>>34671949
>>34671949
PLEASE HELP ME

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>>34671962
Where can I meet shy/introverted girls?

>>34672018
Inside their houses

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>>34672026
Where else?

Alright I'm sick of this bros. Just tell me how to get a kiss, a date, a number. Just anything. I know I'm not the ugliest thing ever and closed off the one chance I did get like a moron 6 years ago, but like...

No seriously how do have remotely s romantic life for once? I turned 26 now and it's starting to hurt as my fabled individualism is finally hitting a wall.

Just give me anything man. What's the secret? I'm ready. Just tell me the truth and perhaps tangible numbers/stuff to work with. You have no idea how much you're helping me.

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>>34671962
Men who have used the services of prostitutes before, did you find it makes if harder to date? Do you tell the women you're dating that you've had sex with prostitutes before? Do they mind or are they ok with you having had sex with prostitutes?

>>34672036
Just be yourself

>>34672049
Just go outside and act confident

Just get off the phone and talk to people, Chudcel.

No better self-esteem raiser than seeing a woman sit in front of you on the bus, then do a double take look behind at you once they realize how good-looking you are.

I want to start using Hinge but have a severe lack of good pics.

I do alright in rl but am really bad at taking pics, so I‘m stumped on what to do.

Any advice on angles, background, expression, poses, etc? Perhaps reference pics of what a good profile looks like.

>>34672054
>you find it makes if harder to date?
No
>Do you tell the women you're dating that you've had sex with prostitutes before?
No
>Do they mind or are they ok with you having had sex with prostitutes
Not IME, but why would you tell them?

>>34672121
Just get yoursell some selfies if you're at least somewhat good looking. Shoot some of them outside. Make sure the lightting is good. Take multiple pictures in the same pose before picking the one that looks the best

The true black pill and red pill is that no matter how successful or handsome you are, your woman will still cheat on you for some arbitrary reason she'll conjure up in her head, they don't care and aren't loyal. I've had sex with women who had boyfriends who were both taller and more handsome than me and it made me realize that looks really don't matter, but at the same time.

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Motherfuck, that’s an hour and a half commute each way. I guess I’ll say we can meet earlier and switch from drinks to coffee if she doesn’t want to drink before driving that far.

>>34672602
>talking to women on apps
I bet my left nut you're wh*te.

>>34672121
assuming you're wh*te just get some good pics in natural light. if you're making selfies use a mirror to offset the typical fov distortion in phone cameras

>>34672089
community college does that to you too

Be chad
Thead over
Stop selling false hope

>>34672603
Hell yeah. I love being white.

>>34672121
>do cool things (in cool places if you can)
>get pictures of you doing those things
>???
>get matches

>>34672226
If they ask I’d want to tell them. I wouldn’t want to lie, so if I did that would feel bad
>t. moralfag

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Men are checking out of dating at an alarming rate.

>>34672864
that's fair. just realize that they won't feel bad lying about worse things

>>34672899
Maybe. I've had girls be candid about pretty bad things, like their abortions, past abuse and sexual history.

>>34672912
>abortions, past abuse and sexual history.
and how did they feel/would they feel about men going to prostitutes? in this society, men are expected to accept a woman's history or else be called misogynistic or some other buzzword, but yet men get looked down on for similar issues or other aspects of their life not up to standard. Not arguing or disagreeing
just relaying my experience and what I've seen

>>34672884
This is why poets are literal retards they just say a bunch of shit that sounds interesting but at the end of the day it's just some retarded shit he made up to create like a mythos about some retarded golden age that never existed in order to generate meaning for himself. Instead of being a faggot that never got laid and doesn't have a job or anything meaningful going on he is now Julius evola the mystic watching society degenerate from afar men are retreating because of some mystical dark return to a primal age only to reawaken when a bitch with huge tits wants to fuck him lol shut the fuck up with this sad sad cry out for god to save you gang you need to go out and talk to women to have sex with them or pay them and capitalism will only make that market more efficient

>>34672932
Peak hylic post

>>34672927
Try not caring what society thinks of you.

>>34672932
You said it a bit more crassly than I would, but I agree. Half the kids whose hearts swell when reading that purple prose would fold at the prospect of a titty in their mouth. Return to masculinity? More like return to mommy. The other half are gay btw.

