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Step by step (yeah, I need a guide, I'm dumb).
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well good luck for that, i mean eventually u will get friend in the future, and well my life is mess and im 22 years old, just keep working out, do the things u like, and make dream i guess?
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>>34642139
Very relatable wojak. I will bump your thread because I'd like some advice as well.
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>>34642139
Do you have a job, hobbies, car etc? What have you actually done, and what do you want from life
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>>34642175
>do the things u like, and make dream i guess?
I can't because I'm tired and wifi were I live is literally third-world tier.
Hope you make it, anon, you seems like better prepared than me, and you are 5 years younger.

>>34642192
Thanks, anon.

>>34642242
Career, I hate it, but need to do it for the possible doors it will open me.
>what do you want from life
Good question, something creative (paint, music, writing, photography, I like them all), but my parents force me to focus in a "real job with real credits and real career" (I'm not asian, but my parents admired them, so yeah, I can't escape this until I can pay for my own house, which it's impossible where I live).
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>>34642139
First off don't waste your time editing wojaks to more accurately describe your life, lol
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>>34642139
define fix yourself, to which standards you want to abide? are you searching for reassurance?
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>>34642139
schizoid-coded
what you need is some kind of clear goal that you believe in and that's achievable, and then you need to learn how to interact with people in a way that's sincere but also allows you to get closer to them. moving to a new environment can work, if you combine it with trying to make meaningful changes.
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Start to meditate annd look into the chakras, it is a really helpful model for understanding what goes on inside your subconscious. Once you realize which of your 7 chakras are blocked, it gives you a good picture of what adjustments you should make.
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>>34642454
Don't be a mobile/Internet addict, think more positive, don't procastinate (do what I have to do), sleep better (nightmares, hot nights and having trouble falling to sleep instantly are awful).

>>34642685
What if you can't currently move to another place and you have to stay suffering your current living for some more time?
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read atomic habits, pay particular attention to the identity-based habits part
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>>34642139
Get born again and become a Christian. This can be the direction for your life.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BRXDYvpA020
Here you go. Best of luck.



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