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How do I stop wanting to kill myself for starting late?
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imagine someone that keeps getting clowned over and over and over again and then just fucking kills himself without ever catching a W or a piece of joy in his life. would you wanna be that guy? wouldn't you at least want to be the guy that, after getting clowned repeatedly, wins? many times, or just once? or even if not at all, at least does a crazy admirable job trying to get a win?
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U stop making this thread
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>>34652330
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>>34653460
/thread
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I'm also starting late. Most days it's easy to give in to your thoughts. Like it's not worth starting. But realistically what is your other option? To do nothing and whine? Then another ten years pass and you'll wish you had started now. Get what you want anon.
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>>34652318
Every day you spend feeling sorry for yourself just makes your start even later. Startting today is better than starting tomorrow.
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>>34653460
In reality it is more like a man burrowing through diamonds seeking a wad of dirt to be miserable over.
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>>34652318
If you're tired of starting over, stop giving up.
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>>34652318
>stop
Only losers stop. Be a winner and keep going until you eventually do it out of an alcohol-induced impulsiveness
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>>34652318
There's an old saying that goes, "The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago, the second best time is today." Don't give up, you can still do plenty. Jesus loves you. Repent and follow him.
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>>34652318
you can either continue & get a job/degree/whateverthefuck at age 30/40/50 or you can never do it
it's your choice
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in other words, you can choose to be in a much better place 10 years from now, or you can choose to be nothing

as for wanting to kill yourself, that's stupid
beating yourself up is gay
schadenfreude, envy, guilt, regret, all stupid and a waste of time
it's ultimately not your place to judge yourself or others

anger exists for when boundaries are violated, whether physical or psychological or people we care about or whatever
if you feel angry because you didn't achieve what you should've, the way to HONOR that anger is not to kill yourself but to achieve those things
it's straightforward



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