you never had a chance

Dating has always been a humiliations ritual. You have to constantly go on dates with women, put on some dumb ass performance in which she is always entertained by your "personality", you now have to compete with men who are more attractive or richer than you are, etc. Maybe in the boomer days it was worth it, because there was less competition, and the internet didn't exist to stroke women's ego. The whole marrying off your daughter to some guy, or even arrange marriages work a lot better than the bullshit we have today.

>>34653547
you should have enough money, power and resources at that point
leverage them
go to fancy spas
go to fancy gyms
go to nice events and coctail parties
that's where you'll meet nice girls

>>34653822
What if I don't like talking to people?

>>34653822
>that's where you'll meet nice girls
that's where you'll meet gold-digging whores

>>34654048
why the urge to date then?!

>>34653822
that's where you'll meet nice conformist soulless girl scum

>>34654184
truly a mystery to you that everyone has sexual desires and maybe an instinct to breed

>>34654247
If you haven't overcome that instinct then you aren't ready yet.

>>34654187
>>34654176
That's a nice theory that exclusive places contain gold diggers thus low quality girls.
But trust me, the masses are worse
Go on a dating app, you'll see the drudges of society.
Anywhere that has easy access, has low-quality people.
Any place that is more exclusive, limited to people with money (or good families) has just better people.

But you may be on the right track.
Exclusivity doesn't just mean money.
It could also mean taste.

Leverage your taste to go to places that you would enjoy.
Taste is also a good filter.
You do have taste don't you?

I think we're cooked chat.

Women are either wrapped up with work or their careers, have given up, or are inexplicably hostile. Most of not all have precisely zero dollars cash and 50k debt.
Admittedly i find it very hard to meet women because I'm similarly wrapped up with work.

>>34653822
I just find that i sit in the corner feeling awkward, these aren't socially welcoming environments.

>>34654649
what places are you imagining
any place with new people and unstructured socialization?
that may be your weakness

but, a photography class, a group music circle, a hiking group, or something along those lines which are structured force you to socialize and make it easier.
just tap into your taste

what do you enjoy doing that is regarded by society
if you're 38 and have none of that shit man. you're paying the price for not developing any sense in what society likes
and if you do what society likes you are rewarded with women

>>34654655
I just particularly dislike gate kept environments, and the way businesses exploit that to earn money is something I can't stand.

>>34654658
>exploit that to earn money
bruh the economy is run on access to women
so you just disllike how the entire world works

any pllace that has more women, is going to be more valuable

the gdp of a country correlates directly with how valuable the uterus is of a women in that country

money is just a stand-in for the womb of a woman.
the price of a prostitute in a country is equivalent to how many hours the average man can afford to work to get sex

you're not really giving any real insight or giving out your thoughts
but, perhaps you haven't really thought or reflected enough to understand your own place in society
and, in a sense you are culling your genes from the world
which may be a good thing

Teenager virgins giving advice about dating in your 30's: the thread.

>>34653547
The teen-style dating scene is really just irrelevant in your age group. You are FAR more likely to meet women as friends, work colleagues, church members, fellow fans and the like, and then evolve toward romance. In fact, it is likely that you already know your next girlfriend - you just haven't realized that that's who she is.