>>34672932
>written by a child
You need to be 18 to post here kiddo

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throwing this out there but I'm wondering if anyone has any ideas on how to find/talk to a specific type of girl. It's hard for me to describe exactly but closest I come to is 'kind of trashy metal head'. Think of what you'd see at a suburban predominately white Walmart. They also seem to work at more masculine jobs like a tire center. I had an ex that was like this and I was so bummed about the relationship itself I didn't realize I like her type in general until now. And before you say meet them at walmarts/car shops/concerts I find those places hard to converse at so any bright ideas for those situation would be appreciated

I've moved out of those areas to the dead center of a major US city and I can tell you the women here fit the stereotype you're thinking of, it's not enough to be politically neutral it always comes up and I'm tired of dancing around it. The less educated lower class people are way less invested and that's a positive

god i wish the next girl i date has some big tits. im done with flat chests!

>>34672049
Step one is leveling up your manhood. Get fit, develop some interests other than vidya, learn a skill - a sport, a language, an art. Improve your grooming and dress. This will improve your self-esteem, widen your social circle (including girls), give you something interesting to talk about, and divert your attention from self-pity.

Next, start talking to girls. Except under extraordinary circumstances, girls expect you to take the lead from first contact to consummation. So you need to practice. Talk to LOTS of girls, not just the ones you think are attractive. Be light-hearted, positive, and kind. Fat, homely checkout girl at the store? Engage her in conversation. Ask her about her day. Make her laugh if you can. Leave her feeling like she is more attractive than she thought. Practice, practice, practice. In addition to making the world a better place, you also build your confidence for the next time you talk to a girl that interests you.

>>34672996
You date flat girls? I don’t.

>>34673040
All my ex gfs had small tits eventho i love big tits!!! How to get one without her being a fat cow?

>>34673051
Just don’t pursue any girl who doesn’t have them. Easy. Also open your mind to thick or even chubby girls. Not morbidly obese, just a tasteful thickness.

I dated a chubby girl so long I don’t even love the bodies of skinny girls even if they have big tits. Feels like hugging a broom.

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>>34672996

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For those of you in here who had a girlfriend before, how and where did you meet? What did you say to her? What does that progression to a relationship look like? Please be patient I have autism

>>34673140
I don’t know what you guys see in your board women but I’m so glad you exist so there are more big booba girls to go around.

>>34673025
This is the only thing that works. Taking actionable steps rooted in reality.

>>34673151
I was at a bar with a friend just chilling. Two drunk girls came in and started talking to us. One of them forced her number on me then they left. I didn't really have to do anything. I texted her later and set up a date. Wasn't expecting much, since she seemed kind of nuts, but she was much more normal during the date.
Then years later I realized, no, she was nuts the whole time

>>34673151
She was originally my fraternity brother’s gf. I wasn’t in a dudebro frat, just a music (nerd) fraternity. The summer after they broke up I texted her and asked her out on a lunch date. The conversation flowed for 3 hours. We really liked each other. The second date was a walk at night at a place with a cool overlook. I had never initiated a kiss before so she kind of walked me through it, though still making sure I was the one that did it. Once we got back to college she asked to come over all the time. I got her ex’s blessing. Eventually I insisted on us being exclusive and she accepted.

>>34673151
>how and where did you meet?
1- friend of a friend
2- friend of a friend
3- in a bar, she was also a friend of a friend of an aquaintance
4- online
5- friend of a friend
6- friend of a friend (ended up marrying her)

All relationships go like this :
a- strangers
b- acquaintances
c- you either fall in love or become friends
time passes
d- you become exes

I do think a huge source of confusion is the acquaintances phase. You need to know someone, and they need to know you, before you can even think about love. And I don't mean "I know that person exists." I mean "I know things about them, like movie prefs or food choices or vacation ideas." A lot of people think "I keep thinking about that person" and assume they must be in love. That's a crush, which is a polite way of saying "obsession."

The other source of confusion is that people think you can go from friends to in-love. That rarely works.


>OK smart guy how do I go from acquaintance to in-love ?!1
This used to be called dating, as in you'd would fix a date to go do something together, just you 2, and talk and get to know each other. But the terms "dating" and "going steady" and "we're a couple" all got conflated at some point.

>yeah but I have autism I need this all mapped out before hand is there no walkthrough I can watch to solve this puzzle ?
No. I also have autism. I managed to get a wife and kids. The trick is to not be a self-centred asshole. This is harder then you think, given that most male role models are self-centred assholes. Keep your ears and eyes open, listen to the other person, never belittle the other person, learn to clean up your messes when you do spill the proverbial spaghetti. Always keep in mind that the other person is a person with hopes, dreams, aspiration, weaknesses and quirks and to show forbearance and understanding.

