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25 year old female doomer.

I want advice on how to be pretty/looksmax. I've begun working out 3-7 times a week. I've cut unnatural added sugars and oils (as much as I can, I do my best to avoid them). I've considered straight starving myself but I think to be healthier and leaner is better? I'm aiming to drop 10kg from my 50s, or even get into the high 30s. I'm 170cm in height. I've also invested in lip filler, very minor.. I just wanted to trial it. I have peptide injectables for my skin coming up soon.. I'm very alternative in my fashion but I want to just feel pretty for once. I feel like an ugly subhuman freak and feel ashamed whenever I go outside in public. Anymore advice, am I doomed?
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>>34654288
>25 year old female doomer.
Looks like someone didn't get chad
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I think you are more beautiful than you give yourself credit.
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>>34654292
I just want to feel pretty anon, I'm running out of time.
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>>34654288
You're 170cm and 50kg? That's considered underweight. If you drop into the 30's that's anorexia territory. Men don't like skeletons. It's ugly. And don't inject your face with fucking chemicals what the fuck. Are you trying to look like a cat faced retard?

You are trying to take short cuts into self esteem. It doesn't work like that. Feeling pretty isn't about what you see in the mirror, feeling pretty comes from knowing that you look nice to other people because others tell you that to pay respect to the efforts you made to dress nice or the way you styled your hair or from natural features like your eyes or face. You're not going to get the validation you seek from starving yourself and filling your face with chemical shit. And that will become obvious to you later and you will make the mistake of thinking you need to drop more weight and inject more shit.. before you know it you will really look weird. Don't do it.

You know what I am talking about you've seen those weird anorexic freak girls with the face that looks like they got their shit stung by a nest of hornets. Don't be that
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>>34654288
If by 30 you mean your target weight is 30kg, that is called anorexia. Please go to your primary care doctor.

I'll be completely blunt. Your best bet at looksmaxxing is feeding yourself properly and not looking like a fucking skeleton that has no periods and can't breed. Stop buying into the added sugars and oils bullshit, yes you do need balance in your diet but you don't achieve that by eating nothing but air. You focus on adding nutritious things to your diet, not taking away. Learn to cook quick healthy meals that you actually like, frying pan and a microwave is all you need. And by god stop the overexercising.

Feeling like a subhuman freak is completely separate from any of this. I suspect your looks aren't really the main problem. It is some old need for control getting thwarted.

Just trying to point out where the problem is. If you're still up your own arse thinking losing weight infinitely will help your attractiveness well that's your own issue
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>>34654304
>doesn't deny it either
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Fucking women, man. I blame women for this. Not a single man thinks to himself "Oh man I want the girl to look like a Ethiopian with a wig. I want her to look like a match stick with gelatinous carcinogenic chemicals injected under her skin"

The fuck is that shit? This is what happens when other women use social media to mentally psy-op and fuck with other women. Anything that we say to OP is gonna go in one ear and out the other. Because she is on her way to anorexia. Anorexic girls got fucked over by female peers or female role models. Girls with mother issues are whack.

>>34654288
Hey OP tell your perfectionist mother to go and take a flying fuck to herself, tell her that her nitpicking isn't going to undo the divorce.
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>>34654341
as a girl I'm so glad my parents never put too much emphasis on my looks even though I'm objectively mid, because I know girls whose parents did and they look like miss piggy at 25 with all the bullshit they did to their face

i have nothing against cosmetic enhancements or trying to look like a better version of yourself, it's the entire never-enough obsessive mindset behind it that sounds like a fucking gambling addiction whenever it surfaces
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>>34654307
You know what anon. This is an eye opener, I just want to feel loved maybe after all. Being able to read this out in front of me, it's more rational. I should really go work on myself and be healthier in body and mind. Made me tear up a bit, thank you.
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>>34654361
Good for you that you didn't fall for the women on women psychological terrorism. I swear to God I am not a woman hating autistic faggot I have a wife and daughters of my own but my God from what I seen of how women treat other women it's so evil. And I've been a man in my young life who did a lot of fucked up antisocial criminal tier delinquent shit. The passive aggressive and backhanded covert mental games women play on each other make even Satan himself rethink his life. Women deliberately want other women to feel like absolute shit about themselves so they can feel better in comparison and they use social media influence to get it done. And when the girls who fall for it think their lives they fake empathy for them and virtue signal for them while still recommending other girls inject Botox (fucking botulin, a deadly toxin that kills if ingested) into their face. What OP probably needed was a strong father figure to put her fucking mom in her place to get her off of her daughter's back.
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>>34654288
kg, cm why don't you go date mohommed ms.europoor
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>>34654371
Hey you're welcome, no problem. Being pretty is about the mind more than the body. Prettiness is like a book, yes the front cover should look enticing but it's the pages within that book that makes or breaks beauty. That means your mindset your character the way you carry yourself as a person. It's psychological fact too, people who have a look of kindness or look of being at ease and comfortable in their face are perceived as more attractive. The face muscles show it when someone is smiling.

