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How do I, as someone in their early 20's, never rely on anyone ever again. I hate my family and most people I know. I want to move far away and drop all contact with them forever, yet I can't even get employed working a basic 9-5 job because I still have to finish my degree.

I know people will say "You just have to finish your degree, get a job, then save enough to do what you need to do". I don't think I can wait that long though. I need out now. They're insane and dysfunctional, I hate them so much. They make me self harm.

I have basically no friends aside from like 2 people I went to school with who I barely talk to. I have a girlfriend and we have plans to get a place together, but not for a few more years yet.

Existence is hell. My life would be so much better without them. If I could, I would run away today but I have barely any money, I'm tied to education and other commitments. I need to know what I can do right now, over the next week or month, not the next three years.
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>>34656405
>How do I never rely on anyone ever again.
By obtaining money. Realistically you're just going to have to be patient and work towards earning a living. I don't like it either, but that's how life works.
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>>34656448
What value does the money have if you aren't living in a society (aka relying on literally everyone)?
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>>34656405
Let me stop you right there, I can tell you form experience that living out of your car and being a self imposed outcast and all that is fun for exactly two days then it quickly turns into hell. You should find better more wholesome people to share your time with rather than trying to manufacture a fantasy where you become Christopher McCandless or Jack Kerouac. It's not going to happen.
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>>34656405
Live in your car? I'm gonna be honest though after about 6 weeks you're really going to want to be able to stand up in your living space. I would do it again in a pinch if I knew it was temporary though, it's not the worst.
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Join the army
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>>34656752
id recommend this actually, anon gets to cut off people from his life, get paid and go to war and possibly, die a martyr. life couldn't be any better



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