>OMG THAT SEEMS SO HARD
Yes. Very. Being in love is a test of endurance. You can't speed run a long term relationship.

>finally grow a pair of balls and ask this girl out
>she has a bf
welp. It wouldn't be so bad if I actually pursued women randomly but I never do. I only get that gumption once every year or two and I never act on it until its too late

>>34673244
How does your autism present itself? What did you have to overcome?

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i have a bent penis btw

>>34673336
So does the guy who fucks Space Boobs on XNXX.

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Reminder that she expects you to hit on her.

Beautiful women don't fuck cowards.

>>34671962
How do I make it certain a woman will be attracted romantically towards me?

>>34673575
You can't. Just shoot your shot and move on if it doesn't work.

>>34673589
And how do I make it work?

>>34673025
And what's step two?

>>34673591
You can’t. She’ll either like dating your or she won’t, and if she doesn’t there’s nothing you can do about it.

I'm too autistic to smile while talking. I'd like to smile at pretty girls and make them laugh, but my face just doesn't do that. I only smile when something makes me laugh. I saw a friend have a short interaction with a girl. They were laughing and smiling about totally mundane information. It wasn't funny or interesting. But somehow the interaction was just all smiles and laughter.

How the fuck do I learn to do that? I can be funny but it's dry observational humor. And it only comes out from time to time. I'm a really friendly, kind, and generous person. I am not angry or bitter or anything like that. Smiling just doesn't come naturally to me. What do I do?

I just had raw sex with my ex gf and I came inside her without asking. I feel no guilt or regret. I just feel retarded and chill, like some welfare case. Idk what this says about me.

Then she decided she'll take the pill. That'll be rough on her body. I still felt the same after she told me this. Empty head, calm, and retarded with no guilt.

I guess 8 months alone, wfh and no friends doesn't limit you.

I saw stars and lights when I orgasmed.

I don't know what has happened but for the past 16 months or so I feel like dating apps have been on hard mode.

I've been using Dating Apps from 2018 to 2022 to early 2025, I was getting consistent dates and hookups. I mostly use Hinge but also use Bumble and Coffee Meets Bagel.

However, since the past 16 months, it's been like pulling teeth to get a girl to go on a date off an app. I used to be able to just send a few messages, ask for their number, go out on a quick date and then hookup.

Now what usually happens is we match, send a few messages back and fourth and then I ask for their number. Recently, this has been a trigger to either be immediately un-matched or ghosted.

The ratio has fallen off so hard. It used to be like 8/10 Match to Hookup rate, now my Match rate alone is 1 match out of 15 sent likes.

Of course when I started using Dating Apps, I was in my mid 20s, now I'm in my early 30s. However, I still keep fit and look just as a good as my mid 20s self, if not better.

I am light-skin and pretty much only go for Asian women, which is already hard-mode but I still have over 100 lays.

When I swipe in places like LA or NYC, I still do quite well on dating apps, however, I live in Hawaii and despite the population being over 50% Asian here, I can't seem to get nearly as many dates as I used to.

When I went to China and Bali last year and my dating apps exploded. I had too many beautiful Chinese women matching with me but unfortunately I wasn't able to go on as many dates because of schedule conflicts. I was only in China for 2 weeks and only got 5 hookups.

What the hell happened?

>>34666225
She just arrived and the very first thing she asked was if the bar will be showing the world cup matches, and about the germany loss. I fucking knew it. I have to shoot my shot.

>>34673151
Coworker -> "hey you wanna come over and hang/wanna get a drink?" ezpz

>>34673740
You've described the situation we are in very accurately.

I suspect women who have been on and off apps as long as us (since our early 20s, so for ~10 years) just feel total dread for another possible date/fling experience. Every dude talks about exchanging numbered asap.

Doesn't explain the Chinese qts in the west though. Surely they are newer to apps.

Actually... I think I'm right. Matched with a Chinese girl who told me I was her first match from Hinge and we went love bombing each other immediately.

why does tinder have men match with me? ive clearly told it im straight and want women only

>>34673875
You're so valid cutie

>>34673706
>I saw stars and lights when I orgasmed.
Now that's hot.

When you improve your ability to see through people's emotions you get to know how they really feel. Like that one instance your girlfriend was snapping at you, she was just having a bad day. That instance where some girls are refusing to hang out with you, they may prefer just being alone and with a select few friends. You see you got to see through things. Women aren't completely heartless if you just see through things man. I know it is hard, but the truth not the image is your real girlfriend.

