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Recently got broken up with, no cheating, no arguments, just 4 years down the drain randonly on a thursday..
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>>34654896
Damn that sucks yo. Focus on yourself
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>>34654896
My wife left, so I immediately hit the gym, took up a bunch of hobbies, etc. She saw I was meeting other women. Called me and asked. I didn't confirm or deny. She moved back in a week later.

Women are annoying creatures. They want to be exclusive but also want you to be wanted by other women. If other women want you it kicks in their competitiveness. If you are faithful and loyal and keep your eyes off of other women then they get bored of you.
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>>34654896
This is the most common NPC thing people ask advice on. Literally ask a chatbot and it will give you the usual song and dance.
Besides, it doesn't even seem like you care much. At least you were in a relationship, some people can't say the same.
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>>34654896
Perhaps a firm appreciation of the circumstances are in order.

I mean, the place where you are right now is not a good place to be; and there must be an exerted effort to some direction away, but not just any direction — as you might trade places with something more sinister; so there must be some form of monitoring or sensitivity moving forward in where you chose at gamble, and be able to re-orient yourself as needed.

For now, any sensible direction would do.
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>>34654896
>just 4 years down the drain randonly on a thursday..
Well, for starters, you need to let go of the idea that this happened "randomly". It didn't. There were reasons. Figure out what they were.
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>>34655075
One of the reasons is that he's looking for drama
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>>34655087
People itt are putting in more effort at giving you advice than you are at giving context.
Maybe he left because you're a lazy cunt.
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>>34654896
I dont think anything anyone tells you will make you move on. You gotta just do it. I can sit here and tell you how women aint shit, after having 3 of what i thought were heartbreaking breakups before. I look back at how retarded i was being sad about it back then. Literally couldnt give 2 shits rn. go lift.
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>>34654896
Delete facebook and hit the gym
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>>34655474
Based
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>>34654980
>shitbrown retard
>thinking giving an AI answer is helpful
He could just do that himself you fucking nasty pagpag monkey. Dont insult anyone with unsolicited AI responses.



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