How do I stop being serious and boring? I've been like this since about 10th grade and its ruining my life. I'm not a naturally funny guy, sometimes people laugh at my jokes but I find it difficult to laugh at others' jokes, even if I find it funny. This could possibly be 'blunted affect' but thats besides the point. How do I become a fun, chill guy who isnt so uptight all the time? I'm at the point where coworkers straight up tell me that I'm too serious. Please help.
>>34646685be a little more interested in others, don't talk so much
>>34646685You have tism. Talk less. Observe. Watch movies and adopt personality traits
Grass is always greener, I used to be the 'funny guy' and people always treated everything I did and said as a joke. If you are going to try anything, try to feel more comfortable with yourself, this will naturally make you behave more authentic and therefore be more charming.