>be me >recently broke up with my gf of 3 years, like 2-3 months ago >depressed as fuck but I'm open to meeting new people/women if only not to lose all social skills as I'm 26 and terrified of dying alone >go to the kinoplex with my family >I suddenly bump into an old friend from when I attended a sports team from college >she looks cute as fuck, and when she saw me her eyes lit up so much, she also gave me a warm hug >we spoke for a minute or so because we were in line to buy popcorn, but I felt some chemistry >after the movie we meet again in the parking lot and we talk a bit longer >I made an off-handed comment about how I thought the guy she went to the movies with was her boyfriend and she immediately told me that's not her boyfriend > She explicitly told me to text her so we can hang out >when I get home I text her on instagram and get her number. She also complimented my hair and said I'm in very good shape (thanks /fit/)Now here's the weird thing >the whole thing happened like a week ago >since then, she's taken like a day or more to reply every time I text her >I haven't asked her out yet because our conversations are not even 3 texts long before she disappears I don't get it bros, I haven't even gotten the chance to be boring because we haven't had a decent conversation, so I don't even know what I could've done differently. Every single signal and comment she made pointed to her being, at the very least, interested in me, but talking to her is so difficult. Next time she replies I'm straight up asking her out, I don't give a fuck. I just feel like the whole thing is extremely contradictory.
she just being nice to you, are you always double text her? like texting her again when she is not replying? if you do she prob feel uncomfy and trying to kept distance, but hey try ask her out, she offer u at the first place tho, good luck !
>>34645328>she just being nice to youThen she was EXTREMELY nice, because most people (including me) would be way less considerate when speaking to someone you're not interested in and haven't spoken to in a long time. >double texting i'm not, I explicitly stop responding when she disappears. I'm very interested in her but I'm not desperate.
>>34645333Jump on the opportunity, you have no face to save. Jump on it and if it's a no it's a no, act like it's no big deal and be friendly. You never know where you're going to see someone next. Always be nice, never burn bridges.I know that what I'm advocating might seem fucked to some (what the hell dude? You're just going to lay back and take it?) but think of the alternative - getting hurt, getting defensive, putting up walls, saying I don't want to talk to you anymore. That's all gay pussy shit. If you asked, and she says no, and she's not bothering you no more - then you don't bother her no more. And that's that. Freely express that you like her. Don't be scared. The right girl will say yes. The wrong girl will respond with that pity-smile bead-of-sweat-on-forehead smiley. And that's okay. She is just a fucking hole. Piece of shit cunt I FUCKING HATE THEM!!!! I HATE THEM!! FUCK!!!
>>34645318could be two things in my humble opinion>flirty personality (a lot of women). she doesn't actually mean it.>bipolarIf she doesn't seem interested anymore, it's possible that she is bipolar and just switched to a depressive period. Maybe pause for a moment and thank God that he saved you from a crazy bitch before moving on. There is no future with someone that unstable anyways.
>>34645318Update. I asked her out, we are gonna go hiking this weekendGentlemen, I dont understand women
>>34648538happy for u OP !!F but even i am puzzled, maybe she just sucks at texting and keeps her distance from online platforms
>>34645318a woman is going on a date with a man and says he's not her bfthat's a red flagyou're gonna be her next "not my bf"
>>34648538Moral of the story, texting is gay and any more than necessary damages your chances. Good job OP