>>34673770
There's something off about this situation. We talked very briefly again, because I had a coworker near me, and her interest in football seems naive, asking questions that seem a bit off, as if she were following the world cup trend or feigning interest. It'd be funny, if it were the case, that both of us are pretending to be more into football than in reality, but I'm succeeding and she's barely convincing.
Tomorrow, I'm taking action.

I was talking with a coworker about that girl that gave me her number and then ghosted me and he asked me if I tried calling her... Should I? Feels like people nowadays definitely check their texts and it cannot be an accident.
At the same time I got nothing to lose, right?

>>34674367
You shouldn't give up when you lose.

Hey guys. How do you dodge first dates ideas that the bitch suggested getting food instead of drinks.
I'm about to sperg out and say bitch i don't do first dinner dates ever.
Other possibility is saying we're going out at 8 so i suggest to get dinner first.
Any easy way to dodge or is already lost?
Info on the bitch 24yo Ukrainian I think it's a lost already. Plus i definitely don't wanna do dinner and see her grabbing the cutlery in the dumbest way possible.

>>34673092
sorry, but im a dog and i like to play with bones and they sadly tend to have no boobas.

>>34674367
Texts is plenty, call not needed or recommended even.

>>34674471
I suppose the idea is they might just be using you for the food? I've never had a problem with them.

>>34672049
it's easier and you don't need anything besides the following:
time and perseverance

you internally have a success rate built in
what I mean is every x girl will gve you a chance to talk to them
every x girl will give you a chance to take them on a date

it's mostly fixed
so with that in mind you just have to believe that the chances aren't 0
then, you go out as often as you possbly can and talk to girls
staying positive, wth a large smile on your face

basically the more time you put, the more you wll succeed

note:
prerequisites are havng good grooming and not being scared of social situations

A girl I havent talked in a year reached out to me randomly and asked me how I was doing, what I was up to blah blah and then said if I'm ever in her area she's be down to get some lunch and catch up.

How soon should I make plans that I'm "traveling and going to be in that city for a weekend"? Two months? One Month?

She's about 4 hours away in a major city. I would be going there with my own agenda (not just to go see her) since there's no clarity on if anything will happen.

>>34675221
Idk normalfag have you considered driving at full speed into a tree?

Bump. Seriously if you have ever been on a date swallow a handful of screws.

Bump. Really have you ever considered that you're just an NPC going through a life script always getting your way? I would be embarrassed if I never had to fight for anything in my life. Imagine talking to women and them liking what they hear. Die faggot

Bump. Maybe the reason women are all over you because you're on par with them mentally.

To put it in a way you'll understand: YOU ARE A RETARD

Bump. How to get women? As if women are some prizes and not individuals. But who am I kidding they love making themselves prizes. They reward either a genetic lottery gods nepobaby or the most pathetic of simps. But even the simp has to hit the baseline for being good enough to associate with.

Bump. Really why not just talk to women that love you so much. Why do you faggots come here for advice.
>oh em gee will denice like it if i reference the latest netflix hit or should i neg her here
Die die die

Dating 22+ is so much less fun than dating in the college bubble it's fucking crazy

Here's a reformat: die niggerfaggottrannyjanny D I E

I will continue until all you normalniggers fuck off to reddit or go back to your oh so amazing normalfaggot lives.

Wants some advice? Here's some advice: tie a noose around your neck and jump off an elevated surface.

>>34675315
is this not the how to get women thread?
most people here are normalfags

>>34675387
Exactly and most people here should go back to their amazing lives instead of humblebragging and driving me to suicide.

Someone's having a meltie

>@nigger_above_me
>uh OH MELTIE SOMEONE'S LE SPERGING OUT HEHEHE AM I RIGHTERINO

Y'know that thing we often do when we come across someone really attractive and we try and ignore them completely, partially so we don't give them the satisfaction but also because we're playing a bit hard to get, hoping to get their attention and desire by ostensibly depriving them of ours?

I was never sure if this worked, but now that I myself have become a very attractive man, there's these two cute girls I see every couple weeks on the morning bus that *never* give me the satisfaction of a look or anything, even though 90% of other girls do. I'm not saying they're interested or whatever, I don't care. What I am saying is their utter lack of any attention paid to my looks is in fact driving me crazy, and only making me want them more.

So, y'know, maybe the whole thing does work.

But then of course how am I supposed to approach someone who never gives any signs, if they are doing it to get my attention. So hopefully it isn't that. I just want the satisfaction of the acknowledgement they find me attractive is all.

