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A red-flagian e-girl got a crush on me somehow.
She's smart and hot apart from the red flag stuff and has been kind of seducing me through chats. Thing is I'm an incel and do not know how to be intimate, I don't care about the red flags since I'm lonely and she is too and we might get along (I want to believe) but I don't want to push her away due my lack of exp given how we are old already and it's weird
any tips?
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>old
how old? And what are the redflags?
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>>34649354
>old
3X
>redflags
old and single
(ex?)pot head
kind of pseudo-hippy vibes
that sumarize it
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>>34649376
>Old and single
Those aren't red flags. Age isn't a behaviour or a personality trait, being single is a green flag, unless you want to date married women?

>Ex pot head
Amber flag if it's true that she stopped. Red flag if she lied and still smokes

>Pseudo-hippy vibes
Red flag

Overall the relationship sounds like it would be a mistake. You admit you only want to start it out of soothing loneliness and not out of genuine admiration for her as a person. Those types of relationships always die.
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>>34649467
>not out of genuine admiration for her as a person
I don't know if I admire her, she intrigues me and I find she has a lot of virtues (and she seems to like me). We are barely getting to know each other yet



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