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I'm on vacation in Europe for the summer and I fell in love here. I begin medical school in a couple weeks and she is not able to return to the USA and I'm not able to move to Europe. She said if i stayed here I can live with her. The correct thing to do is to go do medical school, right? I wish I could stay here but doctors make significantly less than they do in America and also I'm not accepted to a medical school here, I'm accepted to medical school in the US.
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>>34648405
that really depends, love of your life trumps everything but career trumps fleeting love
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>>34648411
How do I tell if it's the love of my life or fleeting love? I've never really had a girlfriend or anything. I met her a few weeks ago. I've worked my entire life towards becoming a doctor.
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>>34648418
well you can't tell after few weeks, but statistically it's pretty rare to find the love of your life, and since you're weighting it and neither is willing to sacrifice, it's seems she's not the one
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Just go to the medical school in the US.
If u met her just some weeks ago it’s stupid to immediately go live with her without even knowing how she actually is.
Just ‘cause u fell in love doesn't mean she’s the love of ur life, and continuing with ur career is for sure more stable than getting in a relationship in another continent with some random girl
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>>34648405
>I begin medical school
RIP
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>>34648418
>How do I tell if it's the love of my life or fleeting love?
The same way you can tell if you really really want to go to med school.

Also, which med school starts in the middle of July?
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>>34648405
>I'm accepted to medical school in the US
Assuming you aren't going to med school because "that's how I can make a lot of money" you should go to med school. Try the long distance relationship thing. If it doesn't work, then she wasn't """The One.""" If it does work, then you get married and she can come to the USA.
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>>34648405
How long have you actually known her?
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>>34649656
a few weeks
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>>34648411
>that really depends
No, it doesn't depends, you absolute retard.

>>34648405
>The correct thing to do is to go do medical school, right?
yes, that shouldn't even be a question. Imagine giving up on your future for a woman that can cheat on you or divorce rape you after a few years.
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>>34649925
>a few weeks
You're stupid.



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