That's why the cosmetic industry try to replicate that look. They inject toxins under the skin to paralyze (yes paralyze) the groups of face muscles to lock them into place to imitate.. happiness. The happy look in someone's face.

It preys on the unhappy. Giving only an illusion of it but never the real deal. Don't let these psychopathic parasitical bastards take your soul. Fuck em all to Hell.
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Men worth your time are attracted to women who they reasonable believe can be a good mother to their children. This includes your physical condition as well as your mental and emotional stability. You're doing well by cutting out sugar and seed oils but make sure you are at a healthy weight. Being underweight will fuck up your hormones and has the opposite effect on attraction. Lower your cortisol, lower your inflammation, stay active, work on making peace with yourself.
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>>34654288
Have you considered getting a personality?
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>>34654288
I'm 170cm and 47kg (also 25 yo coincidentally), trust me you do not want to be that thin, I am at this weight because I have IBS and can't eat properly. Other than that I can't give you an advice because I'm going through a life crisis myself.
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>>34654288
Lots of chicken (builds lean muscle, not bulky). Learn to cook, for yourself, it's better for both your mind and body. Regular exercise, nothing too crazy, just some sit ups before bed or something along those lines. Shower regularly, not to be clean, but to have the water course down your body and some time for your thoughts to solidify. Get those three things down, and the rest will follow for the most part. It'll still take time, none of it is overnight.
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>>34654288
Boob job. Best investment by women bar none.
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>>34654288
im someone who grew up extremely ugly myself and i consider myself averege to slightly above averege
try learning more about makeup theory, what specific makeup products are used for and what they do to your face
and also think about what the biggest issue about your face is and find a specific solution to it
for example my midface is kinda on the longer side and getting fake gflasses helped that out so much, my eyes are a bit small as well and i took inspiration from asian makeup techniques with eyeliner on how to make them look a bit bigger
the most drastic change i did myself though is completely shave off my eyebrows and draw them in whats perfect for my face with the right spacing, arch, height, color etc
also bangs or face framing layers in your hair could help depending on your face shape
its about the makeup honestly girl
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>>34656611
This. A nice pair of tits will take you everywhere. See Sidney Sweeney.
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>>34654288
Get a sizable bbl with your remaining fat. Then go on ozempic.
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>>34654304
Go on ozempic for like half a year. See what happens
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>>34654341
>Fucking women, man. I blame women for this. Not a single man thinks to himself "Oh man I want the girl to look like a Ethiopian with a wig. I want her to look like a match stick with gelatinous carcinogenic chemicals injected under her skin"
>The fuck is that shit? This is what happens when other women use social media to mentally psy-op and fuck with other women. Anything that we say to OP is gonna go in one ear and out the other. Because she is on her way to anorexia. Anorexic girls got fucked over by female peers or female role models. Girls with mother issues are whack.
Trvke
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>>34654371
Hope you learned your lesson foid
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>>34654288
for some reason women can't seem to diet but rather undulate between being fat and being anorexic, it's very odd. you can just do omad and prioritize omega-3s while minimizing omega-6 pufas and this will normalize your weight pretty fast. fermented foods also help because you need a healthy gut microbiome to have a healthy metabolism. very underrated aspect of health the gut microbiome.
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What I did:
>Plastic surgery (no fillers/injections)
>Ate "college meals" every day. Minimaly cooked food
>Wore the same outfit. Multiple copies of the same formal wear, work wear, etc
>Exercised pretty much never. Told people to fuck off when they asked me to work out with them. End up skinnier than anyone who asked
>Biked to work, shopping, everywhere.
>Got married to Chad

>Feeling pretty isn't about what you see in the mirror, feeling pretty comes from knowing that you look nice to other people because others tell you that to pay respect to the efforts you made to dress nice or the way you styled your hair or from natural features like your eyes or face
That sounds like the kind of passive aggressive advice women irl give each other to sabotage their competitors



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