Why are we as men okay with women forcing us to make the first move?
You have to accept that men and women are different and that despite being more than mere animals, humans are still animals.If a man wants to court a woman, he's got to show initiative. You don't even necessarily have to make the very first move, but you can't seriously expect women to respond with interest to passivity.
>>34650047>but you can't seriously expect women to respond with interest to passivity.Why not? They expect us to.
>>34650047I've been contemplating attempting to mimic the courtship of some of the animals I see. I can't think of anything more alpha than a brewers blackbirdhttps://youtu.be/P8lKvIAeeY4?si=J4doM0UTjKwFY9xB
>>34650052Because men and women are different, and our courtship rituals and behaviors are different.
>>34650052I should also say that a woman who is completely passive towards your advances just doesn't like you. There's being shy and then there's leading someone on, and you would do well to learn the difference between the two.Women who like you will make time for you. The same can be said of platonic friendships as well.
>>34650047>You have to accept that men and women are different and that despite being more than mere animals, humans are still animals.The problem with this is women will aggressively pursue high value men. The gender aspect is more about value than anything else, meaning we approach more because we have less value on average.
>>34650038I'm not ok with it, but I have no choice. I have had women who were obsessed with me for months but they still didn't do anything.
>>34650038If you’re Chad, girls do the approaching. It’s over
>>34650109I'm all for sexism, but you've got it backwards. A woman will always approach a man when they are attracted to him, or at the very least, give clearly obvious signs of interest. Even the shy ones approach. They are the ones that choose. If it were up to men, they would just approach any fuckable woman with a decent pair of tits. Reverse the roles and it becomes an humillation ritual for everyone involved.
>>34650038My wife made the first move. Now she's my wife, so you can see how that worked out.Most women I've been with put the moves on me come to think of it. If you're a valuable enough prospective partner it flips the script.
>>34650038The memes
>>34650038who says we're okay with it?
>>34650289There's enough of you that are ok with it that even ugly girls get approached
>>34650038Because women are not capable of initiating anything in reality.
>>34650052 No we don't. If I'm completely passive towards you I'm not interested.
>>34650038because in basic game strategy, having the initiative is a good thingif you don't understand why, don't worry. the men who actually make that first move do.
>>34650038I'm glad all my previous gfs made the first move, including my current one. I'm far from being handsome, I'm just a bald manlet.
