From the age of 8 to the age of 30 I prone masturbated. Basically laying flat and dryhumping a pillow or roll of blankets. When I was 13 I started cumming like this. I was a teenager though so I still got rockhard boners. I tried to quit a few times in my late teens but I couldn't finish "the normal way"Also I am circumcized but that is not the issue here.Anyway from age 24 to 30 I worked a job I hated and slept 5 hours a night to cope with working fulltime. My libido plummeted and my dick stopped working. I was a virgin til age 28 and I couldn't even have sex with my first ever girlfriend until I finally got some viagra from goodrx and got my first boner in a long time.My company shut down and I became unemployed. Started sleeping 8 hours again. I stopped masturbating for 2 months easily because my libido was so damaged. Still couldn't masturbate normally. So I "relapsed" to prone masturbation.However, around 6 months ago, I kept at it, decided I would never prone masturbate again, and after a couple weeks, I managed to have an orgasm from normal masturbation for the first time in my life, and ejaculate, while watching porn.
I was really happy. I did relapse a couple more times, but I finally quit prone masturbating completely. I still have trouble staying hard for my entire masturbation session, and it takes me anywhere from 15 to 90 minutes to cum, with 30 being the average. I don't consider myself addicted to porn but I definitely rely on it to successfully masturbate. My dick feels pretty much and the years of prone masturbation have probably damaged the nerves. I need to squeeze a bit, and rub right behind the head, to get strong sensation that leads to orgasm.I have a girlfriend now who I take 20 to 40 mg of viagra before I know we're going to have sex. The effects are much better now than with my ex who unfortunately had to suffer with my sleep-deprived ass being able to stay hard for 5 to 10 minutes with 20 mg viagra before I went soft without cumming. I feel bad I put her through that. Now I can take them and go for almost an hour. My girl tells me "you have more stamina than me." She is the one who gets tired first. She has multiple orgasms. I can feel them. This should be every man's dream.But it sucks because I cannot have an orgasm. I enjoy feeling myself enter her, I enjoy sliding back and forth inside her. She is actually very tight. But obviously no vagina will be as tight as a human hand. I simply don't feel a whole lot from sex. I probably damaged my penis by squishing it against a pillow for years and rocking my hips to splooge. I don't know if this can be reversed.A lot of the advice I see for "death grip" just says to use a lighter touch. If I do that, I cannot cum at all. If I take a break from masturbating, as I have in the past, it might help (I am on a 1 week break right now) but again I have done that before. Sensation didn't really return. Maybe it will now that I have quit prone masturbating for 6 months now? I don't know.
i've never done prone but my understanding is if your dick pointed forward while prone humping you should be fine, if it pointed backward then you are lucky you are still able to get hard.of course, you should try to rehabilitate yourself by not masturbating prone anymore. maybe also speak to a doctor about this, they might be able to help. amusingly you'd probably do quite well in medieval taoist china, they had a whole thing about fucking women without cumming, in their account if you can make the girls cum without cumming yourself, you can absorb life energy instead of lose it. i think there were similar ideas too in tantric sex practices.
>>34652144>Also I am circumcized but that is not the issue here.Yes it is. Circumcision removes thousands of pleasure nerves (called Meissner’s corpuscles) that are abundant in the foreskin. And losing the foreskin means you no longer have access to 'gliding effect' where the skin acts like an extra layer of tension and friction that adds to building and executing orgasms. You were humping pillows because why? Because you needed that soft layer friction to get you going. A friction you would have naturally had if your foreskin was still intact.You got mutilated bro I'm sorry.
>>34652284My dick pointed down while I did it. Up would have been way too painful. I was also flaccid while doing it. I went to a doctor but all he did was recommend PT which I did six sessions of and it helped a bit but then I lost my insurance. He also cancelled my viagra prescription so I had to get a new one.Funny because the girl I am banging rn is Chinese and yeah I made her cum multiple times which is really great but I would like to orgasm with her just once. Just to feel like I really truly fucked her.>>34652286Okay it is part of the issue, definitely. But not the whole issue. I just got started doing it prone as a child, and continued, and eventually in my mid20s it caused ED, and when I finally had sex I saw how bad the problem is.Is there any hope for me being able to orgasm from sex? Or am I gonna be stuck fucking my gf for an hour then going home and rubbing one out? I can't even jerk off to completion in front of her, which makes me wonder if it is PIED. So I am going to go for as long as I can without watching porn at all.I don't know what else I can do to bring back sensation.
