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>old contact reaches out
>know old contact has information of girl I liked in a previous time
>know said girl is almost guaranteed single
Do I ask for her information and pursue her (likely a joint meetup with the old contact and his girlfriend first) or would this be too contrived and awkward? If to pursue her, then would going out to my city's historic district (picrel) be a good place to go out to?
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>>34680430
Yeah. Do all that.
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there's nothing more appealing to women than someone who didn't ask for their number directly getting it from a third party
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>>34680435
Alright, but might I ask, how do I judge someone's interest, when I was in contact with said girl, she would sometimes look over at me, occasionally smile too. The thing is that I do not think I am attractive, but I do notice some girls do it often to me, some choose to sit near me too when I am in university or otherwise out in public. I make nothing of this right now, but perhaps some input.

Was she attracted to me then? Could there be a chance that such still holds up today after nearly three and a half years.
>>34680441
So what you are saying is to meet up with her (and the guy and his gf), hang out, sense things and get a phone number (if all is well), in that order, so for it to be direct. Right?
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>>34680454
If she shows up, she’s interested. You already got this, Anon!
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>>34680458
Thank you.

I might as well add that the rumours were back then that she really wanted a bf, but she tends to be a bit of a shut in playing vidya and watching anime. She also was at least a 6 or 7/10 if you asked me (I need to remind myself of the details and I only have a singular picture of her from those times, but I found her to be pretty).
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>>34680454
why not? as a girl something like this would be nice to receive even if I didn't like the person. "hey long time no see, I caught up with >contact and his girlfriend< the other day and we were talking about you. I found you really cute and cool back then, was wondering if you'd like to grab a coffee and catch up, no pressure if not."

if she says no you'll have your answer. if she takes it poorly you'll have dodged a bullet

you'll be fine anon, hope it goes well for you
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>>34680717
Then I will, but first I will talk to my contact first to have a plan. I like what you have said, though.
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>>34680430
Yeah, why not? Don't get in your own way, anon.
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>>34682467
I just reach out to the contact. Now I will wait.



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