>>34675392
my situation is hardly great. I havent had sex with anyone in almost 2 years. I go on dates with women and get rejected after the first date. This girl isnt offering sex or anything just telling me she would be down to hangout

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>>34675438
Here's a cure to all your woes, dear vapid normalfriend. <3

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>>34675450
Oh no you just get repeated chances you fumble instead of rotting away with nothing. Poor you. Consider the following.

>>34674471
dinner dates have always been positive for me. They yield good results

>>34675458
>>34675451
Why are you on the thread for people with a chance, mr incel? Maybe stop being so gay, you're scaring away the hoes

>>34674471
Listen to THIS GUY RIGHT Here >>34675490
He's got experience dating various vapid whores and apparently not settling with any of them. He's your love guru, your romance ninja, your dating senpai, your seduction master. Listen to him and you'll surely end up as a vapid manwhore that can't settle despite being desired by women enough for them to talk to I don't fucking care if this sentence is not grammatically correct why should I bother using my brain trying to fit words like puzzles fuck this shit you should all die that's the message
>>34675499
Maybe stop being gay and spend time with those hoes that are all over you instead of gossiping with your buttfucking buddies

>>34675506
No but for real what's your end game brother? Some people are more fortunate than you and can maybe get dates.
Doesn't mean you need to shit up the thread all day, like sorry some anons can maybe get a date every once in a while, didn't mean to hurt your feelings.

>>34675514
>Doesn't mean you need to shit up the thread all day
That's exactly what I'm going to do. I'm helping you maximize your normalfag potential and spend more time in the real world instead of gloating in front of incels like me.

How do I go back to the girl's place to fuck after dancing with her for a lot of time.
Like more specifically what should you say, how can you push to that, etc.

>>34675529
I don't know what to tell you. Rape her on the dance floor? That's clearly what the cheap whore wants.

>>34675529
"Wanna keep hanging at your place?"

>>34675524
Not everything's about you

>>34675559
I said incels - plural. Because this is an incel website and you're not welcome here.

>>34675562
Never was, never will be.

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>>34672602
>wednesday might work
>actually that might be difficult due to my commute
>also I have a funeral
Is she on the spectrum?

>>34675579
I'm becoming skeptical of her interest on your behalf, anon. But hey, I hope I'm wrong and it works out.

>>34675617
I’m definitely skeptical too. But there’s reason not to be. I keep leaving her convenient outs and she keeps sidestepping them.

>too bad you’re busy, maybe another time
>I would really like that

>let me know if you find some time
>how about after the 4th my friend can let out the dogs [first time she mentioned she has dogs] or you could drive 75 minutes to see me [we’ve sent 8 texts to each other so far]

I think she’s interested she just might be autistic. Last week I told her I went to a local amusement park and her response was “did you get burnt”. Really want to meet her and find out if she’s actually weird or if she just texts like she is.

>>34675579
is she trans?

>>34676956
It’s absolutely possible, but if she is, she’s probably not using her own photos.

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talking to a socially awkward girl is a total pain in the ass. i'm constantly having to carry the conversation and reach out to her. she's so vague and dry that it's difficult to know more about her
we've already gone out once and she's really cute and she seems to be into me, but i'm probably gonna stop talking to her if this keeps up
what do, /htgwg/?

How do I get a 8/10+ to let me lick her ass with no strings attached. I’m not opposed to paying but I’m not paying a hooker.

>>34677135
>I’m not opposed to paying but I’m not paying a hooker.
?

>messaging constantly, obviously very into the conversation
>stop talking for a while
>starts messaging me again asking why the conversation ended
>conversation is now very dry and to the point
>saw my last message but didn't reply
>fine, she's ghosted me, not the first time
>move on
>a day later she replies
>still very dry and to the point
What is going on here? Has she lost interest? If so why is she still messaging me? Why leave me on read and then reply a day later?

>>34677142
Like something less nasty like an ig model or even just some chick that’s really cute but not a prostitute.

>>34677155
A hooker is less likely to have fucked a camel or eaten a sheikh's shit than and Instagram model.

I think I fucked up and fumbled, known her for a year and a bit, good friends for seven months, basically talked every day and met up a fair few times IRL.

Her PC broke and now she barely talks to me, was she into me and lost the feels now that I've realised I like her or what? I'm lost asf here

why are you still trying with her lmao. she is clearly letting you down by having all these "events" she has to attend. its like your fucking begging her to hang out

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This piggy agreed to go to a nightclub with me, hence this photo, how do I make it obvious I only want to fuck her or get head on the back of my car? Im planning of my crotch and hand rubbing against her thighs, but should I be more obvious? buy her alcohol?