>>34652345>My dick pointed down while I did it. Up would have been way too painful. I was also flaccid while doing it.yeah you are actually pretty lucky, trannies do this as a fetish because it tends to disable dicks.sorry your experience with the medical system hasn't been great. hopefully you can get some better insurance and receive good care.if you want to cum with your gf, there may be other things you could do as well. if hand stimulation works well for you, you could get her to finish you off with her hands, or build you up with them, if you think that would work. there may be other creative ways as well. give it some thought, if you haven't already.
>>34652144I proned as well for all of my teenage years stopped at 22. I didn't lay fully flat and put my full weight though. I had a long pillow that I would put my dick on and go on my knees and sorta hump it that way. Anyways I tried it the normal way out of curiosity one day and couldn't cum and I panicked so I did no fap for 6 months relapsed after some failed attempts then did 4 again and after that was able to cum normally.I know this doesn't really fix the issue at all but have you try prone boning your gf to see if your brain responds to similar stimuli? Also have if you aren't already have you tried to get fit and do some exercises to increase blood flow and circulation because that's what Viagra basically does to your dick
>>34653377I would like to add that this is always a really fucked situation to be in for everyone who has done this practice because the information online to fix this is basically zero and anecdotal
>>34652286I'm circumcised and I don't have this issue at all.
>>34652144have you tried punching yourself in the balls really hard? It works.
>>34652286For this whole thread, nigga figure out your positions LMAO. Also for guys, if its too wet you're not gonna easily get a bust unless it's her ass. Breaking news to the retards, you need friction and the right movements. And there's a distinct difference between her pleasurable positions to manipulate vs. yours. Its a lot easier to do one then the other dependent on how fast you can make your woman cum. There are positions that can work for both at the same time but just be open in the bedroom to incorporating new test positions. Did none of you idiots steal a kamrasutra book from your parents or was their sex so boring it spat you out? Try the press and one person doing movements at a time. Also to the muh foreskin copers, go touch grass or stop fucking an 2/10 slampig. Works fine on my system and I will not be circumcising my kid.
>>34653565I go limp on missionaryI can go for hours on doggyI bust instantly on cowgirl
>>34652144Actually OP, there's an underrated huge advantage to having done it prone - I've been prone masturbating pretty much my whole life. I'm 27, actually started doing it since I was very little. I usually move my legs in a scissoring motion while laying flat on the bed, used to be on the arms of sofas and what not. I knew exactly what an orgasm felt like way before puberty, so I remember the first time I came at around 11, it was clear at first then it became white at 12-13.When I was 17 or so I finally figured out how to use my hands, though I still mainly use prone and it hasn't seriously fucked me up thus far. The key is to hold your breath - that's what really builds the tension. You'll probably have to jerk faster than most but if you hold your breath, jerk, breathe then repeat then you will eventually cum. Also, I have been told on this site before that healthystrokes (I'm sure you're aware of that site) is very anecdotal and it's more to do with your blood circulation - find ways to improve that via exercise.As for sex, the beauty of being mainly a prone masturbator is that you (or a girl taking charge :) ) can decide exactly when you want to cum during sex - so she can pleasure herself for as long as she likes, then when you're ready just hold your breath and tell her to ride your cock into the sunset. The most important thing is that SHE cums every time you have sex - ask if she prefers tongue or finger if PIV doesn't work (you can always make her cum a second time while you do also). Always prioritize her orgasm over yours. She will love you for it.But yeah, when she's bouncing on you or you're prone boning, just hold your breath. Draw it out for her pleasure. Use fleshlights, strokers or those pelvic pussy things, whatever they're called for practice.
>>34657435Interesting...OP here and I'll try it. I'm also gonna keep up the nofap. I really badly want to cum on her ass or belly. She gets so turned on just seeing my cock. I feel like she will get really horny watching me cum. I'll try holding my breath next time we fuck.
>>34652144>Also I am circumcized but that is not the issue hereIt dosent help tho>>34653384If you never had sex with a foreskin you wouldnt get the difference anyway. Ask yourself why the most raping-inclined areas of the world have a high density of choopped dicks
>>34657554Yeah, just hold your breath. Get her to tease you or tell you to take your time, whichever you prefer. I also forgot to mention, don't be afraid to fap prone to edge for a bit - you can finish by hand. I didn't cum with my hand alone immediately. Your gf sounds like she'd understand - like I said, as long as you make her cum then she shouldn't mind how you get up to climax.
>>34653565i just like analproblem: wife is almost never in the mood for anal and just pegs me instead
>>34652144Slightly off-topic, but how are you meeting girls in your late 20s?
>>34657868I found her on meetme.comAlso been laid from bumble and hinge and okcupid. But never tinder. You just gotta grind like crazy and wait your turn.
