i graduated from uni about a month ago and realizing that my life coming back home is kind of shit. i'm from a massive city i once loved, but coming back after being in a bucolic town for four years has made me realize how shit it really is. the constant crowds, the homeless people who smell like human shit, the noise pollution from the sirens--i seriously don't understand why my parents put their children thru this. i'm qualified for the work i want to do, but i have a feeling that the prospective career will be a total dead end. it's super hard to date where i live--all i've gotten is constant rejection and i've been on a dry spell for so long. i do love my parents a lot, but now that i live full time with them i've lost out so much freedom and they do annoy the shit out of me; i've noticed they're getting older and it shows. my friends are nice but i can't see my life going anywhere if i just stick with them in this place. i feel like my home truly has nothing for me, it's really sad.i've been learning spanish lately since it's good for the work i'm interested in and i've heard good stuff about el salvador and how it's improving with bukele cleaning up the country. even if i make no money doing it teaching english in some small town over there sounds like peaceful living, it'll bring adventure in a country that's exciting and isn't being degraded by third world immigration (i know it's where all the migrants are coming from, but at least it'll be a culture that's in an exciting new stage). maybe i can find a wife over there, who knowsso should i do it, bros? abandon everyone who loves me here for a fun chapter abroad? honest advice is appreciated, if you think i'm being a whimpy faggot rich kid who's pissy about graduating college and is inconsiderate to those in his life you can say so
>>34643978Sure. Really improved from fifty something years ago when people were trying to escape. Relocating yourself allows you to grow in ways you never would. Nothing has to be permanent, if you change your mind.
>>34644094have you been? if so what was it like?