I'm 23 years old vitgin and honestly, this is starting to take a toll on me. Should I just go with a whore at this point, or will it make things worse?
>>34641888if its legal in your country, sure. just dont get attached or you'll lose all your money.
It's legal. The only thing holding me back is that I'm afraid losing my virginity to a prostitute might make me feel worse than I do now. Or it might help me get past this and finally move forward.
i think you shouldn't. she will come one day. each experience is a learning step
I don't think you should. You will lose your virginity but you'll always carry the shame of your first time being with someone you had to pay for who is regularly fucked by all sorts. Nobody remembers their second or third. You will remember your first for the rest of your days and it will always eat away at you if you take this route and you have a moral conscience. If you don't have a moral conscience go for it if it's legal. You'll know for sure afterwards if you have one or not.
You should. Get it over with.
>>34642233>if you take this route and you have a moral conscience. If you don't have a moral conscience go for it if it's legalthat's really what it comes down to. it's both a blessing and a curse, means you're capable of having deeper relationships but also you can't take the easy way out because you'll always know
>>34641888It will make things worse, because paying a stranger for sex only exacerbates feelings of inadequacy or undesirability. The only way you can resolve such feelings is by attracting and initiating sex with a woman all by yourself.
>>34641888Tf op, there's more important things than sex. Focus on your mental well being
>>34642396I think my mental well being is linked with sex
>>34642255>>34642233That's exactly what is stopping me rn. I don't know if a prostitute will free me about this insecurity or make it worse. I guess the only way to know is to go with one
>>34641888While it's not personally appealing to me to fuck whores the fact is lots of women are not better than whores and just are looking for money or something else from you to fuck.
>>34641888There's a thread like yours almost everyday and hardly the posters reach a consensus. But, every week or so, there are threads of bold anons who took the plunge and paid a whore anyway. From what I remember, 9 out of 10 regret it immensely. The last 10% say that they felt rather indifferent, apathetic, surprised even, about how sex was "overrated". Take your pick. The clock is ticking. What will you do? If I had to guess, inertia and complacency brought you to this point, it's time to act nigga.
>>34641888Virginity isn't a curse, and prostitution is degenerate.
>>34641888>Should I just go with a whore at this point, or will it make things worse?I suspect it would feel empty because it's not sex you're after but love and acceptance.
>>34641888Go talk to women ffs. You aren't approaching enough. You aren't interacting with them enough. Stop pussying out and just do it until you get the experience you need.
>>34643604I'm afraid to become the fool of the village if I approach a lot of women.
>>34642233Good post
>>34641947Well we can't know how you'll feel after an hypothetical scenario, can we?I can only tell you it didn't make me feel worse and in fact relieved a lot of tension. But I'm not you.
>>34643108That's because those are mopey guys with issues who think losing their virginity is going to improve their mental state and they think the hooker is going to fix them like she's a therapist. Or virgins like >>34642233 who think the first time should be sacred and humans can get "mentally imprinted" or some shit from a quick fuck with a stranger.
>>34641888I lost it at around that age, maybe 22-23.It's whatever.Sex is unironically overrated, Anon.HOWEVERBlowjobs are the real deal. Find a girl who loves doing them and you'll be satisfied forevermore.
