been talking and going out with this girl we met about a month ago at a party and we liked each other, we've talked about dating seriously but the thing is she dresses like a whore, she talks like one, she has tons of male friends, she likes partying a lot and to make things worse she gets constantly hit on. She even told me a friend of hers she just met told her he liked her before we met but that she told him to stop and friendzoned him and that she's not planning to date anyone. I can't say why she changed her mind with me but it does trouble me, to be fair we're just getting to know each other and I'm still talking to another girl behind her back even though she told me she's not talking to another man like she does with me and that she expects the same, hell at the party we met I was actually expecting another girl and she knew because my friends were talking about it, she brought it up on our first date and I told her not to worry about it, that we're nothing and I don't even know her. She didn't seem too troubled by it and just told me she believes in karma.With that said will I be able to pull it off with her? she told me if there's anything I don't like about her male friends that she'll stop talking to them if I tell her so and she does act maturely in that regard, she was the first one to talk about how if anyone in the relationship won't take things seriously or likes to hop from person to person then there's no point in moving forward just to hurt each other's feelings. She does seem like the kind of girl to talk back if another guy were to push things outside of friendship but I mean she's hot and all the guys in her circle want to bang her, even her friend talked bad about me on their group chat and I could see he doesn't like me when I met him, he's upset she rejected him but then went out with me. And then today she tells me this guy who works as a barista gave her two coffees for free and I'm supposed to tell her oh that's very nice of him?
the thing in relationship is trust each other and communicate, and it sounds that she is reject and push men who trying to be close to her, she told u she get hit on to make u jealous i think? try to talk thru with her about this thing if u dont like hearing her bragging about men who hitting on her, and told her that u trust her and ask her about what are we and what she want from you in the future, anyway good luck
>>34644058thank you, I will, the thing is I also feel like we're taking things far too quickly I mean, I do like her, she's a good girl I know that but we barely been talking for a month and we've already talked about how this hadn't happened in the past for neither of us, I mean to click right away the moment we began talking.We act cautiously around her parents, says she wants to introduce me so we can hang out freely, we talk about how we can have full communication and trust each other so should I pull the trigger this fast? now that we've talked about this should I bring it up something like hey you know, I don't like it when you tell me this guy did this for you or that someone wanted to go to this party and invited you or that you chitchat with the uber drivers... it just seems too soon for all that, and I have my secrets, as I said I'm still talking to another girl, and she's in a relationship. It's not like we see each other anymore as she moved somewhere else but still I have to hide conversations and mute notifications when I see her. What if she asks about me? I'm not good at lying and the thing with the other girl we never really cleared that up I just said to her not to worry about it and that she's gone, if I explain the full thing about how it really went down will she understand? it really was nothing but it'll make me look like I was feeling lonely or desperate I think. Overall I'd say I am afraid of commitment I don't known for sure I want a relationship right now but I like her to the point where it'd hurt me if she went and began talking to someone else because I was too slow or something
