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Do you think it's possible to move from casual sex to a proper relationship or is it a lost cause?

I started seeing this girl and we clicked right away, but ended up in this place where we hook up and hang out often but aren't really dating (and she won't let me kiss her)..

I like her a lot, from the very start it was never just sex to me. She seems reluctant.
I don't know what qualities makes a guy "hookup" material different to actual bf material. Every time I try to push for romance she seems to shy away...
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>>34642449
Why are you fucking a hussy and not your sister
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>>34642449
>she won't let me kiss her
No. Move on.
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>>34642449
It's definitely possible but in your situation not gonna happen
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>>34642449
>Do you think it's possible to move from casual sex to a proper relationship

Its actually the way to go, also known as "getting to know each other".
>Every time I try to push for romance she seems to shy away...

Stop doing that. It turns women off. Just keep plapping and let her come to you. When she starts doing stuff like leaving her toothbrush at your place and shit. Eventually she will ask you to be "exclusive". Until then, keep cool, see her as often as you'd like and let things develop naturally.
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>>34642449
>she won't let me kiss her
It's possible in some instances but not here. She doesn't want you like that.
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i think fornicators and adulterers are to be obliterated and put to death.
that being said, anything is possible. but it seems she wants the benefits of a relationship/fwb (sex) without doing any work aka responsibilities and so on. if you catched the feefees for her, it is your mistake and loss. shouldnt have fucked her. maybe try to be upfront next time you see her and tell her your honest feelings. its a gamble to lose free pussy and be turned down but at least you took a chance and you miss all shots you dont take anyway, if you are serious about it. maybe tell her that but also tell her you dont expect an answer and she should think about it for a few days or so.
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>>34642449
>Do you think it's possible to move from casual sex to a proper relationship
Absolutely. That's how me and my wife did it (been married 29 years)
>she won't let me kiss her
But not in your case.
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>>34645192
>>34642482
>>34642464
is it really that bad?
I mean it's just kissing. I like making out a lot but that's all it is really.
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>>34642449
No, there is something fundamentally broken within her. It's completely normal for even not-normal girls to want a relationship with the man they are constantly having sex with. That's one of the most important things in a relationship. Good sex.

If you really want to see, if it's possible to go anywhere, ask her to prepare some food for you for the next meeting.



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