Hi. I’m 18 and have recently started drinking / going to bars, clubs etc and it’s been okay, but whenever I go out I get looks all over the place. Now normally that sounds good but to me it’s probably because I look a lot younger than I am, and I’m 5’7, I like wearing clothes a bit different from the norm (just nice looking old leather, woollen jackets with a shirt or something) and I normally go solo but I go with some friends every now and again. The main problem is most conversations I get into in the club often include the sentences “are you autistic too?” Or “Do you have autism?” Now, maybe I do, maybe I don’t, I don’t think I do and I don’t have anything against people who do or don’t but that’s besides the point, but why do people automatically assume it and in my opinion treat me oddly? Like last week, I have a few drinks and start dancing in the middle of a crowded club (I can’t dance but I didn’t go wild or anything) and I’m getting looks from tons of people, like people nudging their friend and gesturing to me when they think I’m not looking, smiling and patting me on my back etc. now I think I’m a decent looking guy, I’ve had GFs and I get called cute and sweet often. Should I not worry about this stuff? Am I just overthinking everything here? It’s just whenever I get into conversation in a club people always ask if I’m okay or with someone. I appreciate them checking up on me, but I just want to dance, mainly talk to new people, have a few drinks but this stuff kind of takes me out of it. Sorry if I sounded like a jerk or anything during this, it’s just something I can’t figure out, has anyone had similar experiences? I know I might have answered my own questions myself with why I think people look at me often, but does it sound like I’m messing up in some way? thanks for reading
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