24MI spend most of my time online, I work a stable job. I live on my own.I'm a miserably depressed chud. I live hundreds of miles away from my family now.I don't get out much, I don't have many friends. I don't really talk to anyone, even online.When I'm not working I just sit at my computer and just watch YouTube or play video games by myself.How do I stop being a chud? How do I fix this?
>>34650701do you have any interest in anything outside of being inside and playing video games? Even remotely is a start, like running, painting, photography, cooking...etc.
>>34650733Yeah. I love getting out of the house and going for walks, going to bars, etc. It's just hard to convince myself to go to public spaces entirely alone. Feels awkward.
>>34650739It can be pretty difficult to do things alone like that, especially if you dont have any drive. But maybe see if theres any events around you, like a beginner pottery class, run clubs, literally anything if you're in it for the sake of becoming a real person. Just remember that not everyone you try to talk to is gonna reciprocate the feeling of wanting to be friends, i personally recommend trying some trial classes and martial art gyms, because it immediately puts you in a situation where you need to communicate with other people which makes it easy to make friends from my experience.
>>34650701you have the freedom and space to be by yourself, you're in a sustainable place by having a job...whatever you're gonna do, you're in a good place to figure it out. IMO just keep doing you, don't search for more, you might not like what you find