Chances are you are like me the average annoying person people have to put up with. You're supposed to focus on moving forward in life not worry who or what you appear to people. When you try to move forward you do better compared to getting angry at the world and angry at people. Yes, people hate you, but you have a chance to get them to shrug off what they thought of you and say, "at least he..." yeah you will get that, but only if you try to move forward in life.

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>>34675617
>>34676956
Just did some research and found out she's legit. Not only that but she's a gigastacy. 6100 facebook friends/followers. Meanwhile I didn't get asked to a single sadie hawkins dance in high school.

>>34677146
Can anyone help?

>>34677610
>>34677146
I think she’s waiting for you to ask her out anon. Texting is a mean to this end, not the end.

>>34677614
Problem is inbetween the time we weren't talking I arranged a date with a different girl.

>>34677636
You’re allowed to date more than one unless you’re exclusive with someone.

>>34672054
For better or worse it's disillusioning

>>34677653
Fair but I'm also catastrophising them finding out about each other and ruining my whole life for some reason.

>>34677107
Socially awkward or just not interested. Can't you, you know, go out again?

>>34677549
your a late bloomer innit

>>34675438
a lot of women just prefer not to make eye contact with random men, even "attractive" ones. also they might have noticed you stared at them or glanced at them often, feel awkward about it, and didnt want to encourage it.

>>34671962
They are sissy annoying trouts

>>34677931
>a lot of women just prefer not to make eye contact with random men, even "attractive" ones.
hmm true

>also they might have noticed you stared at them or glanced at them often, feel awkward about it, and didnt want to encourage it.
I've gotten good at watching people in my periphery. I might look at them directly once when they first show up to see if they'll return it and smile, like most do, but if nothing, then I return the favor of trying to show disinterest by not looking at them directly lol

None of this matters anyway, we don't even live in the same city, this is all for self-esteem purposes.

>>34677664
You’re a chad who’s ashamed to be a chad. I get it. Just remember that it probably won’t work out with both of them so you’ll want to have the other if/when it fails with one.

>>34677896
Big time. Typical 4chan autist self improover with boyish good looks.

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The typical advice to get a gf is talking to girls
But how do I find a girl to talk to? They already have friends they are busy with.

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Girl is interested in me for sure, drunk at a party and gave me lots of attention/flirting. Got her number later, and now I'm kind of paralyzed. I feel like I am not who she thinks I am (some dude who has a lot of free time and does cool things). I don't know how to keep up the momentum that lead to me getting her number, I can't imagine hanging with her 1:1. And I sure as hell don't want to awkwardly text her.

is it a bad idea to let things simmer until I see her again? I know I will, we go to the same parties. Or am I basically telling her i'm not interested by not texting (I shot her one message but not starting any convos)

>>34679492
If a chick gives your her number she wants you to get in touch

>>34679508
I KNOW

WHY AM I SUCH A PUSSY

>>34679523
You're not a being a pussy, you're being a guy who has decided that he's lacking...
>I am not [...] some dude who has a lot of free time and does cool things
>I don't know how to keep up the momentum
... and who's not interested
>I can't imagine hanging with her 1:1
>I sure as hell don't want to awkwardly text her
Obviously something doesn't add up here

>>34679543
Context is she's like 7 years younger than me and hangs out a lot with people her age (21-25, I'm almost 30) and is a student. I've only ever seen her with a bunch of her friends around (college town, same hobbies). She's only around till school starts again.

So basically I'm very interested in her, but she definitely seems "young" and I'm not sure how to ask her on a date that wouldn't come off as too heavy. Not sure how to initiate something "casual". Guess I'm nervous about coming off as a weird dude who's too interested in young girls.

>>34679549
>Guess I'm nervous about coming off as a weird dude who's too interested in young girls.
Apparently she doesn't mind

NB:
>21-25, I'm almost 30
Zoomers are funny

>>34679549
>>34679492
For girls that age, in that context, I'd just ask them to come over and hang outright. Put on some TV or some music, offer some alcohol, talk, then you sit/lay down next to her, make a move, and it's on. ezpz

>>34671962
Where to find good pussy

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>>34679637
around the neighborhood, see pic

>>34679551
Yea you're right she doesn't mind, I guess that's why I'm beating myself up over this shit. Always feels like I'm on a tight rope. Doesn't help I've been busy as fuck and now have guests this weekend.

