Am I the only one who doesn't like to hear or even think about gfs exes? Especially about intimate stuff? The thought of me kissing the same mouth she sucked off some guys in the past disgusts me. It isn't an obsession or anything like that, just a passing thought. Obviously, I inderstand thats how life works and ex-bfs (and other luggage like that) are usually inevitable (especially with age), but it still affects my mood briefly. Will it go away with experience or something? Or thats how other people live too even if both of them had multiple exes? Just bear and keep moving further? Do women feel the same? I don't mind marching on like this for the rest of my life too if thats a normality.t. acquired first gf recently at the ripe age of 30
>>34645610Mine didn't do anything with him, even though he keeps trying to make me think that because he is a narc looking for a reaction.
yeah it's normal, i feel/felt it very strongly as a woman, i just try not to think about it. but it does get easier with time as it gets further into the past
>>34645610Ask yourself seriously why, when you're in bed with a lovely naked woman, instead of thinking about her, you're thinking about other men's dicks.
Im a woman and I also utterly hate this. I dont know why so many people are okay with it. I dont mind if you have exes, arent a virgin, etc, but I dont want to hear about how much you loved them or how you were intimate with them. Why would anyone want to hear that???
>>34645721lol, lmao even
>>34646392Yes he is that pathetic that he makes posts trying to get me to think things happened between them but it didn't. He's just a pathetic manipulative narc.
>>34645610Tell them not to mention it. Its totally normal to feel all sorts of grossed out
>>34645610>t. acquired first gf recently at the ripe age of 30gzI would say that you let that go as much as you can (if she's not interacting with exs, "friends" and shady shit), now she is yours, only yours
>>34645610I'm female but I can relate to this. I don't have any photos of them and I hope I never do. I have pathetic self satisfaction when he mentions negative traits about them. I'm ultimately super grateful that he's with me (for some reason) and the thing I focus on is that I'm the most recent. He's only been with me in X years. Plus after 7 years or something all cells are replaced so it's sorta like all mine... Ultimately, and I can tell you this because I clearly have these feelings, don't think about it too much. Them experiencing sexual pleasure is good so they didn't feel lonely or pent up or otherwise. And now it's your turn and maybe you'll be their last as well if the situation is so lucky. First is one thing, but last is another thing entirely. Didn't need anybody else...
>>34645610nah i think it's really hot hearing about her experiences and making her recount acting like a slut for his big thang
Completely normal. I also hated that. My ex was a typical conventionally attractive sociable college girl, obviously she had a few bfs and a few fwbs, I always hated to hear about that shit. The relationship didn't last and everyone said I was an idiot because she was attractive and also fairly successful (had gigs going on and had a pass to all sorts of events and stuff). That shit only flies with drunk college idiots.Eventually I did find a good girl, also a virgin, and we got married and we've been married for 3 years now. I can't imagine, I literally can not imagine being with a woman with a bodycount, especially modern women who all have had sexual partners in the tens and probably done a few disgusting things also. I'd rather eat mud all alone.
>>34645610I don't ask and I won't listen. However, I do privately inquire prior to my feelings become too involved. I don't ask them since no tramp tramps in a vacuum. People know and they talk so if you keep your ears and eyes open telltale signs are there.I learned early after insecurity prompted me to ask and/or a woman unilaterally offers a recounting of her tryst it is a slow painful emotional death. No more. Truth is when a man asks he is so insecure he wants to validate his position by comparing himself to others. Truth is when a woman over shares numbers and with detail she is an insecure braggart. She considers her tryst validation of her desirability and she damn sure wants any new man to know her power.
