Had a pretty bad break up late last year and I'm still feeling the shock of it most days. It's a pretty long and evolving story I really don't want to tell again, but the gist of it is>Long distance relationship>Lots of incompatibility but it made us (me?) love more. He has abandonment issues and I have the opposite if it gives best insight>turns out he actually was actually messaging other guys and my sister the whole time and ultimately dated her behind my backKinda ruined a lot of my trust in others while also pushed me to try whatever I can to recover from all that.>Going to therapy and on some meds now. Depression and some psychosis stuff>Hanging out with friends more (weirdly enough actually helped two of them get through their own breakups and suicide)>Tried a sfw /soc/ thread (I ended up ghosting everyone)>I don't visit my family as much because of the one sister, but my parents are now aware that I'm biI feel conflicted about the whole thing I wanna be able to feel happy without feeling horrified again and it's been a wild ride so far. I think I'm willing to try anything but dating because I definitely wasn't great at the time and I'm aware I haven't changed yet (I'll hear your wisdom if this is a good idea or not)>ReligionI'd prefer not relying on one, but I think about it a little. Pray for me if you are religious
>>34648075>I'm biyou're a faggot, kys
>>34648075From my personal experience, there are no 'practical' actions you can take to get over a breakup faster. Just continue on with your like like normal, pursue your interests, hang out with friends and family, etc. And you will find yourself naturally getting over it day by day. These things take time.