>>34679608
I know we're both going to be at a show tomorrow. What about asking her to a beer beforehand and then hanging at the show, inviting her over after? I want to make some kind of a move because I'll be busy all weekend.

>>34679608
Nice man, How long you been on the sexual offender list

>>34679641
That's fine too. Though personally I'm lazy so I'd just do show -> invite back to my place after, but that depends on how well you got to know her at the party. If not much at all, then yeah, a beer beforehand isn't a bad idea.

>>34679642
just relating my experience.

>>34679639
Cute kitty

>>34679652
Fuck it, fired the text. Better to die trying.

>>34679657
That fact it fits so perfect and snug in that spot will never fail to stimulate endorphins in my brain whenever I look at that picture.

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>>34679639
>tfw no cat to squish
>tfw no titty to slap

>>34679673
Cats are liquid after all

>>34672018
As a successful adult man. They are extremely obvious in public. It's the mannerisms, the little things, that betray them. You don't need to say much. An excuse is just one option of many. The swiftness and confidence quickly overwhelms them. At a place where talking is unusual... talk. Their surprise pulls their fantasy. A couple notes, plucking the strings. They sing like songbirds right on cue. If the tune is right... you could carry her out as she twitches with excitement and shock. All for the male musician.

Was I right for ignoring a hot girl that was flirting with me for a while and was getting annoyed at the fact that I was ignoring her, mostly because her best friend and I don't get along and had some drama and beef for about a year or two and I just didn't trust the dynamic, her best friend has hit me physically and we've both played hot and cold with one another, too long to explain but it was kind of intense, she had obvious BPD.

>>34672018
I don’t get the appeal. They’re so boring. You take her out and she doesn’t even talk.

>hot girl likes me on hinge
>reject the like for various reasons
>one month later come across her in the stack
>like her
>she accepts
>we have a date next week
Wonder if she’ll ask me why I rejected her first.

>>34680386
She probably won't remember seeing you before

How do you guys meet someone you are actually attracted to? Ive been putting myself out there most of my life and the problem is every woman who is interested in me has some massive deal breaker flaw that i cant just work with or fix. The few who arent mentally ill fat whores are already taken and have been for years. Like its insane how often it happens. If i ever meet a woman whose single and shes easy to talk to and actually have stuff going on, she has a man. Every time. I would love to be with someone im actually attracted to but its looking like i either date women im embarrassed to be around, accepting that the reason for this is because i just dont offer enough apparently, or i remain single. I have been single because of this for about 10 years now. I dont want to date someone im not attracted to but the women i am attracted to i think are either out of my league or other guys immediately jump at them and i just dont have a snowball chance in hell.

>>34680418
I also wonder if it took this long for me to find someone that i like how long would i realistically be able to keep her? It seems like 80% or so of women have completely destroyed themselves with their own retardation. They are in short supply. How long would it take for her to cheat if she has unlimited options and realizes i dont. How long would it take tell she realizes shes high value at the moment and im not.

>>34671962
I give up.

>>34671962
women are giving me the ick i'm gonna block them

How do i build an instagram account with no friends?

>>34681019
if you're over the age of 18, why would you want an insta in the first place?

>>34681024
A girl at the gym asked me for my insta once and after i got her number instead she ghosted me, maybe i would have a chance with a good insta account

Another year I physically age, yet I still have not experienced kissing a girls bare feet, let alone being on a date with a girl. The older I get the more upset I am. I’m considered a pedophile for wanting to date 18 year olds at my age even though they are adults and I’ve been trying since I was 13. Suicide sounds better than being forced to watch others get what I always wanted.

>>34680395
Lucky me then

>>34680418
Apps

>>34673665
Same except for me I think it's not autism, cause I'm not autistic except maybe a very little bit. It might be cause I was born in Russia and we don't have the American culture of smiling all the time.
I'm actually decent at getting laid, but I feel like I might be better if I learned how to smile more.
I remember I asked ChatGPT about how to learn it a while ago and it seemed like it had some good ideas, but I don't remember what they were at the moment. So you might want to try asking an AI.

>>34681166
Have you been trying to meet girls? If not, what's stopping you? If you have been, how does it go?

Went on the first date with 30yo petite Muslim big boobs chick.
We hitted it off and got some kisses after this date. Potentially will see her again and try to score by third date at the latest.

