>go on date with coworker (we’re remote and different branches so would never see her in office)>have known each other a year>kiss on said date and confess feelings to each other>but throughout our dynamic I have always been the sole initiator, and even then she flakes 1/3 times>this was our third time hanging out but our first “date”>whenever I text her, it sounds just like she’s talking to her friend>say stuff like “I’m looking forward to spending some time with you” and she ignores it entirelyWhat’s going on here?
>>34648133>this was our third time hanging out but our first “date”>confess feelings to each otherWhat feelings?
She just doesn't like you enough to actually put in effort. Probably just keeping you warm as an option while she dreams about a guy she actually likes. Have some self respect and stop this. Women are supposed to chase you. Not the other way around
>>34648144I said I was quite interested in her and she said she was too. We were both blushing, felt very high school (despite being early 30s), though on the flip side she said she “takes a while” to like someone. I also told her I’d like her to initiate more because it’s literally always me. She said she would but she hasn’t.>>34648153Our next date is already planned, logistically it requires her to stay at my house which she agreed to, though she said it as “thanks for letting me crash!” I guess it’s too drastic to cancel and too early to ask her what’s going on in her head, so I guess I am just to let it happen and see if it’s any different
>>34648133>I have always been the sole initiator>she said she “takes a while” to like someonei mean can she be more direct
>>34648406Then why does she bother and why all the blushing?
Bump
