaching and talking to are your looksmatch.
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>>34644041
This is
>draw the rest of the fucking owl
Type advice
How do I lower my standards practically.



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