>>34681628
The hottest women I see are at the drive thru windows but they always look annoyed and not interested and close the window before I can make a move. At work they reject me (almost everyone is married to eachother at work and hookup from work).
So where am I supposed to meet 18 year olds without being labeled a pedophile? Really don’t want people posting videos of me on SM claiming I’m a predator. I’ve never been on a date in my life.

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>>34681739
>The hottest women I see are at the drive thru windows
Real.

>>34681745
Who ever got to worship her feet is the luckiest person alive. She’s a old whore now.

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>>34671962
>>34671992
How do I get women to kill themselves instead of making society a problem for everyone?

>>34681739
1. Broaden the set of places where you interact with women.
2. Don't know how old you are, but past a certain age it's not possible for you to try to meet exclusively 18 year olds without being labeled a pedophile. Consider trying to get with women who are a bit older than 18.

choose a kind woman that finds it difficult to resent you for your flaws and misbehavior

if every woman hold contempt for you, then do not commit to them

if a woman sees you as her leader, you must have self discipline and maintain integrity. Otherwise, you trample this wonderful gift. Destroy it with dysfunction and dishonor

>>34681879
Zach, is that you?

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Would anyone recommend cold approaching women just to ramble on about various schizoshit? I feel like eventually one of them would become my gf

>>34681936
No, I am another thinker and information relayer

This is totally what every man ought to do. Not commit to some nagging hag who detracts from life's peace.

I see too many nasty personalities when I visit public. The bickering, cheap shots, and mistreatment all types of couples do is horrible

Any contempt, and leave her.

If she doesn't like you, she will plainly show it with resentment and contempt within 1 month of dating.

of she likes you, she'll do foolish things for you and with you. Be careful and don't lead her astray just because you can. Don't sodomize her just because you can. Walk a wholesome path.

>>34681745
>The hottest women I see are at the drive thru windows

Because they are 15. The light hasnt died in their eyes yet, the real world hasnt beaten them bitter and hateful. I hear this a lot and i get examples like the girl in the video(who if i remember correctly was confirmed to be 16) and it just shows people want a not fat, no tattoos, healthy happy woman who doesnt hate the world around her. Issue is our society is engineered, literally designed to do that, to make everyone fat and hateful and ugly. So the only ones who are spared of that are too young to get affected by it yet.

Its absolutely bullshit and i wish our society was more healthy and less self destructive.

>>34682271
This
When did we start confusing bitterness and anger for wisdom and experience?

>>34682271
yes, I have come to accept immigrants from India, Nigeria, PH, and basically every because they are happier and often have healthier families than Canadians I observe in the prairies.

>Date cancelled because her cat is sick
>I'll contact you FIRST to reschedule"
She's never going to contact me again is she?
I feel like such an idiot for wasting all this time.

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>get liked on hinge
>chubby girl
>cleavage in first three photos
>long-term relationship, open to short

>>34671962
last semester at college there was a girl who laughed at all my jokes so I got the balls to ask her out after class, it actually worked out for me and though we only dated for a few months, it was my first girlfriend in years.

I'm thinking now to just take it easy, focus on school and get my degree, go to law school and become a lawyer, and eventually along the way i'll get more chances at securing "the one".

Is this a good strategy? Or should I be more proactive in finding a partner? I do get kinda lonely..

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What's the secret to defeating this thing?

Literally every single time I see a girl I find remotely attractive, I find she's been staring straight down for the last 20 minutes

I know when they're like this I have to practically scream to get their attention

Where do women go in public to not look at their phone?

>got laid off last fall
>too broke to go on dates
>too broke to pay for a good hooker
What am I supposed to turn to?

>>34677363
Try to talk to her often again.

>>34682271
I don’t find old women attractive, I don’t find tattoos and piercings attractive. I don’t find smoking, drugs and alcohol attractive. I don’t find obesity attractive. I don’t find non whites attractive.

>>34677549
Man who gives a shit how many followers they got, so many people means they don't even know who most of them are.

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low cost date ideas? starbucks is starting to get expensive

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i boughted plat, its quite addicting.

>>34681035
people like her are not worth your time. instagram, snapchat, etc are for people who never grew up after high school. it's worse when they get the ick when someone says they don't use it

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>go on my second date ever
>cute girl
>she seems to have enjoyed it and seems into me
>get ghosted just like my first date
>on the side i've been using my daily hinge likes every day for weeks
>one match and no likes
>match ghosted me
i just can't ever win. i fucking hate my life. i deserve nothing but the best after everything i had to go through up till now, but god refuses to let that happen and continues to favor the undeserving