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I made a video detailing my life as an old virgin, what advice would you give to finally get me a gf?
https://youtu.be/fSmPBowFWq4
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Accept that despite what life gives you, who you are is just a part of being human. Who women are are just a part of what makes them human. You can't accept that and keep beating yourself up for being this nice guy no one can understand, you will go nuts.
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>>34647215
>>34647369
>basketball analogy
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>>34647215
pure lack of experence I'd say
good that you acknowledge that it's all lack of true puttng yourself out there

If you have a decent paying job
I wuold use that money to get into social hobbies
Like if you are into the gym, go to nice fitness classes
Places that require money for access have a better pool of people

Simply leverage your money to get into cool events and places

If money is an issue, then all you can do is take nicer pictures of yourself, get more dates online. Like you need dozens of dates before you understand how to do it
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>>34647215
If you make it to the age of 30 without ever having had a girlfriend, then it's time to give up and look for other ways to make your life fulfilling. It's never going to happen; the longer it takes you to accept that, the more miserable you'll be.
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>>34647215
i made it all the way to the song at 9:48 before i cringed so hard i couldn't continue. sorry
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>>34647215
How do you even manage this as a black person? Black women give it up like crazy
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>>34647215
Scrubbed through your video, it seems like a chill vid, nice job. I don't have any advice for you because I'm also a virgin and I will soon be a wizard like you. Picrel is a rebus puzzle I made
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>>34647215
Helps to be somebody and if you leverage your youtube enough and meet people through ityou have a proper chance of even getting messaged by girls, but they need to know your general area.
T. Fucking the second chick atm in 3 years who dmd me because I got viral one time
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>>34647215
Making yourself known online as a virgin who can't get pussy is less than ideal. I mean you could turn it around if you eventually got laid or something, but women don't tend to find this attractive.
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>>34649432
Maybe he just enjoys playing this character more than he would enjoy a relationship. Sometimes people don't want to change/improve and prefer their current spot for whatever reason. He doesn't look bad and I feel like he could easily fix this if he wanted to but I don't think he actually wants to for whatever reason.
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I don't get the video nor the year updates, seems it's like this guy said >>34649450
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>>34647860
Yeah I think years of relative isolation played a part in getting me here. It probably would have happened by now if I had just been in environments where I could mingle with women naturally, but the only girls I talk to are cashiers.

>>34648088
You made it further than most.

>>34648177
Probably cause I don't like fat women, which half of black women are. And in modern dating 5s are the new 10s and 10s are the new 20s, so getting non-fat women can be very hard.

>>34649450
Its not that I wouldn't like to get a gf, but I think because I'm very content I don't take it all that seriously. I'm always ready to give up the V card but not if I have to cold approach 1000 women like a jackass.



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