>some years ago>meet a lovely girl at a meetup>she's kind and talkative to everyone in the meetup>she's doing a dissertation for her degree>one day she asks at the meetup if someone knows about a nice café in the city>I tell her that I know one and ask her if she'd like to meet there one Saturday>tells me thanks so much but she's finishing her dissertation on that week>exchange some more nice messages>next time at the meetup>she gives me the coldest shoulder this side of the galaxy>keeps being kind and talkative to the rest of the peopleWhat did I do? Is it because she was a lesbian and I never noticed? Did she think I wanted to date her?
>>34655505Have you tried asking her what's going on? People have bad days and may not want to talk to people they don't want to hurt or feel hurt by, meaning you mean something for her. You carry enough weight for her to be conscious about it (good or bad).
>>34655544>Have you tried asking her what's going on?I never dared. I had the impression that her answer would hurt me even more.>People have bad daysOh she didn't.But anyway, I'm asking out of curiosity. I got over it and besides she has a bigger problem in her hands now; being a lesbian in current times must not be easy.
>>34655505>>I tell her that I know one and ask her if she'd like to meet there one Saturday >>tells me thanks so much but she's finishing her dissertation on that week If she really cared about seeing you she could have finished her studying and free some of her time for you, she doesn't care at all and she has a crush on someone else I'd say run for your life.
