Masturbation honestly doesn't feel all that much to me physically speaking and most of the pleasure from it comes rather from the stuff in my head while I'm doing it or whatever I'm watching/listening/reading at the time while I am doing it. I'm still a virgin so I'm wondering if this is something I should be concerned about and if it's a sign that sex if and when I do it will suck too.
>>34652544>I'm wondering if this is something I should be concerned aboutExtremely concerned, yes. And yes, it means sex will suck. You need to give up porn.
>>34652976Are you serious? I always assumed the sensation of sex was a unique one akin to tickling in that it can only be accomplished via the body and touch of another person, not your own and that's why masturbation felt this way to me until recently when some people were telling me it wasn't normal and I should get checked up for it.
>>34653312>>34652976 is trolling.Your situation doesn't set off any alarms to me. Sex and masturbation are different things. Your Sexpecations are set by the communications/negotiations you have with the person youre having sex with.
>>34653425It's normal for masturbation not to feel all that much physically? Sex doesn't feel the same physically right?
>>34653455If you suspect that *Something is Wrong* with your body you should ask a doctor. I'm not a doctor.Everyone has different bodies and responds to touch in different ways. Some people are more sensitive to touch, some people are less sensitive. Some people enjoy feeling pain, while some people can't feel pain. We all have preferences and limitations to work around. If your type of play is 95% mental and 5% physical, communicate that with your partner and then work together to figure out what to do together. If they cant respect that about you, dont have sex with them. Don't sacrifice your comfort for someone else's pleasure. If they don't respect your boundaries, do not have sex with them.
>>34653570Well first I need to have sex since it might not feel the same.
>>34653425Well? What is a Dark Souls themed blow job?
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>>34652544So just sit back and enjoy the fantasies without the stroking
>>34654439I cant.
>>34653312>Are you serious?Completely, yes.>>34653425>is trollingNo, I'm not. OP, your problem is probably psychological rather than physical. My girlfriend had similar issues when we first got together: she was so used to flicking it to porn, she was almost completely disconnected from her own body: the experience was about going off somewhere else in her head and using her clitoris simply as an orgasm trigger, with nothing except the orgasm being relevant (or even pleasant). By the time we got together she was so cut off from herself that she was struggling to orgasm at all, and constantly dissociating. It took a good couple of years to correct the damage, but now she can come just from having her nipples played with, and is impressively multi-orgasmic. If she'd carried on doing what she was doing for even a couple more years (or frankly, if she had gotten involved with someone who didn't know how to get her out of that) the damage might have been permanent. Your problem is porn. You're making sex entirely about your brain and not your body. What you need to do (and it will likely take years, not months) is de-program yourself: you need to start responding to sex again, not to porn. Start concentrating on every sensation: enjoying, savouring, relishing. Don't focus only on your penis: explore the rest of your body too. See if you can find a piece of soft fur, see where where else on your body it feels good to be stroked with it. When you do fantasise, think about things happening to you, and try to replicate the sensation for real. If you do manage to find a partner, don't just have sex: spend a LOT of time enjoying non-sexual touch - cuddles, massaging, stroking - and learning to enjoy physical intimacy even when it's not sexual.And for God's sake, give up porn! If you don't, you'll turn into one of those men who treats sex merely as a way of reproducing porn in real life, instead of what it should be, which is something far more magical, even sacred.
>>34654583I don't know, it didn't feel like anything special even the first time I ever did it though i will admit it was a bit more intense than it has ever been since then but that's about it. I've been doing it every day since twelve or thirteen years old. I've been able to go days or even weeks sometimes on end without looking at porn but since I'm so lonely and horny all the time with nobody to satisfy those urges with I always find myself coming back to it.
>>34652544Cant believe no one has asked the real question when it comes to sensation, OP has your penis been cut apart or is it intact?
>>34654683No. In fact I'm not even circumcised. The way I masturbate is by rubbing my forskin together since that's the only thing that works, for me anyways. The way guys masturbate in videos doesn't work for me.
>>34653599>Have you heard about the Dark Souls blow job?>Heh heh heh>It is a very old tale.>They say that Gwyn, the Lord of Cinder was the first to receive a Dark Souls blow job>Or so the stories go>Heh heh heh
